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vent vent vent!!!

futuremrshackneyfuturemrshackney member
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I have a friend who casually stops by at about 11:30 am every couple of days or so.  He doesn't call ahead, he doesn't ask, he just appears.  DH and I  both work 2nd shift.  DH is usually up at 11 but I'm still fast asleep until about 12-12:30. 

It was annoying before I was pregnant, but now waking up and laying in bed ready to pee myself and trying to keep from throwing up is getting ridiculous!!  I look crazy, my hair is everywhere, and god knows what I'm wearing and I come down stairs to a "guest".

I really dont' want to hurt his feelings... hes sensitive, but my god, wouldn't common sense tell you this isn't a good idea? I never just pop in at someones house.  We've tried not answering the door for a few days, and he just comes everyday until we do. I know that its immature that I don't just tell him... but I don't know how to do it without hurting his feelings.  What would you say??

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  • rider5344rider5344 member
    Tell him that it's just to early and with you being pregnant you need your rest.  You are all adults and this should not be an issue.
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  • c.sholunc.sholun
    I would have blasted this guy by now, lol!! But try asking him to call first, tell him you feel uncomfortable being sick in front of him or anyone else for that matter, and as much as you *enjoy* his company, sometimes its just not a good time.
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  • futuremrshackneyfuturemrshackney member

    Thanks ladies...

    I think more than anything I just needed to let that out. DH totally agrees and is also annoyed by the infamous "pop in". This person has a cell phone, and I honestly believe he doesn't call ahead of time because he suspects we a.) won't answer or b.) will say its not a good time.

    DH also feels like I do, in that its hard to tell this friend anything without hurting his feelings.  However one of us, and I'm assuming it will be me, because its "my friend" will have to man up and tell him. blech.

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  • babyonthebrain2010babyonthebrain2010
    omgsh! yeah, I'd either flat our tell him to stop showing up or stop answering the door, altogether..
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