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Do I look like a porn star?

ejlynchejlynch
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So, last night DH and I were having our sexy time. We were doing it 'doggie style' when out of no where DH grabs my arms, pulls them back and uses them as leverge to thrust. Never has he does this before! I quickly stop him, b/c it was slightly painful and not pleasurable.

DH: "you don't like that"

Me: "no, not really, kind of hurts, where did you get that from?"

DH: "the porno I watched last night"

Me: "Do I look like a porn star?"

DH: :::blank stare:::

Me: "Didn't think so!"

Has anyone else's DH pull off a surprise move he saw from a porno? And if so, did you like it?

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  • LadyXaverianLadyXaverian member
    imageejlynch:

    So, last night DH and I were having our sexy time. We were doing it 'doggie style' when out of no where DH grabs my arms, pulls them back and uses them as leverge to thrust. Never has he does this before! I quickly stop him, b/c it was slightly painful and not pleasurable.

    DH: "you don't like that"

    Me: "no, not really, kind of hurts, where did you get that from?"

    DH: "the porno I watched last night"

    Me: "Do I look like a porn star?"

    DH: :::blank stare:::

    Me: "Didn't think so!"

    Has anyone else's DH pull off a surprise move he saw from a porno? And if so, did you like it?

    LOL! .. but you lost me at, "The porno I watched last night." If my husband looks at porn, which I'm sure he does/has at some point (duh), we've never discussed it, so I think my jaw would hit the floor if those words ever came out of his mouth.

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  • tosh24tosh24 member
    lol! That's too funny. DH hasn't pulled a move like that out of thin air before but I wouldn't put it past him! Time shall tell, I guess!
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  • ejlynchejlynch
    Haha....I know that my DH watches prono's. I even watch it with him some times, get's me all hot and bothered! But, DH really surprised me when he pulled out a move like that!
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    imageejlynch:
    Haha....I know that my DH watches prono's. I even watch it with him some times, get's me all hot and bothered! But, DH really surprised me when he pulled out a move like that!

    DH doesn't really watch a lot of pornos...he used to more when he was single/we were dating. But, if we're watching TV late at night and one comes on we'll both watch it. You're the only other girl that I've heard confess to that. I thought I was the only one!

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    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
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  • ams8099ams8099 member
    I am sure her has tried things from porm, but I've never really noticed. Then again we watch it together . Wink
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  • qtsreignqtsreign member

    Shiit, I wish mine would pull a porn-style move every once in a while.

    Perhaps this belongs over in flame free confessions...

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  • bandwife928bandwife928 member
    imageqtsreign:

    Shiit, I wish mine would pull a porn-style move every once in a while.

    Perhaps this belongs over in flame free confessions...

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  • soontobemrsdavissoontobemrsdavis member
    Yes he definitely has tried some tricks..shoot I've tried some myself..lol. I don't remember if he actually admitted it was from porn though and yea some are really good others not so much

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  • MissLadyTayMissLadyTay member
    MH has done that arm-grab thing to me before.  It's kind of like a surprise attack.  It didn't bother me, once I got over the shock of falling head first into the pillows.  I assume that most of what we do he has seen in porn at one point or another.  I'm pretty sure he watched quite a bit of it in college.
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  • LauraOTRLauraOTR member
    The only thing I think he's gotten from a porn is aggressively "patting" down there, kind of like porn stars do to themselves when they're getting it from behind. As if that's supposed to feel good. He did that crap one time, and I explained that doesn't feel good, that the porn stars must do it because they've lost all sensation and have to slap themselves in the vag to get any feeling. He hasn't done it since.
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  • ejlynchejlynch

    imageLauraOTR:
    The only thing I think he's gotten from a porn is aggressively "patting" down there, kind of like porn stars do to themselves when they're getting it from behind. As if that's supposed to feel good. He did that crap one time, and I explained that doesn't feel good, that the porn stars must do it because they've lost all sensation and have to slap themselves in the vag to get any feeling. He hasn't done it since.

    Hahaha....DH has tried this too and it does not feel good.

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  • ConnCottagerConnCottager

    imageLauraOTR:
    The only thing I think he's gotten from a porn is aggressively "patting" down there, kind of like porn stars do to themselves when they're getting it from behind. As if that's supposed to feel good. He did that crap one time, and I explained that doesn't feel good, that the porn stars must do it because they've lost all sensation and have to slap themselves in the vag to get any feeling. He hasn't done it since.

    There are so many things that I think men think are sexy because it's what they've seen in a porno. Some things are hot, some things not so much. I'm also not a big fan of the waxed clean look - all I can think of is how red and raw those poor women look. No thanks.

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  • ChiShiMamaChiShiMama
    Hair pulling...which sometimes is ok.  I'm pretty sure that when I've gone and gotten my hair cut above my shoulders a small part of DH is sad--ha. When I ask "so do you like it?" I get that "Sure, if you like it I like it" answer. 
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  • steff13914steff13914
    Nope! My DH doesn't watch porn (not that I know of anyway!) If he did he definitely wouldn't tell me or try a move! He knows I'd boycott sex for a LONG time. I have very strong views against porn, he respects me enough to not do that.
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    imageejlynch:
    Haha....I know that my DH watches prono's. I even watch it with him some times, get's me all hot and bothered! But, DH really surprised me when he pulled out a move like that!

    DH doesn't really watch a lot of pornos...he used to more when he was single/we were dating. But, if we're watching TV late at night and one comes on we'll both watch it. You're the only other girl that I've heard confess to that. I thought I was the only one!

    Nope. I was really uptight about porn when we got married (and frankly a lot of other things too. I can't imagine how he managed to not roll his eyes so hard they popped out at some of my complaints early on)... but I got over it. I think I just spent so much time on the internet and hanging out with guy gamers (we both play WoW) that talking about things like porn and cussing and bathroom humor eventually hit a point where I could swear off the internet and gaming all together or get over myself.

    I got over myself.

    DH hasn't ever pulled a move specifically from a porno. He's too vanilla. Has a strong streak of "must treat the girl like a lady" that I had to train him out of in the bedroom. There's only so much tepid polite sex that any girl should have to endure. 

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  • pinkflipflops44pinkflipflops44 member
    i am dying laughing here.. dh is convinced EVERYONE does certain things because of porn.. i have informed hiim otherwise
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