Babies: 3 - 6 Months

This isn't a joke...

DH and I went to a BBQ Sunday and I met a lady there who has a 8 month old baby girl. Very nice lady and beautiful little baby. I was feeding Dominic sweet peas, and asked her what kinds of food her LO eats. (Be prepared)...

She said she eats everything but baby food. She said she loves double cheese burgers, fries, nuggets, tacos, steak, chicken, ect....I couldn't believe it until the pulled pork was done and she fed it to her baby. This meat was oily and spicy and I couldn't believe my eyes. Well, she pulled out a bottle and I noticed the brown color liquid, it was COKE!!!!! The baby didn't even have a tooth yet, how the heck does she chew all this stuff. I felt bad for her :(

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  • The soda in the bottle pisses me off.  The steak and chicken and spicy stuff, not so much, though.
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  • Indifferent Soda in a bottle!!! How irresponsible!
  • I call MUD on this one.
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  • That is disgusting! Poor baby
  • I once saw someone fill a bottle with Mountain Dew.  Some people have no brains.
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  • That is very sad.  I wonder if the baby is getting any well-baby care.  Certainly her pediatrician would have mentioned to her that those foods are not appropriate for an 8 month old baby. 
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    I call MUD on this one.

    I'm sorry you call MUD on me? lol You obviously don't know who I am. It's okay I forgive you ;)

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  • OMG! 

    Another horror story:  My cousins new wife is 6 months preg & she has been tanning!!!  She's even an educated woman, so I can't even blame her ignorance on not being educated!  She claims she's done the research & it's fine to tan whle pregnant!  Indifferent

  • imageocho2002:
    I call MUD on this one.

    Not MUD.  This is a new user name for a regular poster--her old account got hacked.  She's not a newb looking to start stuff.  

  • IndifferentThat poor child is doomed.
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  • working with at-risk youth, I often come across teen parents who think nothing of putting Kool Aid or pop in a baby's bottle.  The youngest I've heard of them doing this is about 3-4 months. We do our best to teach them the right things to feed their babies and hope it works.  This world is messed up and there are a LOT of stupid, ignorant people.  That poor baby.

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  • Wow!  I am at a loss for words...
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  • What?!?! WHY would you give an 8-month-old soda? It's bad enough when they're old enough to ask for it, but seriously, when you have TOTAL control over what they consume, you're giving them soda? I'm sure that's going to be a reallllll healthy child. :-/
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    That is very sad.  I wonder if the baby is getting any well-baby care.  Certainly her pediatrician would have mentioned to her that those foods are not appropriate for an 8 month old baby. 

    The crazy thing is, this baby girl was tiny!!! She was not over weight at all. The mom said her mom fed her the same, so she figued it was fine.

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  • I'm usually not one to judge someone's parenting choices, but putting soda in a bottle just isn't right. My sister and cousin both did this. [shakes head]
  • Wow. Just wow. That is all I can say. Coke in a bottle. Wow.

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    OMG! 

    Another horror story:  My cousins new wife is 6 months preg & she has been tanning!!!  She's even an educated woman, so I can't even blame her ignorance on not being educated!  She claims she's done the research & it's fine to tan whle pregnant!  Indifferent

    I JUST posted on this the other day! I went to the tanner myself on Sunday for the first time in years (my sis is getting married and I'm wearing a strapless dress) and the manager that was there was 37 weeks pregnant and was dark as a leather bag. She also tried to tell me that it was fine because the rays didn't penetrate to baby--as long as you didn't get too hot while you were in the bed. Ugh.
  • This will certainly lead to obesity issues in the future.  So sad.
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    imageocho2002:
    I call MUD on this one.

    Not MUD.  This is a new user name for a regular poster--her old account got hacked.  She's not a newb looking to start stuff.  

    Thanks mama :)

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  • That is terrible. I don't even give soda to my 3 year old. On rare occasion I'll let him get a root beer at a restaurant. (very rare) My SIL gives her 3 year old diet coke.
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    imagemistywhite400:

    OMG! 

    Another horror story:  My cousins new wife is 6 months preg & she has been tanning!!!  She's even an educated woman, so I can't even blame her ignorance on not being educated!  She claims she's done the research & it's fine to tan whle pregnant!  Indifferent

    I JUST posted on this the other day! I went to the tanner myself on Sunday for the first time in years (my sis is getting married and I'm wearing a strapless dress) and the manager that was there was 37 weeks pregnant and was dark as a leather bag. She also tried to tell me that it was fine because the rays didn't penetrate to baby--as long as you didn't get too hot while you were in the bed. Ugh.

    I use to manage a tanning salon and saw this all the time :(

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    imageocho2002:
    I call MUD on this one.

    Not MUD.  This is a new user name for a regular poster--her old account got hacked.  She's not a newb looking to start stuff.  

    Thanks mama :)

    You know I have your back! You're the original Bump MILF! Although I hesitate to say that given the craziness that went down with your old account.....don't want you to think I'm the psycho who hacked into your stuff to steal your pictures. LOL!
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    imageSamsMom91:
    That is very sad.  I wonder if the baby is getting any well-baby care.  Certainly her pediatrician would have mentioned to her that those foods are not appropriate for an 8 month old baby. 

    The crazy thing is, this baby girl was tiny!!! She was not over weight at all. The mom said her mom fed her the same, so she figued it was fine.

     

    Just goes to show that looking healthy and being healthy are two very different things.

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    That is terrible. I don't even give soda to my 3 year old. On rare occasion I'll let him get a root beer at a restaurant. (very rare) My SIL gives her 3 year old diet coke.

    Ugh! Diet Coke? Thats worse in my opininon...all that aspartame and artificial stuff!

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    imagemistywhite400:

    OMG! 

    Another horror story:  My cousins new wife is 6 months preg & she has been tanning!!!  She's even an educated woman, so I can't even blame her ignorance on not being educated!  She claims she's done the research & it's fine to tan whle pregnant!  Indifferent

    I JUST posted on this the other day! I went to the tanner myself on Sunday for the first time in years (my sis is getting married and I'm wearing a strapless dress) and the manager that was there was 37 weeks pregnant and was dark as a leather bag. She also tried to tell me that it was fine because the rays didn't penetrate to baby--as long as you didn't get too hot while you were in the bed. Ugh.

    People are stupid!  I'm sure if you look hard enough you can find someone to support tanning while pregnant, but it sure doesn't make it right or healthy!!  People need to get over themselve! if you can't be selfless for your child..it's so sad!

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    imageSamsMom91:

    imageocho2002:
    I call MUD on this one.

    Not MUD.  This is a new user name for a regular poster--her old account got hacked.  She's not a newb looking to start stuff.  

    Thanks mama :)

    You know I have your back! You're the original Bump MILF! Although I hesitate to say that given the craziness that went down with your old account.....don't want you to think I'm the psycho who hacked into your stuff to steal your pictures. LOL!
    I read about that situation yesterday. Creeeeepy! I'm sorry OP. I'll keep an eye out for your pictures. Nice to have you back though.
  • DH and I were out for a walk last weekend and got some ice cream. There were parents standing outside holding a very obese baby who couldn't have been more than 7 or 8 months old and feeding him ice cream.

    My SIL was the same way. I met my niece on Easter a few years back-she was born in September so she was probably about 7 months at the time. They fed the baby easter dinner and soda. She got very little formula and was mostly eating "people food". She's 3 now and wears 5T clothes.

    This happens more often than you think.

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  • imageHollywood214:

    DH and I went to a BBQ Sunday and I met a lady there who has a 8 month old baby girl. Very nice lady and beautiful little baby. I was feeding Dominic sweet peas, and asked her what kinds of food her LO eats. (Be prepared)...

    She said she eats everything but baby food. She said she loves double cheese burgers, fries, nuggets, tacos, steak, chicken, ect....I couldn't believe it until the pulled pork was done and she fed it to her baby. This meat was oily and spicy and I couldn't believe my eyes. Well, she pulled out a bottle and I noticed the brown color liquid, it was COKE!!!!! The baby didn't even have a tooth yet, how the heck does she chew all this stuff. I felt bad for her :(

    My brother didn't get a tooth until 18 months and he was gumming everything, so it is possible, their gums just get really hard.

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    That is terrible. I don't even give soda to my 3 year old. On rare occasion I'll let him get a root beer at a restaurant. (very rare) My SIL gives her 3 year old diet coke.

    Ugh! Diet Coke? Thats worse in my opininon...all that aspartame and artificial stuff!

    I agree! I can't really say anything to her because she gets very defensive. I just keep my mouth shut but I cringe when I see him drinking it. Does she think it's ok because it's diet?? Diet soda isn't even great to drink as adults. (Not saying that I never have) People just dont think.
  • Eh, the real food...whatever.  The soda - bad idea.  It just creates bad habits for your kids.
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    imageSamsMom91:

    imageocho2002:
    I call MUD on this one.

    Not MUD.  This is a new user name for a regular poster--her old account got hacked.  She's not a newb looking to start stuff.  

    Thanks mama :)

    You know I have your back! You're the original Bump MILF! Although I hesitate to say that given the craziness that went down with your old account.....don't want you to think I'm the psycho who hacked into your stuff to steal your pictures. LOL!

    LMBO!!!!!! I wish you were my "stalker"....

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    Wow indeed! I don't even want to give juice to my kid anytime soon let alone coke! That's just too much, she is setting that child up for some health issues!
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  • Babies in other cultures eat strong spices, spicy foods, etc. whenever they start eating soft solids/finger foods.  We dumb down food for babies in America.  Its no wonder there are so many children that will only eat chicken nuggets and mac and cheese.  I'm not saying go and lace your kid's baby food with habanero peppers, but spices aren't entirely evil.

    Fatty food is also a MEH to me.  Babies don't need a low-fat diet.  Its probably not wise to feed them saturated fats all the time, but an occasional amount of beef/pork/chicken fat isn't going to kill them.

     

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  • OMFG....that just p!sses me off so bad. That is child abuse IMO.Super Angry
  • Yikes!!!!!!  The things folk do!  Two of my co-workers said I'm starving my baby by not giving him food yet.  Um, he does have solids, but I'm not going to force the stuff down this throat, he's content.
  • When my oldest was in a home daycare as an infant, there was another infant Mom who brought in kool-aid for the baby's bottle.  She knew it wasn't a great idea but didn't have the money for formula.  The babysitter lied and told her that the state wouldn't allow her to feed the baby kool-aid (not actually a rule...because it shouldn't need to be.)  I gave her a few opened canisters of formula that DS couldn't tolerate.  She left the daycare not long after for a cheaper place.  I think about that little boy every now and then.

    My father gave my brother sips of his coke all the time when he was little.  My mom would always freak out and yell about it...but he did it to keep my brother quiet when mom wasn't looking.  He ended up having cavities in every single baby tooth!  (Oh, and my parents ended up divorced.)

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    She said she eats everything but baby food. She said she loves double cheese burgers, fries, nuggets, tacos, steak, chicken, ect....I couldn't believe it until the pulled pork was done and she fed it to her baby. This meat was oily and spicy and I couldn't believe my eyes. Well, she pulled out a bottle and I noticed the brown color liquid, it was COKE!!!!! The baby didn't even have a tooth yet, how the heck does she chew all this stuff. I felt bad for her :(

    My youngest has never had baby food.  Our choices are healthier, but there is nothing wrong with giving a child real food.  He has had chicken, meatloaf, lasagna, turkey burgers, fruits, and vegetables.  He likes spicy food.  He has only two teeth.  Babies chew with their gums.  If you wait until your baby has a mouthful of teeth to feed them real food you might be waiting a long time.   Of course I will never give him soda, but that is not exactly child abuse. 

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  • Oh, so you met my trashy SIL!

    My poor, sweet niece is the same way. She's been eating McDonalds and Coke out of bottles for months -- she's 14 months old. At 3.5 months, she was eating rice cereal by the BOWL FULL. Not just a few tablespoons, but at least a cup or two. Oh, and the teething biscuits. At 3 months.

    And she thinks I'M crazy for still BFing. And not starting solids til 6 months.

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    imagemistywhite400:

    OMG! 

    Another horror story:  My cousins new wife is 6 months preg & she has been tanning!!!  She's even an educated woman, so I can't even blame her ignorance on not being educated!  She claims she's done the research & it's fine to tan whle pregnant!  Indifferent

    I JUST posted on this the other day! I went to the tanner myself on Sunday for the first time in years (my sis is getting married and I'm wearing a strapless dress) and the manager that was there was 37 weeks pregnant and was dark as a leather bag. She also tried to tell me that it was fine because the rays didn't penetrate to baby--as long as you didn't get too hot while you were in the bed. Ugh.

    Actually this is sort of true, I was told by my doctor to use a tanning bed during the end of my pregnancy for medical reasons (the bed was a uv lamp in a doctor's office, not a tanning salon).  They said it wouldn't hurt the baby unless I got too hot.  I didn't do it, I ended up being induced, and I didn't want to even sort of risk anything, but the doctor did say it was ok!

  • imageSamsMom91:
    imagemistywhite400:

    OMG! 

    Another horror story:  My cousins new wife is 6 months preg & she has been tanning!!!  She's even an educated woman, so I can't even blame her ignorance on not being educated!  She claims she's done the research & it's fine to tan whle pregnant!  Indifferent

    I JUST posted on this the other day! I went to the tanner myself on Sunday for the first time in years (my sis is getting married and I'm wearing a strapless dress) and the manager that was there was 37 weeks pregnant and was dark as a leather bag. She also tried to tell me that it was fine because the rays didn't penetrate to baby--as long as you didn't get too hot while you were in the bed. Ugh.

    I never tan but I just wanted to throw it out there that there isn't any conclusive evidence that it does penetrate the fetus. It isn't as if you don't walk outside on a sunny day in fear of UV rays. It isn't any different than sitting out in the sun. You just have to be careful not to get too hot.

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