Trying to Get Pregnant

Saying Goodbye For A Bit :(

As some of you know, DH and I have hit a rough patch. I don't know if we're going to get through it. I'm starting counseling this week, and hoping that it will help. Needless to say, a baby right now is out of the question. I'm going to feel lost without you ladies as well as not TTC, but it is not in the best interest for a child we may have to come now. I'm trying my hardest to work this out, but from DH's side he just has let me fight this alone and I don't have the strength anymore. I will miss you ladies terribly. I wish everyone the best, and hope you all will be mommies soon. You ladies are the best!!! GL and God bless to all!!!
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  • Sorry to hear this hon. I hope everything works out!
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  • i'm so sorry to hear this.  good luck with everything and i will be thinking of you and hoping no matter what happens it will be for the best!
  • So sorry! I hope you guys can get through it. Good luck with the counseling and everything!
  • I am sorry to see you go. I really enjoy all of your posts and will miss you. I hope everything works out for the best. T&Ps
  • I haven't been around for very long, but I wanted to say I hope everything works out for the best. ?
  • I'm so sorry to hear this!  You will be in my thoughts and prayers.  I'll miss you!  (((hugs))) 

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  • Good luck with everything. Even though I'm sure it's hard, it sounds like you are doing the right thing. Hang in there.
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  • I am so sorry for what you are going through right now. I can't imagine how hard it must be. I hope things work out for you and your husband. You're making a very responsible decision, and I really respect that.

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  • Sending many ((hugs)) your way.  I hope that everything works out for the best.  I am so sorry that you are going through this tough time. 

  • This makes me sad!  I wish you the best of luck.
  • THinking of you, you are doing what is best for you, take care!
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  • You are in my thoughts and prayers
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    All the best to you, Doozer...
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  • I've been thinking about you a lot lately, dooz.

    Ever since that post where you disclosed what was going on, I've been sad for you.

    I am so very sorry you're going through this but you're tough and you'll be ok no matter what the out come.

    Take care of yourself. 


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  • Awe! I'm so sorry. I have enjoyed our vampire discussions! I hope everything works out for you. T&P
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  • Sorry-hopefully everything works out for you!
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    My thoughts and prayers go out to you.  Hope you can work through this and that you both end up happy in the end. 
  • I'm so sorry! Good luck with everything and hopefully we will see you back here soon!
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  • I'm so sorry, doozer.  Hope you guys can work it out.
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  • Oh, honey.. I'm so sorry to hear this. I sincerely hope you and YH are able to work it out, and that maybe we'll see you back here sometime soon. Good for you for giving yourself a much needed break from the stresses of TTC. I wish you all the best!


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  • I hope everything works out for the best. ((hugs))
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  • I am very sorry to hear this hon.  I will be thinking of you and I hope everything works out for the best.  ((hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry, Doozer. I wish you all the best and hope that you and your husband can work things out. We'll miss you! Take care of yourself.
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  • I'm so sorry hun, I hope you are able to find some peace whatever that may be. (((hugs)))
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  • I hope everything works out and you return soon. Best wishes to you.
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  • Oh no! I am so sorry to hear this and so sad to see you go for a while. Prayers to you and YH. Hang in there hun! Things will get better. Just when you think rock bottom is hit, it gets better. 
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    im sorry to hear...

    i hope everything works out

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  • I really respect how you are taking the well-being of your future child into account in all of this. I can't imagine what you are going through, but I wish you all the best in everything and hope we see you back again under better circumstances. (((hugs)))

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  • T&P's to you. I know I am new, but you seem like a really strong person and that you are making the right decision. GL with everything and hope to see you back soon!
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  • We will miss you dearly. I hope everything works out for you.
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  • I am sorry to hear this but I completely understand.  You will be missed.  I hope all works out for you, GL!!!!
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  • Sorry Doozer. I hope things get better between you and DH.
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  • I hope you guys can work through this. Good luck!
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  • Take care of yourself!  You will be missed around here, please keep us informed about how you are doing.  T&P, girlie.
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    I'm sorry to see you leave. I wish you the best, and I hope everything works out for you.
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  • Best wishes and I hope things get better for you.
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  • Good luck working things out. Do what's best for you. I know it may be hard to be here, but if you need the support, please stick around.
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  • Sorry to hear this, but you are making a very mature decision!  My DH and I are currently doing the same - we stopped TTC in Feb., but I've still been here lurking.  We've made major improvements, and I hope that this break will be exactly what you guys need :)  Best of luck, we're always here for ya!
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  • Oh my gosh I am so sorry to hear this :(  I really hope you and your husband are able to work through all of your issues.  It's great that you are going to counseling. My thoughts are with you and I hope to see you back really soon!
  • I really hate to hear this, but I hate it even more that you are going through such a difficult time.  You will be terribly missed on here.  I wish you nothing but the best.  Good luck with everything.
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