What to do

MEOWMEKINS · May 2010

So last night I saw my ex husband at the gas station,he was kissing some girl who I know is not his wife.I am positive it was him because I know his work truck.I dont think he saw me because his face was stuck in hers.I think it is so wrong to cheat(but he cheated on me with the girl he is now married to)so do I say anything to him or to his wife?I dont care for the wife since she knew about me and the kids and that didnt stop her from sleeping with him anyways,but I still dont think its right to do to her.Even though I dont care for her I dont wish that on anyone.What do you all think I should do.i guess its not really my business but us girls gotta look out for each other.

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jpowell3 · May 2010

Well, the wife probably won't believe you. I would just e-mail her with what you saw that way you don't have to be confrontational. She can do what she wants with the info you gave her. The ball would be in her court then & at least you did everything you could.

Mrs.Astros_Fan · May 2010

InternetExplorer:

I would definately report this behavior to StarFleet Command.

Beam up immediately and make a thorough report.

LOL!

hterry85 · May 2010

InternetExplorer:

I would definately report this behavior to StarFleet Command.

Beam up immediately and make a thorough report.

Are you SURE you're not MH?? Stick out tongue

duchessofdeuce · May 2010

If you have a civil relationship with her I would just kindly say that you saw someone who resembled him in that situation. I wouldn't think that identifying a work truck would be enough for me if someone said they saw my DH. Then again, if his work truck is the only one like it I suppose it could be a different story.

If you don't have a civil communicable relationship with her then I wouldn't bother. Lord knows I would just eye roll at BM if she claimed that.

flippy1234 · May 2010

I would ignore it.. unless you have a good relationship w/ her

DREWLILY · May 2010

You should mind your own business. This is your ex. If it was your best friend's husband, that would be one thing. But it isn't, so mind your own business.

luckyangel · May 2010

DREWLILY:
You should mind your own business. This is your ex. If it was your best friend's husband, that would be one thing. But it isn't, so mind your own business.

curlilocks1207 · May 2010

I think the only reason you would want to tell his wife would be to hurt her and get back at her for what they did to you. Don't believe for a second it is out of the goodness of your heart. Mind your own business.

fauxshelley · May 2010

I think you're making it all up just to get attention. I'd bet his current wife would agree. Maybe you hate him and want to ruin his life just like you hate the BM and want to take her kids away. You're trying to teach them both a lesson.

karatechrissy · May 2010

I agree with InternetExplorer.

You keep saying you don't care and bla bla bla well then why do you even need to ask? He's not married to you, he's not hurting you, it's not your business. You need counseling, all you want to do is ruin people's lives and hurt them.

You seem to like the DrAmA. Get over yourself.

ScissorTailedFlycatcher · May 2010

Is your space bar broken? I can't read that crap.

karatechrissy · May 2010

shortyred919:
Is your space bar broken? I can't read that crap.

girl, go read previous posts of hers. At least she used spell check this time.

gasper · May 2010

Must have an awfully big spoon to reach the bottom of the huge pot of sh*t you seem to stir constantly.

MEOWMEKINS · May 2010

Thank you to the ladies who were not rude and snotty(the 2 or 3 of you), to the rest of you I guess if your husband was cheating then it would be ok, but then I guess you would deserve it since you are rude.And yes i do have a great relationship with my x and yes I do have a space bar, where did I not use it.Maybe you just cant read.And to the ones who said mind your business,dont you think you should mind yours and dont read my posts if you dont like it.

hterry85 · May 2010

1. Your space bar is still not working.

2. If you want me to mind my own business, don't post it on a public message board for me to read.

DREWLILY · May 2010

hterry85:

1. Your space bar is still not working.

2. If you want me to mind my own business, don't post it on a public message board for me to read.

This. You asked us what you should do, my response was that you should mind your own business. Don't ask if you don't want an answer. Also, telling us we deserve for our husband's to cheat on us because you feel we were rude to you is pathetic and lame. You'll need to go somewhere else if you want puppies and rainbows for responses.

The bottom line is what your ex does is none of your business so stay out of it!

luckyangel · May 2010

DREWLILY:
hterry85:

1. Your space bar is still not working.
2. If you want me to mind my own business, don't post it on a public message board for me to read.
Also, telling us we deserve for our husband's to cheat on us because you feel we were rude to you is pathetic and lame.

This must be why her husband cheated on her.

allyandpat2010 · May 2010

When will this chick go away?? If this is a real post then its none of your business to tell her anything.

And after every period please put a space. Thanks.

luckyangel · May 2010

allyandpat2010:

And after every period please put a space. Thanks.

I'm voting for 2 spaces.

ScissorTailedFlycatcher · May 2010

MEOWMEKINS:
Thank you to the ladies who were not rude and snotty(the 2 or 3 of you), to the rest of you I guess if your husband was cheating then it would be ok, but then I guess you would deserve it since you are rude.And yes i do have a great relationship with my x and yes I do have a space bar, where did I not use it.Maybe you just cant read.And to the ones who said mind your business,dont you think you should mind yours and dont read my posts if you dont like it.

Where did you not use a space? Here:

?

And to just comment on the post since I reread it, was the ex in his truck or outside of his truck. I find it funny that you mention the truck. If he was in it, you probably didn't get a clear view of the woman. If he was outside of his truck, you would have recognized HIM instead of his truck. Those are my two cents.?

gasper · May 2010

MEOWMEKINS:
Thank you to the ladies who were not rude and snotty(the 2 or 3 of you), to the rest of you I guess if your husband was cheating then it would be ok, but then I guess you would deserve it since you are rude.And yes i do have a great relationship with my x and yes I do have a space bar, where did I not use it.Maybe you just cant read.And to the ones who said mind your business,dont you think you should mind yours and dont read my posts if you dont like it.

Wow...So you have a "great relationship" with the ex you say cheated on you?? That might have been something to mention in the original post. If it's such a great relationship why didn't you think of just talking to him....why bring the wife into it at all? You mentioned several times you didn't like the new wife...not once about your feelings about the ex. You said at the end you guessed it wasn't really "any of your business". So a bunch of us agreed with you (maybe you can't read what you wrote) and you get butt-hurt? You asked for advice, you got it. Unless you plan on ending all your posts with your expected response or start saying what you mean...stop posting.

allyandpat2010 · May 2010

shortyred919:

MEOWMEKINS:
Thank you to the ladies who were not rude and snotty(the 2 or 3 of you), to the rest of you I guess if your husband was cheating then it would be ok, but then I guess you would deserve it since you are rude.And yes i do have a great relationship with my x and yes I do have a space bar, where did I not use it.Maybe you just cant read.And to the ones who said mind your business,dont you think you should mind yours and dont read my posts if you dont like it.

Where did you not use a space? Here:

And to just comment on the post since I reread it, was the ex in his truck or outside of his truck. I find it funny that you mention the truck. If he was in it, you probably didn't get a clear view of the woman. If he was outside of his truck, you would have recognized HIM instead of his truck. Those are my two cents.

WowI just got a flash to school days and the dreaded red pen! LOL

luckyangel · May 2010

gasper:
MEOWMEKINS:
Thank you to the ladies who were not rude and snotty(the 2 or 3 of you), to the rest of you I guess if your husband was cheating then it would be ok, but then I guess you would deserve it since you are rude.And yes i do have a great relationship with my x and yes I do have a space bar, where did I not use it.Maybe you just cant read.And to the ones who said mind your business,dont you think you should mind yours and dont read my posts if you dont like it.
Wow...So you have a "great relationship" with the ex you say cheated on you?? That might have been something to mention in the original post. If it's such a great relationship why didn't you think of just talking to him....why bring the wife into it at all? You mentioned several times you didn't like the new wife...not once about your feelings about the ex. You said at the end you guessed it wasn't really "any of your business". So a bunch of us agreed with you (maybe you can't read what you wrote) and you get butt-hurt? You asked for advice, you got it. Unless you plan on ending all your posts with your expected response or start saying what you mean...stop posting.

She has a great relationship with the ex and the new wife who she called DCFS on last week:

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/36483165.aspx

And who she called crazy and said she doesn't like:

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/35993417.aspx

Hrm. Me thinks she doth protest too much.

gasper · May 2010

luckyangel:
gasper:

MEOWMEKINS:
Thank you to the ladies who were not rude and snotty(the 2 or 3 of you), to the rest of you I guess if your husband was cheating then it would be ok, but then I guess you would deserve it since you are rude.And yes i do have a great relationship with my x and yes I do have a space bar, where did I not use it.Maybe you just cant read.And to the ones who said mind your business,dont you think you should mind yours and dont read my posts if you dont like it.

Wow...So you have a "great relationship" with the ex you say cheated on you?? That might have been something to mention in the original post. If it's such a great relationship why didn't you think of just talking to him....why bring the wife into it at all? You mentioned several times you didn't like the new wife...not once about your feelings about the ex. You said at the end you guessed it wasn't really "any of your business". So a bunch of us agreed with you (maybe you can't read what you wrote) and you get butt-hurt? You asked for advice, you got it. Unless you plan on ending all your posts with your expected response or start saying what you mean...stop posting.

She has a great relationship with the ex and the new wife who she called DCFS on last week:

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/36483165.aspx

And who she called crazy and said she doesn't like:

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/35993417.aspx

Hrm. Me thinks she doth protest too much.

I thought she called DCFS on the BM (her DHs ex?) O hell...who can keep track? She contradicts herself everytime she posts anything. Crazy people make sane people crazy!

J&A2008 · May 2010

Do her a favor and steal him back.

emma7875 · May 2010

J&A2008:
Do her a favor and steal him back.

I wasn't going to get involved but that one almost made me pee my pants! LOL

luckyangel · May 2010

gasper:
luckyangel:
gasper:

MEOWMEKINS:
Thank you to the ladies who were not rude and snotty(the 2 or 3 of you), to the rest of you I guess if your husband was cheating then it would be ok, but then I guess you would deserve it since you are rude.And yes i do have a great relationship with my x and yes I do have a space bar, where did I not use it.Maybe you just cant read.And to the ones who said mind your business,dont you think you should mind yours and dont read my posts if you dont like it.
Wow...So you have a "great relationship" with the ex you say cheated on you?? That might have been something to mention in the original post. If it's such a great relationship why didn't you think of just talking to him....why bring the wife into it at all? You mentioned several times you didn't like the new wife...not once about your feelings about the ex. You said at the end you guessed it wasn't really "any of your business". So a bunch of us agreed with you (maybe you can't read what you wrote) and you get butt-hurt? You asked for advice, you got it. Unless you plan on ending all your posts with your expected response or start saying what you mean...stop posting.
She has a great relationship with the ex and the new wife who she called DCFS on last week:
https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/36483165.aspx
And who she called crazy and said she doesn't like:
https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/35993417.aspx
Hrm. Me thinks she doth protest too much.

I thought she called DCFS on the BM (her DHs ex?) O hell...who can keep track? She contradicts herself everytime she posts anything. Crazy people make sane people crazy!

Oh wait, you're right!

Wait...so she's a BM and a SM? Or just a SM with a cheating ex? *scratches head*

MEOWMEKINS · May 2010

well since you cant read obviously lucky,I said I had 2 kids so yes I am a BM and a SM since my DH(current husband)has 3 kids of his own so obviously i didnt call dcfs on myself.I called on the BM of the step kids.And maybe I will get to know your BM and help her since there have been alot of contradictions on your part also.and for all the red circles, you see there is a space.And yes I do have a great relationship with my x since it has been 12 years since we separated and he is a great dad.He hasnt STOLE my kids from me like some people.

luckyangel · May 2010

MEOWMEKINS:
well since you cant read obviously lucky,I said I had 2 kids so yes I am a BM and a SM since my DH(current husband)has 3 kids of his own so obviously i didnt call dcfs on myself.I called on the BM of the step kids.And maybe I will get to know your BM and help her since there have been alot of contradictions on your part also.and for all the red circles, you see there is a space.And yes I do have a great relationship with my x since it has been 12 years since we separated and he is a great dad.He hasnt STOLE my kids from me like some people.

I don't talk about our case on here for a reason. And you can contact her all you want...there isn't enough help in the world. So does you helping her mean that from now on any posts directly to me should be considered 3rd party contact on her behalf because that would be special!

ScissorTailedFlycatcher · May 2010

MEOWMEKINS:
well since you cant read obviously lucky,I said I had 2 kids so yes I am a BM and a SM since my DH(current husband)has 3 kids of his own so obviously i didnt call dcfs on myself.I called on the BM of the step kids.And maybe I will get to know your BM and help her since there have been alot of contradictions on your part also.and for all the red circles, you see there is a space.And yes I do have a great relationship with my x since it has been 12 years since we separated and he is a great dad.He hasnt STOLE my kids from me like some people.

You still aren't putting spaces between the end of your sentence and the beginning of the next.

YOU ARE PSYCHO.?

allyandpat2010 · May 2010

This is how you put a space after a sentence. Space. See how it works?

That being said, you are psycho, and need to go away.

knmommy · May 2010

yikes!!!

Ginlyn0 · May 2010

LOL

That's all I can say.

DREWLILY · May 2010

luckyangel:

MEOWMEKINS:
well since you cant read obviously lucky,I said I had 2 kids so yes I am a BM and a SM since my DH(current husband)has 3 kids of his own so obviously i didnt call dcfs on myself.I called on the BM of the step kids.And maybe I will get to know your BM and help her since there have been alot of contradictions on your part also.and for all the red circles, you see there is a space.And yes I do have a great relationship with my x since it has been 12 years since we separated and he is a great dad.He hasnt STOLE my kids from me like some people.

I don't talk about our case on here for a reason. And you can contact her all you want...there isn't enough help in the world. So does you helping her mean that from now on any posts directly to me should be considered 3rd party contact on her behalf because that would be special!

There she goes, Lucky, making accusations like the BM in your situation would...Hmmm could it be her? LOL. Not too bright in any case, but a definite psycho and 3rd party contact would be super special for you, hello harassment. Stupid should hurt more.

DREWLILY · May 2010

MEOWMEKINS:
He hasnt STOLE my kids from me like some people.

BTW, how does one go about stealing someone's kids?

ScissorTailedFlycatcher · May 2010

DREWLILY:
MEOWMEKINS:
He hasnt STOLE my kids from me like some people.
BTW, how does one go about stealing someone's kids?

I believe blindfolds and a handkerchief soaked in ether are involved.

karatechrissy · May 2010

DREWLILY:
Stupid should hurt more.

This.

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