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Well yay! Now I get to post here again...

babygirlpriestbabygirlpriest
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Lost the baby.

12 months + 3 m/c + 3 D&Cs = 1 shiitastic year.

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  • bbhalphenbbhalphen member
    NO!  This is not fvcking fair!  I don't believe this.  Sad
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  • Scout05Scout05 member
    The universe is a fvcking ass_hole.
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  • michroccmichrocc member

    I'm so so so very sorry for your losses, bgp.  It's awful.  I don't get it.  You're a wonderful person and this shouldn't have happened to you again (or in the first place). 

    ::::hugs::::

    BFP#1 10/19/09, m/c 12/5/09, BFP#2 2/03/12, m/c 2/12/12, BFP#3 3/18/13, LO born 11/22/13

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  • johannaknipjohannaknip
    I'm so sorry sweetheart.
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  • surfergirlkonasurfergirlkona
    I am sorry, sweetie.  I just want to wave my fairy wand and fix everything.  ((hugs))  Fvck this universe to pieces.
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  • grr_aarghgrr_aargh member
    I just don't even know what to say.  :(
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  • ColindaPColindaP member
    I love you and I was hoping you'd have no other reason to come back to this board aside from checking up on hte rest of us. It's so unfair. ((hugs))
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  • rjl07rjl07
    I am so sorry BGP.  The universe effing sucks this week.  I'm thinking of you.  ((hugs))
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  • HeatherPB1020HeatherPB1020 member
    Crying Not okay.
    ~Married- 10.20.2007~ TTC Since- 4.3.2009 ~BFP#1- 8.25.2009 ~ Missed M/C and D&C-10.9.2009 ~BFP#2-8.12.2010 ~ EDD- 4.20.2011~ It
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  • eminbmoreeminbmore member
    I am so sorry :(  This is not fair. 
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  • triple_sevenstriple_sevens member
    I hate that this has been your year. I hate that you're back here as "one of us" :(
    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

    Baby Boy Smudgie born 10/4/11

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  • LMichelleGLMichelleG member

    Friggin eh!!! Noooooo!!!

    I'm sooooo sorry!! HUGE Hugs!!

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  • lunatwolunatwo member

    Oh no!  I am so sorry.  It is so awful.

    (((BIG HUGS)))

    4/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    8/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    3/09 Polyp removed and dx MTHFR (both copies)
    6 Clomid cycles, all BFN
    5/09 IUI#1 with Clomid=BFN
    6/09 IUI#2 with Clomid=BFN
    8/09 IUI#3 with Clomid=BFN
    IVF#1 = BFN
    IVF#2 = BFN
    IVF#3 ET 2 Grade A blasts 11/16/11
    Beta #1: 485
    Beta #2: 2,495
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  • carebear08carebear08
    That's terrible. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • AppleRidgeAppleRidge member
    Someone as good and kind and funny as you should never have to deal with pain like this.  This is just cruel, awful, horrible.  
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    4 early losses 2009, 2010, 2015.  Baby #1 born 2/13/11.  
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  • ShellShockedMamaShellShockedMama member

    The universe can go _fuck_ itself.

    I am so sorry love. 

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  • Brady1*Brady1*
    I am so sorry ((HUGS))
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  • sciteach104sciteach104
    I am so, so sorry hon.
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  • hking76hking76 member
    I'm so sorry....  [[hugs]]
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  • suntotosuntoto member
    Love you and I am so sorry for this.  I f-ing hate our not-working bodies. 
    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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  • JuJuBe3JuJuBe3

    Oh no!  This cannot be.  I am so SO sorry.  Big hugs to you. Crying

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  • Cissi64Cissi64
    I'm so sorry!  It just sucks.
    dd(Brianna) 11/01/94, ds(Bram)10/17/95, ds(Jesse)9/26/97, dd (Annie Ruth) 7/27/05 5mc Jan '08, May '08, Feb '09, Sept '09, Apr '11 "And can it be that in a world so full and busy, the loss of one weak creature makes a void in any heart, so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of vast eternity can fill it up." - Charles Dickens

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  • mdm2137mdm2137

    I am so, so sorry.


    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
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  • schen0510schen0510
    I am so so sorry.
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  • ShemicoShemico member
    crappers... im so sorry hun *hugs*
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  • TaraBrooksTaraBrooks
    Oh honey I am so sorry.
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  • 3ltlones3ltlones member
    I am so very sorry sweetie. I wish there was something we could do. Hugs.
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
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  • mlmtggmlmtgg

    oh god. I just saw this and am crying for you.

    none of this makes sense to me at all. none.

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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  • kew243kew243 member
    I'm sorry.  That is just so awful.  Really sorry.. Sad
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  • dondraandluisdondraandluis member
    So not fair. This is BS! (((HUGS)))
    TTC Since Oct 08 BFP #1- 1/23/09, missed m/c 2/26/09 BFP #2- 9/8/09, natural m/c 9/16/09 BFP #3- 4/13/10, missed m/c 5/26/10 BFP #4- 4/6/11 beta#1 at 12dpo-133 prog-55.7, beta#2 at 16dpo- 861 DD born 12/8/2011 BFP#5- 11/23/12 EDD 7/25/13 Dx- Uterine septum (removed Aug 2010), endo, MTHFR C677t hetero, Factor II hetero, Low Protein S Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • swanckswanck

    This is so aweful and unfair.  I'm in tears. 

    I'm so sorry, sweetie.

     

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  • Mrs.PinkPearlsMrs.PinkPearls
    ((HUGS))
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    BFP #2 5-28-09 C/P 6-1-09
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  • Court1Court1
    Oh no, this is so not fair.  I'm so sorry.
    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
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  • HugginAngelHugginAngel

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    The universe is a fvcking ass_hole.

    I agree. I'm soooooooo very sorry!!! 

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  • ERICA21779ERICA21779
    I am so very truly sorry, there are no words....(((hugs))))
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    I'm so very sorry.
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  • redstars93redstars93 member
    I am so so sorry :(
    Momma to three boys: Henry - 4yo Alex - 18mo Jack - born 2/23/12 at 20w due to ruptured uterus (previa and accreta resulting in hysterectomy) He only lived here on Earth for an hour, but he will live in our hearts forever. m/c #1: sept '09, m/c #2: july '10
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  • rabstbmomrabstbmom
    I'm sorry to hear this. Wish I could say/do more.
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  • ade2beade2be
    Oh, I'm so sorry. This has been such a sucktastic week. Big hugs to you
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    So sorry, sending ((hugs))

    Jenn

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    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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