I was going to post this last night but all you would have read is a string of profanities a mile long I didn't want to get booted off the bump. So yesterday I got a OPK+ and I called DH at lunch (he had annual training during the day and I work 3-12am) and said I had gotten a postive OPK and I would leave work a little early, and the night prior he had said "well then tomorrow we'll have to set trying then right"
OK some in my demented mind I would assume that all of that would lead up to FWP when I got home...but NOOO. He plays this stupid world of warcraft game online all the time, and when I got home he was in the middle of some stupid battle or something with his stupid online buddies, he says ...get this...can't we tomorrow?
me (in my head) why you stupid SOB what the fvck do you thing I've been these g_d damn OPK all g_d damn week and we can finally fvcking start trying again and you say maybe fvcking tomorrow
I go downstairs and into a big gulp size gin and tonic and later he comes down with a host of excuses and he says he couldn't bail on his "friends" and that couldn't we just go try now, no way I say and he says just come lay down, you'll feel like it in a bit..
No g_d damn way am I coming up there now you @sshole. I ovulate once a month and you put your stupid stupid game ahead of my descended eggos-eff you. (in the morning we did end up FWP, everythings fine, but we'll see this month?)
Whew, thanks girls that feels good to get out!
Re: Hump Day Hope=Fail :( longer and cursing involved.
I can sooooooo relate. I keep telling DH that his WOW days are numbered. He usually doesn't deny me FWP, but that is probably because I try to warn him when O week is coming up so he can schedule around it. How lame, right?
I am glad you got FWP in though..hopefully it will work and you won't have to worry about his dumb games anymore.
I was going to say that I could. not. live with a man that was into WOW. But I guess to some extent that's what it's like living with a woman who's always on The Bump.
Anyway, I would have been pissed. Straight up pissed. I hope he learned his lesson.
I think I could have written this myself, although to be fair DH is on a WOW break. Our eggs aren't going to wait. GRR DH.
On another note, I hope that was Bombay Sapphire Gin
fvck with purpose, during O usually
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Ugh! That's aggravating!!! I would've done the same as you.
I would have flipped the fvck out and upplugged the TV. After I downed the gin & tonic, of course! what an a$$.......
hopefully this morning did the trick!
oh girl...i soo understand. DH used to play WoW when we were dating. for a long time. he spent a lot of time and a lot of money on it...and i HATED it! it caused a lot of fights and issues. and we actually broke up for a few months. (not solely b/c of the game, but that definitely added to it). while we were apart he stopped playing and hasn't started it back up. everyone said that i made him stop, yada yada. and i didn't *make* him but it def was a perk!
DH is still a gamer at heart...and he still has a few games that he plays. but we have had many many talks about the boundaries and if he EVER chooses a game over me...he PAYS...BIG TIME.
but seriously...i HATE WoW. hate it. it's so addicting and i've never seen anything good come from one person in a relationship being that committed to it. (sorry if any of you girls play it...i don't even mind the game, it's how obsessive it becomes)
I hope everything works out hun! ((HUGS))
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