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Ok so after a long talk

jen629jen629 member
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with DH  today I feel much better (well and of course you ladies but that is a given) I asked him what if we aren't pregnant and he says we just keep trying  I had told him the other day did him want to return me for someone who wasn't broken and  he said NEVER and don't even say that.

My feelings the rest of this week are basically it is what it is I can't change it either I am or I am not . We did the best we could with timing  so I can't beat myself up over it. Thanks again ladies for your encouraging words this morning I really appreciate itBig Smile

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  • Scout05Scout05 member

    I am so glad you guys had this conversation, and your DH sounds like good people to me.

    :::hugs:::

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  • jen629jen629 member
    imageambrandau2:

    I am so glad you guys had this conversation, and your DH sounds like good people to me.

    :::hugs:::

    thank you after I got over my little meltdown I just realized it is gonna happen or not and as much control as I THINK I have over it  it really is out of my hands...He really is awesome ...and between him and you guys it is the only reason I am not ina padded room at this point {{HUGS}}}} to you my love also
    Hold On ....Michael Buble
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    BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
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  • iammadiammad

    Group Hug!!  We love you and are here for you.

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  • GuppyAmyGuppyAmy member
    I'm glad you feel better. I can't imagine how your husband wouldn't love you. You are amazing inside and out!
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  • iammadiammad
    AND...you have an amazing husband.  Plus, your just down right one of the most amazing people I've met.
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  • jen629jen629 member
    imageGuppyAmy:
    I'm glad you feel better. I can't imagine how your husband wouldn't love you. You are amazing inside and out!
    thanks Amy I just thought maybe he would trade me in if he knew he got a "lemon"..lol...but he says no so ok.......................
    Hold On ....Michael Buble
    MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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    Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
    BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
    BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
    BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
    BFP #4 5/8/11
    BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
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  • jkm123jkm123
    ((big hugs)) love ya girl... GL!
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  • GuppyAmyGuppyAmy member

    imagejen629:
    imageGuppyAmy:
    I'm glad you feel better. I can't imagine how your husband wouldn't love you. You are amazing inside and out!
    thanks Amy I just thought maybe he would trade me in if he knew he got a "lemon"..lol...but he says no so ok.......................

    My SIL has the same fear with her troubles TTC. Me, I KNOW my DH can't find anyone better than me! 

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  • jen629jen629 member
    imageGuppyAmy:

    imagejen629:
    imageGuppyAmy:
    I'm glad you feel better. I can't imagine how your husband wouldn't love you. You are amazing inside and out!
    thanks Amy I just thought maybe he would trade me in if he knew he got a "lemon"..lol...but he says no so ok.......................

    My SIL has the same fear with her troubles TTC. Me, I KNOW my DH can't find anyone better than me! 

    hehe and you are RIGHT!...
    Hold On ....Michael Buble
    MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    BabyFruit Ticker
    Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
    BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
    BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
    BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
    BFP #4 5/8/11
    BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
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  • frogyiefrogyie
    Im glad your feeling a little better... I think i have this convo with my DH everymonth especially right after my M/C... hugs... is not over yet?  How long is your LP usually?
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  • sciteach104sciteach104
    jen, i am so sorry you had a bad morning.  i am glad you and DH talked and you feel much better. 
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  • vflipovflipo member
    Remember that super high five for Fab? Could you give him another one for me please? Smile I'm glad you had a good talk, and I like your attitude. You're an amazing person Jen Big Smile
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  • celestej619celestej619
    (((big hugs))) I am so glad that Fabio is as amazing as you are! You guys were made for each other....awwwww!
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  • jen629jen629 member
    imagefrogyie:
    Im glad your feeling a little better... I think i have this convo with my DH everymonth especially right after my M/C... hugs... is not over yet?  How long is your LP usually?
    well the first 2 after miscarriage were 17 days last month was 13 so I don't really know what I should go by
    Hold On ....Michael Buble
    MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    BabyFruit Ticker
    Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
    BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
    BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
    BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
    BFP #4 5/8/11
    BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
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  • Brady1*Brady1*
    I'm glad you talked to your hubby and you're feeling a little better. ((HUGS))
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  • frogyiefrogyie
    So you still have plenty of time... fingers, toes, eyes crossed for you...
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  • 3ltlones3ltlones member
    great conversation. I'm glad that you feel better. That is a great attitude to have.  We will all understand anything you feel.  Still crossing my fingers for you! hugs.
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
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  • OrangeCrush9OrangeCrush9
    I wasn't around this morning, but I'm glad your DH is supportive and you're feeling better. Good luck the rest of this week...fingers crossed for you!
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  • erinb1025erinb1025
    I'm so glad you are feeling a bit better. Your DH sounds awesome (much like the woman he married!)
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  • ashleyy0219ashleyy0219

    Glad you and DH got to have this talk :::hugs:::

    I actually had a similar convo today with DH today and I think I'm starting to be a little less stressed out.

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  • OCIrishBruinOCIrishBruin
    (((hugs)))
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  • lsugirljenlsugirljen member
    imageambrandau2:

    I am so glad you guys had this conversation, and your DH sounds like good people to me.

    :::hugs:::

     

    This.

    Hugs

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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    ((hugs)) glad you guys had a good talk.

    Jenn

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  • TiannaRoseTiannaRose
    Ahh, i'm glad that you guys talked!  He sounds like such a great and supportive DH! 
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  • ValcoValco
    I'm glad you had a good talk with your DH. Good luck for tomorrow, I really hope its good news. 
    Married - 09/26/2009 BFP #1 - 01/17/2010 EDD - 09/10/2010 M/C - 02/03/2010 at 8 w 5 d D&C - 02/13/2010 at 10 w 1 d BFP #2 - 07/14/2010 EDD - 03/27/2011 Luke stillborn - 11/11/2010 at 20 w 4 d BFP #3 - 03/16/2011 EDD - 11/27/2011
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