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SIL just announced her pregnancy on FB

Ski&Sail09Ski&Sail09
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I knew it would happen today. She is day 1 in 2nd tri and I'm super excited for her and my BIL but still so sad for DH and I. Sigh!!  I wanted to post the info about being infertility awareness week but knew that would make things super awkward knowing she is announcing this week too and we have a ton of the same friends.  One day, one day it will be our turn...all of us.
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TTC #1 since September 2008
All tests normal
IUI #1, 1/31 50mg Clomid BFN!
IUI #2, 2/27 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel trigger BFN!
Laporoscopy March 30th- diagnosed with mild very endometriosis
IUI #3, 10/10, 2.5mg Femara BFN!
Hip Surgery 12/10 and forced TTC break
Diagnosed with gluten and dairy intolerance 12/10
June: TTC with TI and 2.5 mg Femara
IUI #4 & 5 Summer/Fall 2011 with Femara. BFN
11/11 Diagnosed Compound Heterozygous MTHFR- 7.5 mg Deplin
IVF #1 take 1- cancelled due to cyst
IVF #1 take 2- ER Aug 29, 35 retrieved ET Sept 3- 1 beautiful embryo transfered. 11 frozen embryos (AKA snow babies)
BFP Sept 11, 2012 :D
Suffering from moderate OHSS
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Re: SIL just announced her pregnancy on FB

  • ladipaleladipale member

    (hugs)

    Isn't it funny how one day you can be perfectly fine with someone's else pregnancy, and then something makes you feel so down again? I felt the same way when my sister announced on FB. 

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  • heathercaraheathercara
    Super big hugs and cuddles today :)
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  • Ski&Sail09Ski&Sail09
    I love them to peices but we're doing Mother's Day with my family this year. I just can't handle her getting gifts for being pregnant on mother's day. Plus, I'm 99% sure I will never announce my pregnancy on FB. Bleck!!
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    TTC #1 since September 2008
    All tests normal
    IUI #1, 1/31 50mg Clomid BFN!
    IUI #2, 2/27 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel trigger BFN!
    Laporoscopy March 30th- diagnosed with mild very endometriosis
    IUI #3, 10/10, 2.5mg Femara BFN!
    Hip Surgery 12/10 and forced TTC break
    Diagnosed with gluten and dairy intolerance 12/10
    June: TTC with TI and 2.5 mg Femara
    IUI #4 & 5 Summer/Fall 2011 with Femara. BFN
    11/11 Diagnosed Compound Heterozygous MTHFR- 7.5 mg Deplin
    IVF #1 take 1- cancelled due to cyst
    IVF #1 take 2- ER Aug 29, 35 retrieved ET Sept 3- 1 beautiful embryo transfered. 11 frozen embryos (AKA snow babies)
    BFP Sept 11, 2012 :D
    Suffering from moderate OHSS
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  • amy0610amy0610
    I'm sorry  Ski! You're right, it will happen someday :) Hugs.
    Struggled with IF from 2008-2011.
    Surprise Pregnancy 02/11!
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  • rach2100rach2100 member
    Sending BIG HUGS your way! 
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  • sail123sail123 member

    I'm sorry ((hugs)).

    Some things are just hard, no way around them.

    Good plan on spending mother's day with your family.

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  • Mrs.PinkPearlsMrs.PinkPearls
    ((BIG HUGS))
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  • sweetpea1010sweetpea1010
    That's rough, I'm sorry Sad  I've got pregnant people all around me and most days I'm OK with it, and others I don't even want to hear about it at all.  I have definitely blocked people on FB because I don't want to see the hourly pg updates.  Part of me knows this is wrong, but it is what it is. 
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  • Sa039raSa039ra member
    :hugs:
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  • mishelemishele member
    I understand.  My SIL is due in June with her second.  I like going on her FB page to see pictures of my nephew but her profile pic is a side shot of her pregnant belly.  While I am very happy for her and BIL, it still stings a little to see that.
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  • redsoxbonoredsoxbono
    {{hugs}}
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