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Haven't been on all week due to a stomach flu.  But last night found out that my Dad left my Mom.  They had thier 44th wedding anniversary the week before...
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  • WHAT? That is awful and so, so sad. How is your mom? How are you?
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  • I'm so sorry, hun. :(

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  • Oh my God, love.  I'm so sorry to hear this.  ((giant hugs))  I'm not even sure what to say.
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  • Oh no. I am so sorry Heather. Are you ok? I hope you feel better too.
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  • That is so awful!  OMG...how is everyone handling the news?  I cannot imagine...sorry.
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  • Oh my goodness. I am so sorry. That has got to be rough!
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  • OMG!  I'm so sorry heather!  That would be so painful and hard to accept after all those years.  ::hugs::
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  • WHAT?! I am soooo sorry!! How are you and your mom holding up?  ((hugs))

     
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  • Oh my. I am so sorry. How are you holding up?
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  • *hugs* I'm so sorry.
  • I'm not crying today...so that's a step in the right direction.  My Mom is just sad right now.  It breaks my heart.  I don't know what to do for her.  She won't talk about it yet.  So for now I just let her know that I am here for her if/when she is ready and I always have a room in my house with her name on it if she should want/need it.  I know it takes two, so I don't want to "blame" my Dad.  But I know that he stopped trying, so it's hard not to feel he is more at fault.
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  • Oh honey, I am so sorry.
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    I am so sorry.  That is devastating.  My T&P to you and your mom.  I hope you get feeling better soon.

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    IVF #2 - a version of antagonist with EPP (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 6 retrieved, 4 mature, 3 fertilized, 2 blasts and 1 frozen blast transferred on day 5 = BFN.

    IVF #3 April was postponed to May, May was canceled. June/July was canceled. Had a cyst aspiration and then began IVF #3 in August. ER on 8/22; ET on 8/24 with AH. +HPT on 9/5. Beta #1 (11dpo) = 3; Beta #2 (15dpo) = 29; Beta #3 (17dpo) = 60; Beta #4 (19 dpo) = 118. Heartbeat at 6 weeks 6 days =132.  Lil is here!

    TTC#2:  Trigger + TI = BFN; Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN.

    IVF #4:  BCP + MDLF + Lovenox = 7R, 1F = Transferred 1 6-cell embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #5:  MDLF + Lovenox = 4R, 1F = Transferred 1 10-cell compacting embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #6:  (New RE):  Long Antagonist November 2014 (transferred two 8 cell grade 1 embryos and froze one blast) = BFN

    FET#1:  BFN

  • I am so, so sorry to hear this.
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  • I'm so sorry.
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  • I am so sorry!
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  • Wow, I'm so sorry HC.
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  • ((hugs)) I'm so sorry.
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  • Oh my, I am so, so sorry!
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  • Oh my, that's unbelievable! I cannot even begin to imagine what you and your family are going through right now. I'm so sorry, and I hope you and your mom are able to help each other through this.

    ((big hugs))

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  • I'm so sorry.  ((hugs))
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  • I'm sorry Heather.
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  • oh no, I am so very sorry H.


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  • I am so terribly sorry! (((hugs)))
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  • I am so sorry. I hope she (and you) are doing okay.
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  • I'm so sorry.
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  • Oh nooooo!!  I'm so sorry, Heather!  ((hugs))
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  • I am so sorry :(
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  • That is ROUGH, I know, my parents will be married 30 years in May and from October - March I have been dealing with this.  My parents ended up back together but it's not easy at all.  I'm so sorry you have to deal with this, even though they're your parents, you probably feel it's your duty to shelter them from the pain and hurt, I know I did.
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  • Wow. I am so sorry sweetie. That cannot be easy, and you were feeling like crap before. Lean on us for support, we're thinking of you.
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  • I'm so sorry Sad My T&P are with you
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  • OMG that is horrible! I hope you're hanging in there.
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  • I'm really sorry Heather :(
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  • Oh, Heather.  I'm so so sorry.  HUGE :hugs: 
  • I'm so, so sorry. That's horrible. ((Big hugs)) to you and your mom.
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  • I'm so, so, sorry.  {{big hugs}}
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  • So sorry...
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  • Praying for you and your family
  • OMG how awful.

    ((hugs))

     

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