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Did everyone get Beta numbers?

Hi,

  I POAS every day last week and they were all +.Big Smile.  I went to RE last Friday.  He confirmed.  They called in the afternoon to tell me all my blood work was good.  I asked, so I am confirmed via blood too, right?  The nurse laughed and said yes, my HCG levels looked good.  That was it.  I go back to RE this Friday for follow-up (side note: I had mild OHSS, it appears to be going away).

I never asked for my Beta numbers nor did they tell me.  I figured if they said all is good, that's good enough for me.  But, as I look on all the boards, I see a lot of ladies have gotten detailed info.  Was I wrong to not get more info.?

*SAIF* always welcome
TTC since October 2007
Dx with Unexplained IF
IUI #1-3 w/clomid: Jan-March 2010...BFN
IUI #4 w/injectables: April 2010...BFP
1st u/s: 5/17-one little perfect hb@7w2d, 2nd u/s: 6/5-no hb@10w;
missed miscarriage: 6/10 d&c
IUI #5-7 w/injectables: Sept 2010-Jan 2011...BFFN
IVF #1: Feb/March 2011...pretty please let this work!!!!

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Re: Did everyone get Beta numbers?

  • There's no right or wrong here. If you're happy with your doctor's word that it's good, then that's good! The number doesn't tell you much on its own anyway -- you need at least two, so you can see the doubling time, which is what's really important. If your RE isn't going to do a second beta, then I wouldn't worry about it.

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  • imagejenber77:

    There's no right or wrong here. If you're happy with your doctor's word that it's good, then that's good! The number doesn't tell you much on its own anyway -- you need at least two, so you can see the doubling time, which is what's really important. If your RE isn't going to do a second beta, then I wouldn't worry about it.

    Congratulations!

    Thank you.  I think I am getting a second beta because I know I am getting more blood work done this Friday.  But, the word Beta has never been uttered by him.  I only know it from all you lovely ladiesCool.  Yes, sometimes I think too much information is not good.  If he is not worried, then I am not going to be either.

    *SAIF* always welcome
    TTC since October 2007
    Dx with Unexplained IF
    IUI #1-3 w/clomid: Jan-March 2010...BFN
    IUI #4 w/injectables: April 2010...BFP
    1st u/s: 5/17-one little perfect hb@7w2d, 2nd u/s: 6/5-no hb@10w;
    missed miscarriage: 6/10 d&c
    IUI #5-7 w/injectables: Sept 2010-Jan 2011...BFFN
    IVF #1: Feb/March 2011...pretty please let this work!!!!

    Expecting twin boys!!!!! Pregnancy Ticker
  • imagedolphinsmakemesmile:
    If he is not worried, then I am not going to be either.

    That's a great attitude! :)

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  • i could see obgyn's doing this, but RE's hmmm, they should give you the numbers.  as long as they are happy i wouldn't stress, because the numbers make some of us crazy.  I had 5 or 6 betas with 3rd pregnancy and my numbers were fine, they are just crazy conservative.
  • Numbers can definitely make you crazy, so if you're happy with what he's saying, I would stick with that. :)

    Of course, I was a math major and I love numbers so while my RE didn't offer them, I always asked for the specific numbers. ;)

  • imagekme930:

    Numbers can definitely make you crazy, so if you're happy with what he's saying, I would stick with that. :)

    Of course, I was a math major and I love numbers so while my RE didn't offer them, I always asked for the specific numbers. ;)

    Thanks...at least it makes me feel better that my RE is not the only one that doesn't offer them.

    *SAIF* always welcome
    TTC since October 2007
    Dx with Unexplained IF
    IUI #1-3 w/clomid: Jan-March 2010...BFN
    IUI #4 w/injectables: April 2010...BFP
    1st u/s: 5/17-one little perfect hb@7w2d, 2nd u/s: 6/5-no hb@10w;
    missed miscarriage: 6/10 d&c
    IUI #5-7 w/injectables: Sept 2010-Jan 2011...BFFN
    IVF #1: Feb/March 2011...pretty please let this work!!!!

    Expecting twin boys!!!!! Pregnancy Ticker
  • You do what you are comfortable with. FOr me - the more I know the better. I over-analyse everything to a fault. It is just how I deal. 
    A lot of years and a million tears finally led me to you.
    After 7 years trying to concieve, 3 failed IUIs and 2 failed IVFs, my third IVF was a success!
    My Christmas baby turned into a turkey bird! Dillon Richard was born at 34 weeks, 5 days on November 28, 2009 after 10 weeks on bedrest for preeclampsia.
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  • This is my first post over here. I hardly feel SAIF yet. But, this is a question I can actually answer! I have had 3 betas (13 DPIUI, 16 DPIUI, and today which is 18 DPIUI). For me, it was important because we knew nothing about our previous loss. That dr. refused to do a beta. Plus, it is standard at my RE. But, I am anal like that. If you can just go with the flow, then go for it!
  • imagekrissyh21:
    You do what you are comfortable with. For me - the more I know the better. I over-analyze everything to a fault. It is just how I deal. 

    I am an over-analyzer also.  I noticed a lot of IF'rs tend to be.  Guess it's from all those doctor appts. and information we have to keep straight in our head.  Because I over analyze, DH says the less I know the better-haha...he knows I would drive myself nuts and be awake and worrying at night.

    *SAIF* always welcome
    TTC since October 2007
    Dx with Unexplained IF
    IUI #1-3 w/clomid: Jan-March 2010...BFN
    IUI #4 w/injectables: April 2010...BFP
    1st u/s: 5/17-one little perfect hb@7w2d, 2nd u/s: 6/5-no hb@10w;
    missed miscarriage: 6/10 d&c
    IUI #5-7 w/injectables: Sept 2010-Jan 2011...BFFN
    IVF #1: Feb/March 2011...pretty please let this work!!!!

    Expecting twin boys!!!!! Pregnancy Ticker
  • I would want to know because I"m a dork like that but I think if they said its all ok it would be alright to trust them but maybe if you get a second one ask for the numbers. Good luck!
  • I got beta numbers for both my betas, but I'm thinking that I now wish I didn't know the numbers.  I think my numbers were "low" (45 at 14dpet and 91 at 16 days dpet), but the actual numbers itself doesn't matter.  All that matters is that the numbers at least double in 48 hours.  But if it makes you feel better, you should ask when you get your 2nd beta result or even when you go in for your 2nd beta.
    2nd ectopic resulted in loss of tube. HSG revealed remaining tube is "severely torqued".
    IVF #1: ER 03/29/10; ET 04/01/10: transferred 2 embies; Beta #1 (9dp3dt)- 45; Beta #2 (11dp3dt)- 91= BFP
    FET#1: ET 04/18/12: transferred 4 embies; Beta #1: >2 = BFN
    IVF #2: ER 06/20/12; ET 6/25/12: transferred 2 embies; Beta #1 on 7/5/12= BFN
    8/16: hysteroscopy for polyp removal
    11/11: hysteroscopy #2 for yet another polyp removal
    FET#2: ET 12/15/12: transferred 3 embies; Beta #1 (9dp5dt): 12/24/12: 426; Beta #2 (11dp5dt): 845= BFP
    u/s 1/9= triplets!; miscarried all three on 1/10/13...

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