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where oh where is my sex drive?

hope915hope915
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anyone else completly lost theirs too?..I feel so bad for DH..he teases me and says "yeah, you got what you wanted from me, I guess I'm of no use anymore".. Sad poor guy..but I am always so tired, and he gets home from work so late (11:30pm)...
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  • shellyxoshellyxo

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    anyone else completly lost theirs too?..I feel so bad for DH..he teases me and says "yeah, you got what you wanted from me, I guess I'm of no use anymore".. Sad poor guy..but I am always so tired, and he gets home from work so late (11:30pm)...

    I am in the same boat. I have no sex drive at all...

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    however, I try and still please my DH with BJs.. seems to be working.  

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  • hope915hope915
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    imagehope915:
    anyone else completly lost theirs too?..I feel so bad for DH..he teases me and says "yeah, you got what you wanted from me, I guess I'm of no use anymore".. Sad poor guy..but I am always so tired, and he gets home from work so late (11:30pm)...

    I am in the same boat. I have no sex drive at all...

    Might be TMI:  

    however, I try and still please my DH with BJs.. seems to be working.  

     

    Its been at least a month since we have done..anything....I really feel awful, but it doesn't change how I act on it..ugh..I heard great things too about 2nd tri about how your sex drive goes crazy..well....I'm still waiting for THAT to happen...

     

    ps...when is your due date? I think we are due the same day..  mine is Oct 11th

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  • danienrossdanienross member
    yea my drive is still MIA.  we shoot for every couple of weeks even if i don't feel like it.  but then again i have pain issues so he is trying his best to be understanding.
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  • shellyxoshellyxo
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    Its been at least a month since we have done..anything....I really feel awful, but it doesn't change how I act on it..ugh..I heard great things too about 2nd tri about how your sex drive goes crazy..well....I'm still waiting for THAT to happen...

     

    ps...when is your due date? I think we are due the same day..  mine is Oct 11th

    I am still waiting for my sex drive to go up as well. It hasn't.. and well my desire for sex is getting less and less. It also doesn't help that whenever my DH and I have attempted.. it has been extremely uncomfortable for me now that I'm pregnant.

    I am due Oct 10th.. so we are almost the same day! Who knows, maybe we will still give birth on the same day..  

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  • adnesekfi1adnesekfi1
    I'm in the same boat! I waited my entire 2nd tri. to get it back and now im less then a week away from 3rd tri and......still nothing!! my poor DH...he says he understands, but I know that its hard for him and he doesnt really get it....;-(
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  • firsttogofirsttogo
    The pregnancy fairy must have dropped yours off at my house...Embarrassed
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  • hope915hope915

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    The pregnancy fairy must have dropped yours off at my house...Embarrassed

     

    well good for you!..I'm jealous...Stick out tongue...share the wealth sista!

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  • ajchouajchou member
    I'm in the same boat! I feel so bad for DH. I'm really hoping it will start to come back soon!


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  • krbell22krbell22 member
    My DH said the exact same thing to me the other day!  Is there a FB page for 2nd tri daddies that we don't know about?  Smile
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  • kg_08kg_08 member
    My DH half jokingly said he was deprived sometimes, but I found that especially around 20 weeks my drive picked up quite a bit. In the mean time, a good BJ will go a long way. Wink
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  • JennGKJennGK
    Same here!  I have no desire to AT ALL!  And now that I'm starting to show I don't feel that attractive so that makes me want to do it even less!
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  • ssf10ssf10

    I have my sex drive, but the thing is DH lost his lol.  he says he "feels weird doing it knowing our daughter is RIGHT THERE" I think it's funny but in a way...kinda sucks for me.

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  • VABride2008VABride2008 member

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    The pregnancy fairy must have dropped yours off at my house...Embarrassed

    This^^  I never would have thought pregnant sex would be so darn good! 

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  • Laura_LeeLaura_Lee

    Mine finally came back about a month ago - like REALLY came back. 

    Then I was put on pelvic rest last week for the rest of the pregnancy because of preterm contractions.  So essentially, in 9 months, we'll have had a whole whopping 3 weeks of decent sexual activity. 

    LAME.

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  • klmuse09klmuse09
    I know how you feel! I feel so unattractive right now, but my hubby absolutely loves the changes of my body. He's going nuts for my (formerly lacking) curves. I have found that the shower is a great place for us. It's much more comfortable for me, especially with the warm water. It also allows for some sudsy fun time ;) Ask him to shampoo your hair for you! It's like a mini head massage!
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  • giantsgirl55giantsgirl55 member
    I had it in the first tri. then lost it. Not sure it will come back either. My girlfriend who delivered her LO in Jan, is still waiting for hers to come back. Prognosis does not look good.
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  • mulanuvamulanuva

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    Same here!  I have no desire to AT ALL!  And now that I'm starting to show I don't feel that attractive so that makes me want to do it even less!

    This.  I miss my sex drive so much!  When we do do it, it's uncomfortable and I feel completely ugly.

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  • brown_bride07brown_bride07 member
    I'm in the same boat. I feel HORRIBLE.
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  • Shamay04Shamay04
    From day one I haven't had one. I was hoping it'd be different the 2nd time around but its just the same as it was with DD#1. I have absolutely none. You're not alone!
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  • hope915hope915
    I'm so glad I'm not alone in this...thanks for making me feel a little better ladies Wink
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  • Kimmy1836Kimmy1836
    imageLaura_Lee:

    Mine finally came back about a month ago - like REALLY came back. 

    Then I was put on pelvic rest last week for the rest of the pregnancy because of preterm contractions.  So essentially, in 9 months, we'll have had a whole whopping 3 weeks of decent sexual activity. 

    Same. I have been on pelvic rest since I was 15 weeks along (and will be until my placenta moves, if it does) I told SO I feel like I have forgotten what sex is. Poor me and poor SO. 

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