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TTC After a Loss 6 Months+
Scout05
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I'm back. FML.
Scout05
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MTHFR, two copies, A1298C. Lovenox after ovulation next pregnancy, yadda yadda yadda.
RE: Although this may be responsible for the two early losses, Trisomy 16 is not linked to MTHFR, and given the way your first loss went, I think we are still looking at a chromosomal issue.
So karyotypes for DH and I, TTA for the next cycle at least...and a huge packet about IVF PGD so we can "start to really think about it."
I just want to give up. It's fine. Just forget it. I'll just have the Doodle, sounds great.
My heart hurts so much right now, and I don't even know for sure there's anything wrong. I just have this feeling.
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Re: I'm back. FML.
MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
BFP #4 5/8/11
BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
Allison - look at it this way. It is NOT game over. It's hard news to handle, yes, but you have all of us, your DH and the Scout-ster as support. We're ALWAYS here for you.
Big hugs, lovely.
Oh sweetie.
I just want to drive to Chicago and hug you.
((hugs))sweetie, I am so sorry that you are going through this. I wish I could do something to make everything better.
I know it seems like a lot now, but let me help put things in perspective.
The MTHFR is very treatable. Your trisomy losses could have been bad luck, but getting the karyotypes will help you know for sure (although I really wish he would have just ordered these with your clotting panel if he was going to suggest them either way). And even if there is a translocation, you still have a fighting chance even without IVF. And no matter how you get there, you will have a baby someday.
You know we're all pulling for you!
I know, you're right. And even if we do need the IVF, that is hardly the end of the world.
I just stupidly felt so optimistic that I was going to go in and she would be all "great, we have an answer, let's make a healthy baby!"
I'm tired of getting punched in the gut. Make that the ute.
I'm sorry Allison. Snuggle lots with Scout tonight. Our doggies always know when we need extra love.
And as others have said, MTHFR is easily treatable and the chromosome issues might have been bad luck. You can still get your forever baby without having to do IVF.
And even if you do end up doing IVF, you still have hope. Big hugs Allison.
Oh honey, what a sh*t ton of stuff to have on your plate. I wish I had some sort of great advice for you. I guess just take a little bit of time and let it sink in. Maybe get drunk? And, as always, know we are here for you.
(((hugshugshugshugs)))
Oh Allison...I think Carrie said it best...We love you hun...I am so so sorry...We love you!!!!
Aw hun. I'm so sorry.
It is a gut-punch. Here's hoping they find little to nothing.
But yes, you have us, you have the Doodle, and you've got a kick a$$ hubby. . . so that's something. That's a veritable army on your side, friend.
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This cycle is out and the next one as well, most likely.
We should have them back some time within the next four weeks.
*big hugs*
Sorry about the additional issues, it seems like there can never be just one. I'm not sure if it i'll make you feel better on not, but DD happened all on her own before we knew about all this crap.
We're gonna do the PGD talk with the RE on thursday (but DH is pretty against it at the moment).
4 losses (cp Feb 28 09, mc April 9 09 (5w5d), mc Aug 10 09 (7w1d), d&c Apr 12 10 (grew to 6w3d, mc confirmed at 8w5d). RX: Overies PCOS (hormones normal) & Balanced Translocation of Ch. 7 & 13 (40-50% mc risk)
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Coming out of the woodwork to give you a big hug!! I've never heard of lovenox after ovulation. If you want any pointers on lovenox let me know, I take it when I'm pg.
Dh and I just had chromosome/karyotype testing done and we're awaiting results. Big Hugs!!
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Oh crap. Keep your head up woman, you'll get through it. I'm sorry.
oh darling, I hope that the testing comes back as just an anomaly and you will be cleared to move forward. There are options. not easy options, but options.
biggest of hugs.
I'm really sorry.
You know, this whole TTCAL thing has made me realize that no matter what life throws at us, there is always another day and if you keep putting one foot in front of the other, you will get through it and will be a stronger person. Sometimes it's just hard to take that first step after the bad news, but you will get through this.
It still sucks and you have every right to go out and drink your face off and cry and feel sorry about it and whatever else makes you feel at least a little better.
I hope you get the rest of the answers soon and that everything is ok and the Trisomy was just a fluke.
(((HUGS)))
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IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN
Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10
BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11
Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11
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Damn Allison I'm so sorry. I was really hoping this would be a good appointment.
This sucks.
Damnit that sucks. I am so sorry girl.
I'm so, so sorry hun! Got any of those Cadburry Eggs left? This def. merrits breaking them out. Barring that, I recommend your favorite alcoholic beverage.
Huge squishy hugs!
Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks