If you had a job in another borough (where you live), but it wasn't a job you loved... would you take a position in Manhattan even if the commute would suck?
I like convenience... but I also what a job I can be proud of and that I want to go into do. hmmm?
Re: would you commute into Manhattan?
DH, DD and I commute every day from Long Island into NYC for work (and DD daycare). But, I would love to get a job closer to home - it's just that my job pays $25K+ more in NYC than on Long Island.
If I were you, I wouldn't do it. We bring DD with us because to leave her on LI would be a 12-hour day in daycare - 7AM-7PM. Time with her is more important than anything (except we really just can't afford such a huge paycut!)