Infertility

LONG Update (pg mentioned)

Sorry this took so long, ladies. After my ultrasound, I had to go to class. Then we met my mom and her husband for dinner, and i'm just getting home now.

Since a few days after ET, my acu was saying that she felt very strongly that there were 2 babies. Honestly, DH and I felt the same way. Then last week something changed a little. I stopped feeling as strongly that there were two babies, and yesterday at my other class, I actually even told one girl that I thought there were two, and that we lost one of them.

I was right.

So, I'm a little sad to mention that we did lose a twin, but I'm THRILLED to report that we have 1 VERY healthy looking perfectly dating 6w1d embryo, with a little heart flickering away, and a heartbeat swish that we could hear very clearly.

The baby looks PERFECT. Exactly like an embryo at this age should look based on all of the pictures i've looked at.

He said that once we get to 8 weeks, our miscarriage chances drop to <5%. So, it's just another 2ww for us. We'll have 2 more ultrasounds in the next two weeks, and my RE told me if I ever need to come see him during the rest of my pregnancy, just to call and make an appointment, and he'll see me no questions asked... even if I just want an u/s (which I'm sure I will). Stick out tongue

He offered to switch me from PIO to crinone supps, but I quickly turned that down. It's bad enough I check the paper for blood every time I pee... I can't imagine actually feeling discharge all the time. I'd have a heart attack. So, i chose to stick with the devil I already know.

Of the three fibroids, there's only one left (the other 2 must have shrunk after the cycle), and it's FAR away from the baby, and nowhere near the uterine cavity. He doesn't see it as an issue for the pregnancy.

One funny thing, during the u/s he asked if I knew I had to pee. I said of course I do, and I already did while I was waiting... twice. And then my husband chimes in that I also peed once on the way down to his office and twice at lunch before our appointment. He cracked up, and told us about an iPhone app that helps you find a bathroom, no matter where you are.

I swear I've never peed so much in my life.

Anyway - ladies, thank you for thinking about me. It's sweet to know that people were waiting for my update.

Without further ado.... our little baby smudge:

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Dx: MFI, DOR, 9 Fibroids and homozygous MTHFR

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Re: LONG Update (pg mentioned)

  • I am so sorry about your lost twin but CONGRATS on your little one! Sounds perfect!
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  • LCB34LCB34 member
    I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your twin but so happy you have one healthy baby growing!!!
  • grazygrazy member
    I am so happy for you!!! Now I can go to sleep because I was waiting for this update!!?
    Congrats to you! I am sorry about the loss of the twin, but I am glad you have a good outlook on everything.?
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  • CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!! Awesome news!!!!!!!!! So happy you have a little healthy one cooking away in there!!

    Sorry about the second baby. I will keep you all in my thoughts!! 

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  • I'm SO very happy for you, Gen. I'm sorry about the loss of the twin, though.  It must have been a bittersweet ultrasound. 

    I'm praying for a happy, healthy, and joyous nine months for you!

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  • I am sorry for your loss but thrilled for yor gain. Congrats!
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  • Oh,I am so sorry about your twin but so so happy about your other little one and how strong he/she is looking!!  Congrats!
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  • I am so sorry about your loss hon, but CONGRATULATIONS! I am so happy to hear that you have one perfect little bean growing strong :)
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    After two Clomid cycles, three injectable IUI cycles, two IVFs, two miscarriages, and one lap surgery, IVF #2 has brought us our little boy!

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    After months of being postponed or cancelled, FET #1.3 (Natural FET) brought us twin girls!

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  • YAY!!!!!!! Congrats! I am so sorry about your lost twin but SO HAPPY that you have one beautiful healthy baby in there =) T&P will be with you for the whole 9 months!
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  • I am sorry for your loss, but congratulations on your other blessing! My prayers are with you for a happy and healthy pregnancy!!!
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  • Gen, I am sorry to hear about the loss of your twin but am so happy to hear that baby smudge is doing so well! Thanks for updating us... As you can see the entire board was sitting here holding our collective breath waiting for your update. :)
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  • Aw, Gen, Congrats!  I am so sorry about the loss of the twin, but it is so awesome to see a healthy baby in that u/s! :)
  • Congrats on your babe!
    DX: Him: Super sperm Me: Diminished pituitary function due to tumor removed April 2008, MTHFR Hetero C677T & A1298C
    IVF #1-4=BFN IVF #5=BFP! U/S on 5/3 revealed TWINS!

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  • I am SO happy to hear this. I'm sorry about the twin but glad you have a healthy singleton!
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  • Honestly, I was okay with the ultrasound because i knew already. It wasn't a surprise - it was just a little surreal that I was right. 

    LOVING my healthy smudge and we're just so happy.

    Interestingly, I've been having cramping in 2 specific places in my uterus since 2-4dp3dt. One place, on the left, stopped bothering my last week. It was where the empty sac was.  the place i've been having all of this periodic cramping on the right looks to be EXACTLY where my smudge is implanted. 

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  • Sorry to hear that you loss a twin but am very happy for you that the other baby looks great. H&H 9months!
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  • I'm so sorry about the loss of a twin. Congratulations, and I'm so glad you were able to hear a strong healthy heartbeat! Here's to a happy and healthy 9 mos!!
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  • Yay, so happy your little fighter is doing great! I am so sorry about the loss of the twin though. I can't wait to hear about your next u/s!
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  • I am sorry about the loss of your twin. :-(

    Many congrats on your little one though!

  • I am so happy about your perfect little one growing.

    Congrats cutie :)

     

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    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
    MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
  • Sorry you lost the twin but thank goodness the other baby is doing great!  Good luck!
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  • Congrats!!! Your little smudge looks perfect :D
  • So incredibly happy for you!
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  • I'm sorry for your loss, but am so excited about you other LO!  Congrats!
    TTC since 8/2004
    Me - DX Hashimoto's Disease, Hypothyroid, Rheumatoid Arthritis
    DH - DX Azoospermia - Sertoli Cell Syndrome
    DS-IUI #1-4 BFN IVF #1 - BFP! It's a boy!!!
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  • CONGrATS!!  It's great to stay focused on the positive ... 
  • I'm so sorry that you lost the twin.  It's so strange how our intuition sometimes works.

    But the rest of the visit sounds like fabulous news!  Congratulations!!!!  So happy for you!

    BTW, also sounds like you have an amazing RE.

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  • I am so sorry for your loss, but congrats on your healthy little smudgie!
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  • I am so happy and glad that your baby looks so good. I am very sorry about the lost twin:<  It's funny about having to go to the bathroom. I had to go ALL the time too.
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    TTC since 2007
    6 IUIs, 3 IVFs, and 2 m/c :< PCOS, Blood Clotting Disorder & MFI
    IVF #2 Aug 2011 is a BFN:<
    IVF #3 March 2012 is a BFN
    Not sure what to do now. Sad and lost.
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  • Gen - I am sorry about the twin, but so freaking HAPPY for your perfect baby!  I am wishing you the most wonderful 9 months :) 
    TTC #1 since Dec. 2008 01/10 - DH diagnosed with Azoospermia 05/10 - First Biopsy - producing sperm :) 08/11 - Second Biopsy..4 vials frozen 08/12 - First IVF BFN & no more vials :( Don't know our next plan...
  • I have been waiting for this update allllll day. I'm so sorry about your lost twin but so over the moon excited that your little bean looks great! Congratulations!!!
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  • I'm sorry.   On the other hand Congrats!!!!!!
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    PCOS diagnosis~can't remember how many years ago
    Several cycles of Clomid with OBGYn ~BFNs
    11-09 Initial Consult with RE
    12-09 Changed to a different RE
    1-2010 CCT-BFN
    2-2010 Rest Cycle, Waiting for AF..where are yOU?
    3.5.2010 RE found a cyst....Rest another month
    3.12.10 AF
    3.13.10 Cyst still there....on BCP until next month
    4.10.10 Starting Lupron/Gonal-F/Luveris
    April 2010 IVF #1 ~ BFP
    5.5.10 Beta #1~150
    5.7.19 Beta #2~300
    5.19.10 1st u/s 2 sacs~~
    5.25.10 2nd u/s 2 heartbeats~twins
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    Delivered on 11.28.10 due to HELLP syndrome at 33w 4days
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  • I am also really sorry for your loss, but I'm so excited for you and your little smudge!! H&H 9 months to you!!!
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  • I'm so sorry to hear about the baby you lost!  Congrats on your healthy "smudge"!!  I hope everything progresses perfectly!
    TTC #1 since 12/07 SA 9/08=borderline normal HSG 1/09 found R tube blocked Multiple IUIs both with oral and injectible drugs from 2/09-2/11 Started domestic adoption process in 5/10, homestudy complete 9/10 Failed adoption after home with baby for 2 weeks 11/10 Blessed through the miracle of private adoption with a son, born 6/6/11 (his grandma's bday) 7lbs 9oz 20.5 inches long! So worth the wait!
  • I'm sorry to hear you lost a twin, but I'm so excited for your Healthy one!!!!!  CONGRATS TO YOU AND YOUR DH!!!!!!!!
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  • I am sorry for the news about the twin but WONDERFUL news on the other baby!!!
    TTC since 8/07 DX - Severe MFI/azoospermia & MTHFR/ TESEs found sperm - 7/08 & 6/09/ 12/08 - IVF#1 - BFN/ 6/09 - IVF #2 - cancelled due to OHSS risk (had retrieval)/ 7/09 - FET #1 - BFN/ 9/09 - FET #2 - BFN/ 11/09 - IVF #3 with new RE cancelled twice - 10/09 & 11/09/ 1/10 - IVF #3 take 3 - BFN/ 4/10 - IVF #4 - first ever BFP on 5/13/10!!! 108 @ 10dp3dt/ 2nd beta 311!/ sono on 5/28/10 said TWINS!!!! Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • I'm so sorry about the twin who didn't make it, but am thrilled you have one perfect little one in there. SO happy for you, Gen, congrats!
    We are adopting! Currently waiting for our domestic infant adoption match.

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  • Sorry to hear you lost the twin but so very happy for you that you have a perfect embryo growing :) Congrats...
  • MAK06MAK06 member
    I'm very sorry for the loss of the twin but so happy to hear there is one healthy little one in there!  Congratulations!

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    IVF #1 = BFP!! So blessed to have our baby boy! IVF #2 = Convert to frozen - 1 frostie! IVF #3 = Convert to frozen - 1 frostie! FET #1 = 8/14, Two transferred, One stuck! Praying for another healthy miracle! Due: 5/2/13 imageLilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • Congrats!! I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your twin, but glad to hear that everything looks great otherwise. What a beautiful u/s pic. :)

    Congrats again!!!

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  • Gen, I'm so excited for you. I'm sorry about your sad news, but I'm thrilled at the strength of your singleton!
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