Long time lurker, but need encouragement and support. I am a mother of a healthy 3yr old boy born at 34weeks Emerg. C. (4lbs 3oz.) Due to pre-e, and low amniotic fluid levels. I am now 26 weeks preg. with son #2 and diagnosed IUGR and ?insufficient placenta?. I have been put on bed-rest already and warned of earlier delivery than last time. I?m sad/ depressed that we have to have another tough pregnancy. Any one have advice/ stories to share. How to manage a preemie and 3 year old? Thank you.