just made me sad. All 17 year olds think they have it all together, that's part of being 17. She sounds like my students though and that is really frightening. Most teenagers who have actually seen more than the average 40 year old are in NO condition to be mother's. They have seen too much and are too damaged from their life experiences. They need a long time to heal before they reach the point where they can be selfless for another human being.
Re: So that smoking post
here's the link for anyone who is going "WTF is she talking about" lol
https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/34048715.aspx
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Natalie Kate - October 4, 2011
Blighted ovum, d&c at 9w, July 2012
Blighted ovum, d&c at 10w, September 2013
BFP May 28, EDD February 4, 2015
that chick sounds like the typical 17 y/o. OMGZ, u dont know my lyfe!
it makes me sad. I hope to god that my children have more sense than to TRY and get k/u at 18.
it seems to me that she just wants someone/something to love. Like a puppy. so incredibly sad.