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Ex boyfriend is silly. Long vent

PecswifePecswife
in Georgia Babies

Call me a cougar but he was 10 years younger then me. I was with him right before I met my hubby and really knew that me and him weren't going any further because of our age differences. So I left him alone and proceeded a relationship with my now hubby.

He calls, texts and what not. Tells me he wants to come visit me here in ATL. I pay him no mind. Looked at him as a friend. Last month he ran on to me about how he is not going to find the right girl. Ran on about how much he misses me blah blah blah...

2 weeks ago he calls me and tell me he is getting married. I say okay wow, I didn't even know he was seeing anybody. So he met a girl had a whirlwind relationship and decided to propose. Go you. I tell him that it not a good idea for him to talk to me anymore. Anytime he talks to me he brings up old feelings and crap. I have moved on and it is clear I cant even be a friend to him cause he keeps trying to cross a line.  We both agree not to talk or call or text or whatever contact.

So why the hell did he text me last week saying how he saw my old motorcycle and license number. Okay...I didn't respond because I took it as him just thinking that I wasnt serious with what I said. I friggin meant it.  Then a few days later he texts me saying that in one hour he will no longer be a single man.

Why you going to text me on ya FN wedding day an hour before you are getting the flip married? Why the heck am I even on ya bladdy mind!!! Shouldnt you be thinking about your bride to be?? NOT ME!!!!!

men are silly.  

Anyway, I just had to vent...

 

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  • julienandyjulienandy
    holy crap...that poor woman he is marrying.  then again you are 1 in a million!
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  • yellowtulips80yellowtulips80 member
    I feel bad for whom ever he married.  I used to have an ex that did the a lot of things you are talking about long before I met DH.  I no longer have contact with him because I just simply got fed up with his crap.   It is for the best, and you will find that with time and ignoring him he will eventually go away.  It isn't healthy for your marriage to even have him around in the first place IMO.  And it certainly isn't healthy for him to keep contacting you.
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  • MLvKMLvK

    I had an ex from a while back and he and I had a lot of unresolved things.   He friended me on FB and I accepted just to say the things I needed to say, that had been left unsaid for a long time. 

    But he started to get really inappropriate with me.   I would say, "You can't say things like that to me, I am a married woman."  I was like you know what? I said what I needed to say and we are not "friends" so... I unfriended him.

    Poor girl that guy married.    

    p.s. You had a motorcycle?    cool!   

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  • KerrinKerrin member
    just be glad you didn't marry him.
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  • edw2353edw2353
    imageMLvK:

    Poor girl that guy married.    

    p.s. You had a motorcycle?    cool!   

    Woah that is crazy. But tell us more about the motorcycle...LOL!

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