XP: Stupid question from a BF-experienced mom (LOL)...
Let me start by saying I have a somewhat red-headed kiddo and his skin is uber sensitive. Like he had blisters on his bum from the super sensitive wipes the hospital gave us. Then I tried Lansinoh, ones for EBF kids. Same disaster. So, after 4 days of no diapers, his skin cleared up. Yes, we washed like 20 bazillion loads of laundry during that time. Anyway, so now we just rinse his bum under the sink when he pees or poops. No more wipes! Why we didn't think of this sooner, I haven't a clue. We never used wipes on DD. Duh!?
So, here's my question... B/c we have to rinse him under the sink and wash his bum with Cetaphil cleanser for EACH diaper change, he screams his head off and hates it. Probably cold. Anyhow, during nighttime... Do you change your DC's diaper each time they wake for a feed? I have been and I think I'm gonna stop. DS wakes every 3-4 hours at night for a feed (not too shabby IMO) and I used to start by changing his diaper, then feeding him (whereby he would usually fall asleep after all of the screaming of the diaper change). Well, last night I was so darn exhausted that I fell asleep without changing him and just whipped out my booob in bed and we both fell asleep. He slept like an angel almost the whole night through (I think they call it dreamfeeding) and we didn't have the screaming of the diaper change. Pleasant. His butt seemed totally healthy and normal, too. No rash. Hmmm.... WWYD?
Re: Did/do you change nighttime diapers during feeds?
I did a change every other feeding. Of if I smelled a really good poop in there. I would feed him first and then change a diaper. Mostly because he was always SOOO hungry that if i changed him first he was so worked up I had a hard time feeding him.
he would sleep through the diaper changes though. We had a light dimmer in his room so I never had to turn the light on too bright.
Unless he has a really soiled diaper or went #2 (and he isn't getting a rash), I would let it ride.
not sure this will help b/c i ff, but at the newborn stage Carson would eliminate as i fed him so I would feed him first, then change, re-swaddle, jiggle, and put back in the bassinet.
BUT - the whole sensitive skin thing throws things off. i would say if what you did the other night worked like a dream keep doing it unless he gets another rash.