Pregnant after a Loss

1st u/s... relief... and a comment

I posted on the October 2010 Moms board.. you know, trying to be a "normal" pregnant person, but even though I got over 100 views, I only got 2 responses.  Same thing with my intro.  Maybe they think stillbirth is contagious.  I guess I need to stick around here and not venture there.

I had my first u/s on Friday.  My anxiety level was through the roof b/c the last time I had an u/s, I found out my son's heart had stopped beating at 36 weeks.  Everything about this appt was scary for me... the waiting, seeing the screen, etc.  We didn't hear much of anything that the tech said except "look, there's the heart beating".  We got to see our rainbow baby and everything looked good.  The baby was measuring right where he/she should be and the heartrate was 122bpm.  I'm trying to let myself relax just a little and be a little excited, but it's really, really hard b/c I know firsthand that there are no guarantees at any point during the pregnancy.

Re: 1st u/s... relief... and a comment

  • Congrats on a great first u/s!  That must be such a relief!
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  • I'm glad you are feeling some relief and that you had a good u/s!

    I kind of like checking out the November board-but I just don't think I can quite handle the naivete.  I can't imagine announcing to anyone I was pregnant based on my beta numbers. That's why I love this board!

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  • Congrats, I'm glad everything went well today.
    Marie, wife to Ron, mom to DS
  • Congrats on the great u/s! tI can be so nerve racking to wait and see...

    I love this board and don't really post anywhere else...unless its to update the wonderful ladies on TTCAL... 

    Keep posting here and keep updating us! 

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    That is great news and a huge relief I bet!
  • That's great news!  The sight/sound of a baby's heart beating is so beautiful.

    I think it's so sad that so many of us can't enjoy so much about pregnancy.  It's totally understandable, but still so sad.  I am one of those that lives in fear so much of the time.   

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  • I am glad your appt went great! We all know about the anxiety so vent anytime and I personally do not venture off onto other boards either...
    BFP #1: 10/17/08 EDD: 6/24/09-missed m/c; d&c on 12/8/08 BFP #2: 11/7/09 EDD: 7/15/10-Cabe born on 7/9/10 BFP #3: 10/7/11 EDD: 6/20/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Pregnancy Ticker A Butterfly lies beside us like a sunbeam and for a brief moment, its beauty and glory belong to our world. But then it flies on again. And though we wish it could have stayed we feel so lucky to have seen it. In loving memory of MrsTyson's precious Julia.
  • So glad you got such a good report.  Congrats!!
  • Congrats on a great first appointment!  It sure does take some of the stress away.

    I still go on TTCAL and see how everyone I know (a dwindling number) are doing, but otherwise pretty much stick here.  It is a great board and has the same feeling of support to me as TTCAL did. 

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  • I'm glad your appointment went well but I'm sorry that you didn't get much support from the other board.  I agree that the ladies on this board can't be beat when it comes to their support and compassion.
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  • Congrats on a great 1st Ultrasound! Sorry you didn't get any support from the October board. 

  • awesome news & great relief!
  • Thank you all so much for your support.  It really, really means a lot to me to have people that understand the fear and anxiety that comes along with PgAL.
  • Glad things went so well!
    Oh, Baby Bean! We will always miss you! With us for 6w3d -- June 9, 2008.
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    2 years of TTC, Seeing RE Feb 09, 2 medicated TI cycles - BFNs, 3 medicated IUIs - BFNs, back to medicated TI cycles until IVF approval, IVF approved in March 2010. BFP on last medicated TI cycle.
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