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Got a Call From Sperm Donor Today...

ladyaylenaladyaylena
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Just checked my cell phone messages and saw that he called and left a message.  It's been two months since I heard from him.  He must have got the paternity test results back because he said "Well, I guess I am the father"...  No shyte really?  Then he continues on to say he's upset that he doesn't know what's going on hasn't heard anything from me, yada yada yada.  He wants me to call him back but I am just not sure if I want to.  This guy is a pathological liar and I have no reason to believe a thing he says so why bother?  Am I being to harsh?  I just don't want anything to do with the bastard!
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Re: Got a Call From Sperm Donor Today...

  • achase123achase123
    Can you text or e-mail to give him an update on Liam?
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  • blondnearbyblondnearby
    yeah i would try to keep all conversations between you two in text or email.  That way there is no he said she said stuff...
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  • keychain01keychain01
    IMO I would give him some updates on Liam (via email/text)! I know you don't want to hear from him, but I think maybe Liam should hear from him, whenever your ready to take that step.
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  • packer01fanpacker01fan

    I hate having any contact with my daughter's dad but for her I do it. Not for him. I never give him anything he doesn't ask for though. It was about a week before she was born that he started actually asking how the pregnancy was going. When she was born he started asking for pictures (in my mind its to see who she looks like), and since he asked I'm complying. He and I were going to get married and he got stationed somewhere else. Three weeks after he left for his new base, he and I broke up after he said he didn't love me anymore and that he loved someone else. Two weeks after that on my birthday, he married that someone else. I was three months pregnant when he left. His wife is now about 11 - 12 weeks pregnant and she actually tries to talk to me to ask pregnancy questions. I honestly think the only reason my daughter's dad shows any interest in our daughter is to put up a front for his wife. He is my friend on Facebook and he asked me to tag him in all the pictures of our daughter and in all videos so I do. I don't talk to him unless he talks to me first though. 

     As much as I don't like him. If he didn't want a part in her life, I would leave it to child support and not talk to him at all. Just remember as much as you don't like your kid's dad, he has the right to know his dad and he can make his own choice on his dad later. You shouldn't try to make the choice for him. I don't believe a thing my ex says but I will give our daughter the option to know about him and I wouldn't keep his daughter from him. Just when she gets older she can make her own decisions and thoughts regarding him. I won't say a bad thing about her dad. All that will be left up to her and she feels about him. Good luck. I know its not easy. I would call him just to see what he wants as much as you don't want to. Do it for your son. God Bless you and your son.

     - Nicole 

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  • meghan_mariemeghan_marie member
    Go the email/text route. Chances are he will ask this one time and probably won't bring it up again. Guys like him are deadbeats... just like he said he would be.
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  • kjh44kjh44
    This is how the men in Aliquippa are (and where my DB is from)... definitely go the email route.  Although, if you ever do come back to PGH, we could grab lunch :o)
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