What's the longest you have gone

SimarikSmokin · March 2010

Without sex?

618mom22boys · March 2010

After DS2 was born, we went 11 months.

ETA: There is something about having 2 kids and leaky boobs that just made me not horny. lol

isacdimi10 · March 2010

We're working on 15 weeks... give or take a few days Sad

LCB34 · March 2010

I probably win this one.

We didn't have sex from November 22 until last weekend. What is that? 3 months?

I was stimming for IVF and wasn't in the mood. Then I was put on pelvic rest b/c of my IVF cycle, then we lost two of our babies so pelvic rest continued, then I lied to my husband for 3 weeks about still being on pelvic rest b/c the thought of sex made me want to vom.

ETA: I guess 3 months isn't much compared to some!

ryaroberts · March 2010

Wowzers! Those are all a long time! Maybe 2 weeks for us...I like sex!

Celtic Ember · March 2010

Longest DH and I went? 2 weeks, right before our wedding, and that was not for lack of want. That was DH trying to make sure our wedding night was 'extra special' ... and was he right!

Ever after I started? 10 months. The LONGEST 10 months of my life in more ways then one LOL

anvloveskme · March 2010

When I got separated and then divorced I went like 3-4 months, don't remember exactly, so I guess it wasn't that bad!

kg_08 · March 2010

I'd say the longest I've ever gone without sex was... maybe 10 days? Pretty sure I havn't make it to 2 weeks. We generally have sex at least twice a week.

fussbucket · March 2010

I'd say a week, unless someone's out of town or something.

SimarikSmokin · March 2010

The longest for Me was after giving birth since I had a c-section after pp it was hello again!

mrs.mulrine · March 2010

October 14, 2009... And I won't have sex until mid-April!! Sucksssss!!!!!

Halen0804 · March 2010

With DH... a week and a half (I started to freak out that there was something "wrong" with our relationship)

allyandpat2010 · March 2010

Uhhh maybe 2-3 weeks before every tournament that DH competes in. Supposedly it builds up his testosterone and makes him all manly and aggresive.

miss.jess · March 2010

8 weeks after DD was born, doctor's orders! Before that, 21 years.

ryaroberts · March 2010

mrs.mulrine:
October 14, 2009... And I won't have sex until mid-April!! Sucksssss!!!!!

Jesus?! Why???

brown_bride07 · March 2010

14 weeks... hoping to end that this weekend. Thanks to M/s and strep throat and the flu I was pretty down for the count.

ckred27 · March 2010

ugh now, its been 2 months for me and we have AT LEAST another 2 weeks, then we have our 20 mnth ultrasound and hopefully my placenta has moved so i can at least have bday sex!

KelleyA · March 2010

the last 11 weeks. boo....we cheated once somewhere in there. I'm on pelvic rest.

Mrs.Hagen2 · March 2010

4 or 5 weeks after birth. I too enjoy sex, its a big deal if we go a week without any sex.

mrs.mulrine · March 2010

ryaroberts:
mrs.mulrine:
October 14, 2009... And I won't have sex until mid-April!! Sucksssss!!!!!

Jesus?! Why???

Deployment! But I must say, at least it's not a year tour or longer! I'd shrivel up! I have no idea how those wives do it!

lillanmer · March 2010

16 months... but I was in Iraq, so does that count...

PubStar09 · March 2010

We're working on 8 weeks. My birthday is Sunday, so we'll see if it continues. Sad

ryaroberts · March 2010

mrs.mulrine:
ryaroberts:

mrs.mulrine:
October 14, 2009... And I won't have sex until mid-April!! Sucksssss!!!!!

Jesus?! Why???

Deployment! But I must say, at least it's not a year tour or longer! I'd shrivel up! I have no idea how those wives do it!

Whew! I was worried about u!

Halen0804 · March 2010

mrs.mulrine:
ryaroberts:

mrs.mulrine:
October 14, 2009... And I won't have sex until mid-April!! Sucksssss!!!!!

Jesus?! Why???

Deployment! But I must say, at least it's not a year tour or longer! I'd shrivel up! I have no idea how those wives do it!

I sure hope you have some fun toys to keep yourself occupied. Wink

stepgirl21 · March 2010

5 months.

mrs.mulrine · March 2010

ryaroberts:
mrs.mulrine:
ryaroberts:

mrs.mulrine:
October 14, 2009... And I won't have sex until mid-April!! Sucksssss!!!!!

Jesus?! Why???

Deployment! But I must say, at least it's not a year tour or longer! I'd shrivel up! I have no idea how those wives do it!

Whew! I was worried about u!

hahahaah, Oh Miss Lady! If he was home I would never of let it go that long! Thank goodness for my bff when DH is away, Juan Carlos!

DorothyandMatt · March 2010

I felt pretty terrible during 1st Tri so maybe 2-3 weeks? ?Now I feel great so we're back to normal. ?Although positions are getting difficult & I feel pretty silly with my big belly but I still want mine!?

preppynewlywed · March 2010

24 years.

After that? The 8 weeks after my surgery last summer. I basically had a c-section to have a tumor removed...no sex for 2 months afterward.

MNgirl326 · March 2010

With DH, about 3 weeks.

Before DH, maybe 4 months.

LittleMs.Wifey · March 2010

hmmm...let's see, what does my ticker say? Oh yeah, 16 weeks and 5 days. boo.

no. desire. to. have. sex. poor DH.

In my dreams, on the other hand...wowza.

SimarikSmokin · March 2010

allyandpat2010:
Uhhh maybe 2-3 weeks before every tournament that DH competes in. Supposedly it builds up his testosterone and makes him all manly and aggresive.

Dh said that once how it makes him aggressive when he had a big meeting with a major client!!

VampyGirl · March 2010

2 weeks so far...and its killing me.. =[

allyandpat2010 · March 2010

SimarikSmokin:
allyandpat2010:
Uhhh maybe 2-3 weeks before every tournament that DH competes in. Supposedly it builds up his testosterone and makes him all manly and aggresive.
Dh said that once how it makes him aggressive when he had a big meeting with a major client!!

HAHA.... and us ladies have to suffer!

Mattysgirl04 · March 2010

2.5 months

ToBeMcInerney · March 2010

3 months and that was only because I was out of town for work.

But besides that I think it was about 6 weeks and that was in first tri. Although Sunday was the first time in 2 weeks. Poor DH, thankfully he is really patient, I honestly have no desire but those dreams sure do help with morning sex!

SimarikSmokin · March 2010

LittleMs.Wifey:
hmmm...let's see, what does my ticker say? Oh yeah, 16 weeks and 5 days. boo.
no. desire. to. have. sex. poor DH.
In my dreams, on the other hand...wowza.

sex in dreams are always hot!! I hate it when you are disturbed and you are getting to the good parts!!:)

ArmyWife3 · March 2010

5 months - that's the military for you Sad

teelaman · March 2010

For me it's got nothing to do with lack of desire.....

It's been several weeks....and that's only because (and I don't remember which week it was) the last time we tried....it was actually incredibly painful for me. It's the first time during the pregnancy that it's become painful, but I'm looking forward to when it's not painful anymore after LO gets here. This is lame.

juietbride · March 2010

7weeks five days immediately after having DS.

MrserinJ · March 2010

6 weeks. I waited until I got the ok from the doctor post partum last time.

sopranole · March 2010

I think I might win this one.

14 months! Last time I got pregnant it was on Thanksgiving. One of us was sick for at least a week and then we got our BFP. Within days I started my 24/7 morning sickness for the next 3 months. The very last thing I wanted was sex. I couldn't even lay on my stomach or I would throw up. When I finally started feeling better, I was diagnosed with placenta previa and put on "pelvic rest". It corrected itself but by that point I was so big and DH was freaked that he would hurt the baby (even though he knew he wouldn't) and he couldn't do it when there was literally someone kicking him off of me when he tried. LOL Then I had a C-section, and with a newborn no one wants sex no matter how long it has been when you're that tired. So, um..yeah...14 months.

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