I have been reading all the responses because I thought I was harsh at first, but saw that many had the same opinion I had...it looks like it is gone now!
I strongly believe if you cannot make it on your own as a couple you are not ready to be a couple. I'm not talking about temporaily living with someone while your house is being finished or your apartment is ready. But if you cannot manage to make rent without getting 'into debt up to your eyeballs' (her words) then you are not real adult. Relationships are so much more than hooking up with someone you think is cute.
She was crazy....my boyfriend and I aren't having the best financial time but I think that is a lot of people in the country right now....we still make it work!!
It's a little something called putting your priorities in order and making it work! There is a child to think about now... she needs to get that through her head!!
Did she ever actually say she was or wasn't able to work - I never saw that, I thought she just insisting people were ignorant and not giving any further info...
I could not believe what i was reading?!?!? PATHETIC.......The only one i feel bad for in that situation is that poor unborn baby:(
ya know what, don't "poor unborn baby" me, you have NO fvcking clue what my situation is, so how about you lay the eff off and go about on your high and mighty pedestal alright?
My husband and I use to struggle with each of us having a full time job and zero benefits from the government. Guess what EVERY single person has options! My husband is now in the Navy and we are doing great. Some people just do not want to actually have to make sacrifices for things in life.
She was crazy....my boyfriend and I aren't having the best financial time but I think that is a lot of people in the country right now....we still make it work!!
It's a little something called putting your priorities in order and making it work! There is a child to think about now... she needs to get that through her head!!
Gah some people...I swear!
crazy? hah. you're hilarious. what facts or information do you have that validates that i don't put my priorities in order?
I could not believe what i was reading?!?!? PATHETIC.......The only one i feel bad for in that situation is that poor unborn baby:(
ya know what, don't "poor unborn baby" me, you have NO fvcking clue what my situation is, so how about you lay the eff off and go about on your high and mighty pedestal alright?
Well, why don't you enlighten us instead of spurting out platitudes?
She was crazy....my boyfriend and I aren't having the best financial time but I think that is a lot of people in the country right now....we still make it work!!
It's a little something called putting your priorities in order and making it work! There is a child to think about now... she needs to get that through her head!!
Gah some people...I swear!
crazy? hah. you're hilarious. what facts or information do you have that validates that i don't put my priorities in order?
I strongly believe if you cannot make it on your own as a couple you are not ready to be a couple. I'm not talking about temporaily living with someone while your house is being finished or your apartment is ready. But if you cannot manage to make rent without getting 'into debt up to your eyeballs' (her words) then you are not real adult. Relationships are so much more than hooking up with someone you think is cute.
do you know why we got in debt? no you don't. so how about you stop being judgmental?
She was crazy....my boyfriend and I aren't having the best financial time but I think that is a lot of people in the country right now....we still make it work!!
It's a little something called putting your priorities in order and making it work! There is a child to think about now... she needs to get that through her head!!
Gah some people...I swear!
crazy? hah. you're hilarious. what facts or information do you have that validates that i don't put my priorities in order?
Possibly that you said you ONLY pay your cell phone bill and nothing else...
I know if I was struggling for money as bad as you claim to be I would NOT be spending it on my cell phone! You attitude kinda does it for all of us too I think....
You complained about having to clean up after him..just WAIT till the baby is here...you think your house is messy now....
She was crazy....my boyfriend and I aren't having the best financial time but I think that is a lot of people in the country right now....we still make it work!!
It's a little something called putting your priorities in order and making it work! There is a child to think about now... she needs to get that through her head!!
Gah some people...I swear!
crazy? hah. you're hilarious. what facts or information do you have that validates that i don't put my priorities in order?
I guess that was the point of my post above, asking if you are able to work or not, but you have never responded or offered any additional info about your situation other than to tell posters they are ignorant and know nothing about your situation. People are not going to be sympathetic to you if you just delete and then come back in making comments on comments, again, with no further explanations.
I posted a vent about a month back about my frustration with my student loan company and got flamed by some people who thought I needed to go back to "budgeting 101" and told me basically that I was being dumb for thinking maternity leave would qualify me for any type of relief from repayment for a couple of months...I didn't delete the post. Instead I gave more info, which frankly didn't change many opinons, but that is the risk of posting on a public forum.
I strongly believe if you cannot make it on your own as a couple you are not ready to be a couple. I'm not talking about temporaily living with someone while your house is being finished or your apartment is ready. But if you cannot manage to make rent without getting 'into debt up to your eyeballs' (her words) then you are not real adult. Relationships are so much more than hooking up with someone you think is cute.
do you know why we got in debt? no you don't. so how about you stop being judgmental?
How about your boyfriend join the military!? He will get out of debt fast, you will have your own place and medical! Oh wait that means he would have to stop depending on his mommy to help him...
I could not believe what i was reading?!?!? PATHETIC.......The only one i feel bad for in that situation is that poor unborn baby:(
ya know what, don't "poor unborn baby" me, you have NO fvcking clue what my situation is, so how about you lay the eff off and go about on your high and mighty pedestal alright?
Well, why don't you enlighten us instead of spurting out platitudes?
She hasn't replied yet b/c she is off googling what platitudes means!
She was crazy....my boyfriend and I aren't having the best financial time but I think that is a lot of people in the country right now....we still make it work!!
It's a little something called putting your priorities in order and making it work! There is a child to think about now... she needs to get that through her head!!
Gah some people...I swear!
crazy? hah. you're hilarious. what facts or information do you have that validates that i don't put my priorities in order?
I strongly believe if you cannot make it on your own as a couple you are not ready to be a couple. I'm not talking about temporaily living with someone while your house is being finished or your apartment is ready. But if you cannot manage to make rent without getting 'into debt up to your eyeballs' (her words) then you are not real adult. Relationships are so much more than hooking up with someone you think is cute.
do you know why we got in debt? no you don't. so how about you stop being judgmental?
Then enlighten us. WHY are you in so much debt? Educate me.
From my point of view of you right now, this is what I see:
You don't live on your own. You bounce between homes. You don't know how to use birth control. You feel like you don't get any help. You don't work. You would rather collect food stamps instead of working, And even though you have plenty of money in savings to pay your bills, you are still massively in debt. So, please, educate me.
I could not believe what i was reading?!?!? PATHETIC.......The only one i feel bad for in that situation is that poor unborn baby:(
ya know what, don't "poor unborn baby" me, you have NO fvcking clue what my situation is, so how about you lay the eff off and go about on your high and mighty pedestal alright?
Here's the thing, you told us PLENTY about what your situation is. If you misrepresented it, then please enlighten us. Otherwise, you need to own it and quit calling people names because they didn't tell you exactly what you wanted to hear.
I strongly believe if you cannot make it on your own as a couple you are not ready to be a couple. I'm not talking about temporaily living with someone while your house is being finished or your apartment is ready. But if you cannot manage to make rent without getting 'into debt up to your eyeballs' (her words) then you are not real adult. Relationships are so much more than hooking up with someone you think is cute.
do you know why we got in debt? no you don't. so how about you stop being judgmental?
Then enlighten us. WHY are you in so much debt? Educate me.
From my point of view of you right now, this is what I see:
You don't live on your own. You bounce between homes. You don't know how to use birth control. You feel like you don't get any help. You don't work. You would rather collect food stamps instead of working, And even though you have plenty of money in savings to pay your bills, you are still massively in debt. So, please, educate me.
Enough in savings to pays her own bills.... but only has the money to pay her phone bill...? that doesn't make sense.
I could not believe what i was reading?!?!? PATHETIC.......The only one i feel bad for in that situation is that poor unborn baby:(
ya know what, don't "poor unborn baby" me, you have NO fvcking clue what my situation is, so how about you lay the eff off and go about on your high and mighty pedestal alright?
Actually I'm going by what YOU wrote!!! Get a clue little girl, you are about to be a mother and its time to grow up.
I could not believe what i was reading?!?!? PATHETIC.......The only one i feel bad for in that situation is that poor unborn baby:(
ya know what, don't "poor unborn baby" me, you have NO fvcking clue what my situation is, so how about you lay the eff off and go about on your high and mighty pedestal alright?
Well, why don't you enlighten us instead of spurting out platitudes?
She hasn't replied yet b/c she is off googling what platitudes means!
Re: Another DD - "I just have to vent" post?
You were totally right! Not harsh at all!
nope its not gone....thanks to the wonders of TheBump.
see above: Excuse me you dropped this.
YWVM
Nice...very Karen Walker of you!
She was crazy....my boyfriend and I aren't having the best financial time but I think that is a lot of people in the country right now....we still make it work!!
It's a little something called putting your priorities in order and making it work! There is a child to think about now... she needs to get that through her head!!
Gah some people...I swear!
ya know what, don't "poor unborn baby" me, you have NO fvcking clue what my situation is, so how about you lay the eff off and go about on your high and mighty pedestal alright?
The Nutty Life
crazy? hah. you're hilarious. what facts or information do you have that validates that i don't put my priorities in order?
The Nutty Life
Well, why don't you enlighten us instead of spurting out platitudes?
Are... are you... are you serious?
do you know why we got in debt? no you don't. so how about you stop being judgmental?
The Nutty Life
Possibly that you said you ONLY pay your cell phone bill and nothing else...
I know if I was struggling for money as bad as you claim to be I would NOT be spending it on my cell phone! You attitude kinda does it for all of us too I think....
You complained about having to clean up after him..just WAIT till the baby is here...you think your house is messy now....
You needed an X Box AND a Playstation 3?
Does the fact that this woman is bringing a child into the world scare anyone else!?!?
ohhh boy
I guess that was the point of my post above, asking if you are able to work or not, but you have never responded or offered any additional info about your situation other than to tell posters they are ignorant and know nothing about your situation. People are not going to be sympathetic to you if you just delete and then come back in making comments on comments, again, with no further explanations.
I posted a vent about a month back about my frustration with my student loan company and got flamed by some people who thought I needed to go back to "budgeting 101" and told me basically that I was being dumb for thinking maternity leave would qualify me for any type of relief from repayment for a couple of months...I didn't delete the post. Instead I gave more info, which frankly didn't change many opinons, but that is the risk of posting on a public forum.
BWAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!
Bar tab = $156,000, Bus to Foxwoods = $0, Puking in the Stanley Cup = Priceless
How about your boyfriend join the military!? He will get out of debt fast, you will have your own place and medical! Oh wait that means he would have to stop depending on his mommy to help him...
She hasn't replied yet b/c she is off googling what platitudes means!
anyone else making popcorn???
*munch munch munch*
Then enlighten us. WHY are you in so much debt? Educate me.
From my point of view of you right now, this is what I see:
You don't live on your own. You bounce between homes. You don't know how to use birth control. You feel like you don't get any help. You don't work. You would rather collect food stamps instead of working, And even though you have plenty of money in savings to pay your bills, you are still massively in debt. So, please, educate me.
hahahaha
Tell me what it means before I commit to chanting!
GBCB = Good Bye Cruel Bump
Here's the thing, you told us PLENTY about what your situation is. If you misrepresented it, then please enlighten us. Otherwise, you need to own it and quit calling people names because they didn't tell you exactly what you wanted to hear.
Uuuuugh I can't read it! Half of it is cut off!! BTW, I looooove Karen!
I have pizza for this one!!
use the scroll bar at the bottom of my post and you can read it. i posted part 2 also
Enough in savings to pays her own bills.... but only has the money to pay her phone bill...? that doesn't make sense.
DS2 8/21/12
DD 9/26/14
Baby #4 edd 2/11/19
Actually I'm going by what YOU wrote!!! Get a clue little girl, you are about to be a mother and its time to grow up.
LOL