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I tested...

MontyMrsMontyMrs
in Infertility
And it's negative. I don't know what else to do, this is my 5th IVF (3rd fresh) we've been through 13 embryos and all I have to show for it is early losses. I think it's time for some hard decisions.
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  • AletheaPAletheaP
    I'm so sorry. I know this must be terribly difficult for you.  *big hugs* 
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  • njohnson1972njohnson1972 member

    ::hugs::

    I am so sorry!

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  • ams8099ams8099 member
    {{hugs}}
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  • MrsKimandIanMrsKimandIan
    I am so sorry you are dealing with this pain (((HUGS)))
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  • LuvBugKelLuvBugKel
    (((HUGS))) I'm so sorry
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  • Edwina.McDunnoughEdwina.McDunnough
    I am so sorry!!
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  • OrangeSmokeOrangeSmoke member

    Ugh - I am so so so sorry.

    Me: PCOs DH: Perfect!
    4 Fresh IVF cycles + 1 FET where embies didn't survive the thaw = 2 perfect little men!
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  • caityrcaityr
    Monty....I am so sorry. We are all supporting you now and always.
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  • Ginger71Ginger71 member
    Monty. I am so very sorry. 
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  • hopeful34hopeful34 member
    Monty i'm so sorry...hoping the test is wrong!!
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  • alicbalicb member
    I am so, so sorry Monty!
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  • ShannonT08ShannonT08
    I am so sorry to hear this.  ((HUGS))
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  • SNB2BSNB2B
    I'm so sorry you are going through this. ((hugs))
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  • Kiki11Kiki11
    Oh no :(  I'm so, so, so, sorry.  (((huge hugs)))
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  • Mrs.JohnsMrs.Johns member
    I'm so sorry, Monty. :(  (((huge hugs)))
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  • mrslovebugmrslovebug
    I'm so sorry Monty :(
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  • grazygrazy member

    I wish I had words to make you feel better. I am so sorry. We are all here for you.?

    DS born 7.30.11
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  • LuvWIfootballLuvWIfootball member
    I'm so sorry.  Hopefully your Dr will have some answers which may help make your decision easier, as if anything regarding IF is easy.  Please take care.

                          

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    DS1 born July 2002 (previous marriage).

    TTC since Oct 08. DH Dx w/testicular cancer March 09.
    MFI due to retrograde ejaculation/azoospermia.
    5/2 IVF #1 cancelled due to large follie.
    6/14 start Lupron for IVF #1.2. 6/22 start stims.
    7/4 ER and Biopsy.
    7/9 Transferred 2 (1-4BB and 1-3BB) embryos.  4 frosties.
    7/15 +HPT 6dp5dt. 7/18 Beta #1: 193. 7/20 Beta #2: 415.
    8/10 1st u/s - It's triplets!

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  • Temp590840000005378Temp590840000005378
    Oh Monty, I'm so sorry!!! I honestly cannot imagine going through so many IVF's with no success, it just doesn't make sense, ugh!!!   You deserve to be a Momma so much and my heart is breaking for you.  I'm just so incredibly sorry!!! ((HUGS))
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  • anangelbuganangelbug member
    I'm sorry Monty.  I will say tons of prayers that the test is wrong and the beta shows otherwise. ((hugs))
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  • Babsie7Babsie7 member

    I'm so sorry Monty.

    (((hugs)))

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  • thewormstheworms member

    I am so, so sorry cutie.

    I am in tears for you. I've got your back no matter what and am always here if you need anything.

    (((HUGS)))

     

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    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
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  • greekwife05greekwife05
    I am so sorry... (((HUGE HUGS)))
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  • *jenjen**jenjen*
    Oh no Monty, I am so so sorry :(  I know there's nothing that'll make this better right now.  ((hugs))  DH and I are in the "decision making" stage right now too and it sucks. 
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  • LisaMarie95LisaMarie95
    I am so sorry.
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  • BathingInBitterBathingInBitter
    Oh honey, I'm so sorry. ((hugs))
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  • LCB34LCB34 member
    I am so, so sorry.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • AuburnBride06AuburnBride06
    Oh no, Monty I am so sorry. It just isn't fair. I'm so angry for you sweet lady. HUGE {{{{HUGS}}}}. I just don't understand it.
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  • jds0521jds0521
    I'm so sorry - huge ((HUGS)) to you.
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  • raskind17raskind17 member
    I am so sorry to hear this! Maye you just need a little break to think things over. I wish you all the luck!
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  • BRSaugust20BRSaugust20 member
    I am very sorry.
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  • Mrs.B2007Mrs.B2007 member
    I'm so sorry!
    TTC #1 since Dec. 2008 01/10 - DH diagnosed with Azoospermia 05/10 - First Biopsy - producing sperm :) 08/11 - Second Biopsy..4 vials frozen 08/12 - First IVF BFN & no more vials :( Don't know our next plan...
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  • Marie6Marie6
    I am so so sorry. ((hugs))
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  • mrshoppy_1231mrshoppy_1231
    Oh no, I am so sorry. ((hugs)). Thinking of you and your DH
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    I am so very sorry.  (((HUGS)))
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    I'm so sorry. ((hugs))
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  • scatterbrainlizscatterbrainliz
    sorry for the news!  here's some (((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))
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  • Susan&CourtneySusan&Courtney member
    I'm so sorry.
    TTC since August 2008 4 cycles Femara = BFN Dx PCOS February 2010, 1000 mg Metformin XR IUI #1: Dexamethasone + Femara + Ovidrel + Progesterone = BFN IUI #2: Dexamethasone + Femara + Ovidrel + Progesterone = BFP! Our son arrived January 17, 2011!
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  • newsbabynewsbaby
    I am so sorry Monty. I wish I knew what to say to make this better for you. We are here for you.
    TTC since 8/07 DX - Severe MFI/azoospermia & MTHFR/ TESEs found sperm - 7/08 & 6/09/ 12/08 - IVF#1 - BFN/ 6/09 - IVF #2 - cancelled due to OHSS risk (had retrieval)/ 7/09 - FET #1 - BFN/ 9/09 - FET #2 - BFN/ 11/09 - IVF #3 with new RE cancelled twice - 10/09 & 11/09/ 1/10 - IVF #3 take 3 - BFN/ 4/10 - IVF #4 - first ever BFP on 5/13/10!!! 108 @ 10dp3dt/ 2nd beta 311!/ sono on 5/28/10 said TWINS!!!! Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
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  • icedcoffeeluvicedcoffeeluv member
    I'm so sorry! :(

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