TTC After a Loss

Now I feel like I don't know anybody...

Was it because I was gone for a week?  I am so lost.

Can we do an introduction post?

Name?

How long have you been with DH/SO?

TTC journey?

Anything else we should know?

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  • I'm Jennifer. DH and I have been married for almost 4 years. We started TTC in September and got a BFP right away. I had a missed miscarriage and D&E on November 11 at exactly 9 weeks. We just started TTCAL this cycle.  I volunteer with an animal shelter every Tuesday, I have four cats and a dog and I am a foster parent.

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  • I feel the same way.  There are so many SN's I don't recognize and with everything that happened today I kept thinking "is that another Virgin Mary AE?"  Nope, just someone I didn't know.
  • Dondra

    Our 3 yr wedding anniv is in April and we have been together for 7 yrs

    TTC since Oct 08, loss info in siggy

     

    TTC Since Oct 08 BFP #1- 1/23/09, missed m/c 2/26/09 BFP #2- 9/8/09, natural m/c 9/16/09 BFP #3- 4/13/10, missed m/c 5/26/10 BFP #4- 4/6/11 beta#1 at 12dpo-133 prog-55.7, beta#2 at 16dpo- 861 DD born 12/8/2011 BFP#5- 11/23/12 EDD 7/25/13 Dx- Uterine septum (removed Aug 2010), endo, MTHFR C677t hetero, Factor II hetero, Low Protein S Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I'm Elizabeth

    Been married for a little over 3 years.

    We have been TTC for 7 months and I had a mc in January.

    I am a really good tap dancer :)

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  • Terri

    Married for almost 4 years, together almost 8 years.

    See below.

    I'm high risk so any questions about APS, lovenox or heparin then I'm your girl.

    ETA: We are also in the middle of the adoption process.

  • Abby

    Friends for 7 years, together for 3, married for 6 months.

    BFP in early November, which ended in an ER trip at the end of the month = ectopic.

    I am getting a cold. BOO!

     


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  • I'm Carrie.  The Mr. and I have been together for almost 12 years, but married for 5.  We started TTC in November and got pregnant right away, but it was a CP.  I'm now starting cycle 5.  I'm here on and off because of work, so I don't get to post often, but I love the community feeling. (That is when some stupid AE isn't being a heifer to the regulars.)
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  • Welcome to my world.  Indifferent

    Kelin

    Been w/ DH for about 3 years

    TTC Journey - it's a mess!  Been at it for 2 years and had multiple losses.  Waiting to start IVF this Spring so I can by-pass my damaged tubes.

     

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  • I've only been around for a couple months, and I still feel the same way. I think an intro post is a good idea.

    I'm Kelly, I'm 24. DH and I have been together for 4 years, married a year and a half. I went to college for broadcast journalism, couldn't find a job, and I'm now back in school for pre-law. DH joined the Army last year, and it's been a really big change. I went of BC in July 09. Starting actively trying in October and got a BFP that month. Was misdiagnosed with a partial molar at almost 10 weeks. Confirmed missed m/c at 10 weeks, and d&c at 10w4d. We have 4 cats.

  • My name is Erica,
     
    I have been with my husband 12 years, will be married for 5 in May.    
     
     I had been ttc for 14 months when i discovered I had a cornual ectopic pregnancy after being taken to the ER for severe abdominal pain.  I also discovered i was almost 8 weeks along.  It has been 7 months since my loss and still no bfp after 3 rounds of clomid.  My RE has suggested IVF becasue he feels it will be much safer for me and that I would have quicker results.......I am blessed with a 4 year old DD and I have one dog and two cats.
  • I think so many have graduated!

    Jennifer

    With DH for 8 years, married almost 2

    TTC for over one year before we learned we were expecting in Oct09.  We lost our baby at 11weeks 2 days November 30th.  We are now nearing two years of TTC and hope to have good news soon.

    I love to cook and surf.  I also love making invitations!  I made my wedding invitations (and I will brag Big Smile) and my BFFs too.

  • You know me :)

    Courtney

    Been with DH for almost 9 yrs, married for 3 1/2.

    21 month old DS, loss story in siggie, finishing up our second TTC cycle post-loss...

    I live for good food & wine (oh, and my family of course) Big Smile

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  • Name?  Julie

    How long have you been with DH?  Been with DH since 2005. Married in 2007.

    TTC journey? D&C at 9 weeks on 09.09.09 after 7 months of TTC.  It was my first pregnancy. I'm hoping I get my second BFP soon and have a sticky baby!

    Anything else we should know? I don't post on here as much as some of the rest of you, but I've been on these boards for a few months. My Bump time really depends on how busy I am at work.  I really enjoy this board & you incredible ladies!

  • I'm Jessie. DH and I got married in Aug '08. We Loss info below. After I get the GL from my mw, we will start TTC again right away. My follow up appt with her is tomorrow, so I'll know how long we have to wait then.I'm fairly new to the boards in general, and sometimes feel a little bit "outside looking in", but I'm looking forward to get to know you all. You've already been such a huge source of support to me. I hope to be able to return that.  
  • I'm Melinda. DH and I have been together 4 years and were married in June of '09. We started TTC in December. BFP in January, ended up being an ectopic which was removed surgically. Hope to start TTC again next month if all goes well. :)  I teach and DH is in the military.
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  • My name is Kate

    DH and I have been married for a year and a half...feels like a lifetime!

    Had a MC in December. I am finishing up my second AF post D&C this week and looking forward to going at it like rabbits with DH.

    TTC had made me crazy person. I am walking a fine line of anger and tears when it comes to not being KU. Trying to keep it together!

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    Name: Carrie

    How long have you been with DH? Well, he's BF, and we've been together for 2.5 years

    TTC Journey: Surprise BFP in June 08.. lost our daughter to an infection in September of 08. Currently a patient at a local infertility clinic

    Anything else we should know? I'm one of the few Canadian TTCALers. I think there might be another one or two out there, but on the other side of the country. I'm also incredibly bitter, and snarky.

     

    Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
  • Megan

    Married 4.5 together over 8

    Tried for 2 years. Got BFP. Poor prenatal diagnosis & D&E at 16 weeks April 09

    Sept 09 BFP, blighted ovum discovered at 11wks. Did not mc naturally, so d&c in January

     I'm taking classes, teaching a class and working fulltime. I have a great DH and a great dog Wink

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  • I'm Kristy.  We've been married 6 and a half years.  We started our journey 4 years ago, but have taken many breaks during that time.  We lost our son at 17 weeks.  We live in a crazy old farm house in the middle on nowhere.  We have one dog, a cat, two bunnies, 10 chickens and 2 roosters. 
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  • Denise

    7+ years

    we got pregnant right away with our first pregnancy.  m/c on 1/22 at 8 weeks (no heartbeat) trisomy 22, currently on 1st cycle TTCAL

    Hope my stay is short and sweet :)



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  • Name? Sarah

    How long have you been with DH/SO?  Been together 5+ years, married about 6 mos. 

    TTC journey? Started trying around November, got pg right away.  Missed m/c mid January.  Still waiting on first AF to show, and TTA until after my first cycle. 

    Anything else we should know?  Nah.  That's enough info for now Wink
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  • I'm Melissa.  I've been with DH for 8(!) years now and married for 4 1/2 years.  We started ttc in August 2009, got our bfp on our first try on Labor Day and m/c at 9w on 10/12 (missed miscarriage).  Since then I have been having crazy long cycles and not ovulating.  That's about it.

     

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  • Lynn
     We will be together for 4yrs in October and Married 2yrs in August

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    We have a house full of furbabies.

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  • Name? I answer to lots of things. Sona, Wino, Megan

    How long have you been with DH/SO? Just shy of 9 years.

    TTC journey? TTC starting July 09. BFP in September. A serious of u/s performed between 7-10 weeks ultimately revealed a slow h/b, slow growth, then no h/b. D&C in Nov, then 2 cycles of TTA. TTC again, this is our second post loss TTC cycle.

    Anything else we should know? I hate bananas.

    BFP #1 9/23/09. Missed MC 10w3d D&C 11/3/09.

    BFP #2 4/13/10. Bridget born 12/28/10

    BFP #3 Finn born 8/11/15


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  • My name is Sarah

    DH and I have been together since 2005 we met at work and have been married since June 2009.

    We have only been TTC since October 2009, got our first BFP Nov 2009 and discovered missed miscarriage at 12 wks. We're waiting to get the OK from the Dr to start TTC again. 

    We love to travel, Honduras is one of my favorite places on earth.

    P.S Great post! 

  • Hi all!  I'm Denise and I'm 38.  DH and I have been together as a couple almost 2 years.  We just got married on July 4th and that was when we first started the TTC journey (we even waited to have sex until marriage).  We were happy when we found out 2 1/2 weeks later that we were pregnant.  Unfortunately, 3 days later, I lost the baby--CP #1.  In October, we found out we were pregnant again, but my progesterone was really low and ....CP#2.  Then, at the beginning of January, found out I was pregnant again.  This time the #s were good and we had hope.  Went in for the 8 wk u/s and found out that the baby died at 6 wks 2 days. 

    Apparently, I'm very fertile but unable to carry a baby to term.  We see the doctor on Monday to get our test results back and hope and pray we will have an answer as to why I keep losing babies.  Maybe it is my age and all the eggs left suck.  I don't know.  I figure we'll keep trying until I either go crazy or I go through menopause (or both). ;)

  • *walks up to the mike and waves*

    I'm Tonya. I am 35, an attorney in Milwaukee (how do I join the TTCAL lawyer's club? Is there a bar? I've passed two already Wink) that is working as a director of volunteers for a local hospice. 

    My DH and I have been together three and a half years and were married on 12/26/09. We got pregnant that night or the night after with a BFP on 1/8/10. We found out at our first u/s on 2/15 that there was no HB. I had a natural m/c yesterday. We weren't really "trying" so this has all been a big, shocking, sad whirlwind.

    We've got 2 cats and full half time custody of his little boy from his first marriage. We will start TTC as soon as 2 cycles go by, which I hope is quickly.  We like to bike, read, travel, troll the interwebs and until recently I volunteered on the board of director's of a local grieving center for children. My DH is from Ukraine originally, although he's been here for 8 years and is a citizen, and I am trying to learn Russian.

    BFP 1/8/10, missed mc 2/15/10, baby @8w3d. Natural mc 2/23/10 Goodbye our sweet little peanut. We love you so. Every lament is a love song...
    Harper Oksana, born on her due date, January 20, 2011, and the love of my life
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  • 1) Name is Regina Big Smile

     2) Married to DH Scott for almost 2 1/2 years, been together for about 4.

    3) We started TTC in December '09, I got pregnant right away, BFP on 12/19/09. Had betas done on 12/30/09, HCG:4800, Prog:20, went back on 1/12/10 for first u/s to hear heartbeat and they weren't able to find one...so had BW done again, HCG:44,000, Prog:15. Doctor thought hormone levels weren't rising correctly, but said I could just "be off on my dates" (there was no way). Went back for two more u/s because the doctor just couldn't be SURE it was a m/c yet...on 1/25/10 at 3rd u/s they confirmed. Baby never grew past 6w3d and I should have been 9w5d. Never saw a heartbeat. Had a D&C on 1/26/10, I am currently going through my first post-m/c AF and after it's done, we will be actively TTC again.

    4) I don't get to hang out as much on here as I want either b/c of work...but I try! And I don't post on anything that I can't relate to b/c I don't want to sound like an idiot and offer my uninformed opinion.

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    BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d

    BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11

    BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d

    BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13

     

    BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14 

  • I'm Denise, 27 from Northern CA.

    I've been with dh 11 years this May.  We've been married for 5 1/2 years.

    I was a FH.  Got KU with dd in 2004 using the pull and pray method with AF sex.  She was a normal pregnancy (boderline GD) and arrived 3 days late.  2007 I was pregnant again, same way as before.  Found out it was a boy at 12 weeks and he had a 2 vessel cord. At 23w5d my water broke.  I was in labor and urged to induce.  I didn't and spent 10 weeks on hospital bed rest.  Matthew was born at 33 weeks and spent 26 days in the NICU.  He was 10 weeks old when we lost him to SIDS.

    January 2009 I was pregnant again.  Due date was a day after Matthew's due date.  Was scared, nervous and hadn't yet decided I was ready to try again.  But, I got so excited.  Saw hb at 7w2d and m/c at 8 w2d.  no reasons found.  Pregnant again June, missed m/c at 6w2d, finally gave into it and had cytotec at 10 week, d &c at 11 weeks.  C/P in December.

    Finally got approved to see the RE and now just waiting for them to call and schedule my testing :)

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    BFP #2 Matthew pPROM 23w5d 06-03-07, b/33 weeks 8-6-07, d/10-15-07 SIDS,
    BFP #3 m/c 8 weeks 2/20/09, BFP #4 m/c no hb 6w4d, m/c 9w4d, D&C 11w2d, BFP #5 C/P 12/18/09 after BFP- 9dpo
    BFP #6 Samantha- 11-9-10
    BFP #7 4/20/12 21 DPO beta: 2382 29 DPO beta: 23000! HB 6w2d 116 bpm due Christmas day!
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  • Name: Megan

    Been with Dh 8 years, married for five.

    TTC Journey: Trying since 12/08, got preg. in March 09 suffered an ectiopic in May 09 and started ttc again last month. Took time off to get myself together metally and physically after losing the baby. Been on the boards for a few months since we started talking about ttc.

    What you should know??? Hmmm I love to read, travel, shop and hang out with my two furbabies Oli and Toby (cats) and my DH. The woman on here give me hope and strength.

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  • My name is Becca. DH and I have been together almost 6 years now, coming up on our first wedding anniversary in april! We had a surprise BFP in august right after coming off of BCP (because of health/side affects) but had a m/c at 9 weeks (said baby had stopped growing at 7 weeks). we were originally planning on waiting 2ish years after wedding before ttc, but since the pregnancy, we both really want to be parents! so after 5 months of waiting--11 weeks from m/c to first AF and now 10 weeks since then with no visit from AF--i am on progesterone (as of monday) to hopefully jump start my ovaries. otherwise i'll be looking for advice on clomid, bc that's the next step, says my dr. about me? well you can check out my blog, but i love to write and i knit like crazy! oh and i have two kitties who i love :)

    i'm super grateful for this board and all the love and support

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  • I'm Nicole.  DH and I have been together for 8 years and married for 8 months.  We started TTC on 1/1/2010 and got pregnant after our first cycle of trying.  It was perfect timing with the EDD during my vacation month.  We started off the pregnancy with a very light positive line when we got a BFP and the line never got darker.  We're going to TTC again after my first normal cycle.  Glad that all of you are here for some support though!!
  • Name-Crystal

    How long have you been with DH/SO?-DH and I have been married a year next month and together for almost 6 yrs!

    TTC journey? -We started TTC in Sept 2009 and I got pregnant on our honeymoon! We got our BFP on Sep 29th and then on Oct 19th at 6 wks 2 days I was rushed to the ER and found out I had an ectopic pregnancy. I lost our LO and my left fallopian tube. We got the ok to start trying again in January and I just started Cycle # 3 of TTCAL yesterday!

    Anything else we should know?

    I was born and raised in Jersey but moved to South Florida with my DH 3 years ago in May! We have been together since high school and even went to Senior Prom together! Also you ladies have been my rock while I have been dealing with our loss.  I honestly don't know how I would have gotten through it if it wasn't for the support of this board! I hope we all get our Sticky babies very soon!

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    I'm a mom to my 4 angel babies who were taken from us much to soon!
    BFP#1 on 09/29/09 and EP discovered/Left Tube lost on 10/19/09 EDD 06/12/10
    BFP# 2 on 03/21/2010 EDD 11/30/10 Natural M/C on 3/27/10
    BFP# 3 on 02/14/2011 EDD 10/28/11 Missed M/C discovered 4/19/11 and D&C 4/21/11 On 5/6/11 we found out our Oct Angel was a beautiful little girl <3
    IVF#1=BFP#4 on 8/31/11 EDD 5/12/12 EP discovered and MTX shot given 9/14/ & 9/21 M/C on 10/9/11
    IVF#2 and Stims started 12/2 ER 12/16 ET 12/21 transferred two beautiful blastocysts. Please stick LO's! BFP 12/26
    Benjamin Matthew Our Little Miracle Born 9/5/2012!
    BFP 1/2/14 EDD 9/11/14

  • Name? Celeste
     

    How long have you been with DH/SO? Our one year wedding anniversary will be May 1st

    TTC journey? In siggy

    Anything else we should know?  Dh and I budget for everything so that we can pay cash. Right now I'm saving up for a nook. I should have it in a few weeks. Smile I can't wait!

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  • I do appreciate these refresher posts. Smile

    Name? LMichelleG

    How long have you been with DH/SO? Been married 3.5 years, been together 5.5 years

    TTC journey? Been TTC for a little over 2 years. 2 m/c's later and I'm seeing an RE.

    Anything else we should know? I think that covers it.

  • Hi, I'm Misty. I have been with DH for 7 years (married for 2 1/2). We were TTC for 6 months before I got my BFP. I have endometriosis so I was relieved it didn't take that long to conceive (even though it felt like a long time). At about 6 wks, I started bleeding. I went to the ER and was diagnosed with a subchorionic bleed, but the baby was fine and I got to hear the h/b. The doctors told me I *should* be fine. Two weeks later, I went for another ultrasound to check on the bleed, and sadly, the baby didn't have a h/b. I had a D&C on 1/19. Can't think of anything else you should know, except I couldn't have survived my loss and the month after without you ladies!


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  • DH and i have been together for 10 years and married for almost 4.

    We are still TTC # 1 after suffering a loss at 12 weeks a few years ago. We hope it happens for us soon! (and everyone else here for that matter)

     


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  • I am Taylor - Tay for short...

    We have been married 5 months but together 2.5 years...

    We have been TTC since June 09...We had our first loss in Aug 09 and have not had a pregnancy since...We are on a break right now but I still hang out here because I love you ladies!

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  • Hi!  I'm Lindsey.  I've been with my husband for 11 years and married for almost 6.  We have a 2yr old daughter.  Lost our 2nd baby missed miscarriage at 13 weeks and have been waiting a ridiculously long time for my hcg to drop (since Nov.)  It's finally down (as of yesterday) and I have the green light to TTC.  I'm both terrified and excited to get pregnant again.

     

  • Hi, my name is Jennifer/Jenn/Jenny - whichever you prefer.

    I've been with DH for almost 5 years, and 1yr 4mths of marriage

    We started TTC in October and were pregnant a week or so later; had a BFP on Nov. 13th (1 week after my 30th bday). On 2/5 we found out that my aminotic fluid was gone; on 2/14 i gave birth to a son at 17wks preg. We will probably start trying again in April or May, depending on where we are emotionally (but I think we'll both be ready). 


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