This group is open to anyone who has already gone through de/surrogacy, are in the process of it, or plan on doing it in the future. GRADUATES ARE WELCOME AND ENCOURAGED TO POST! If you?d like to be added to this group, please reply to this message and I?ll make sure to add you for next week. I?ll be posting this check-in every Tuesday morning.
***** If you are a donor or interested in donating, we would be happy to answer questions. Please start a new post with ?Question for the DE ladies? as the title ******
Status Update: Where are you currently with the de/surrogacy process?
QOTD: What are you doing to beat the Winter Blahs? Spring is so close, yet so far away!!
***** Good luck to RachelD83 with her WTF tomorrow. Congratulations to floridakat on being released to her OB!
Welcome to the lurkers!! We hope you don?t have to join but will welcome you with open arms if you do. Let us know if we can answer any questions.
In 2ww
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In Cycle (DE)
GymDogFran ? (frozen egg program) on Lupron and Estrace, tentative ET 3/3/10
Waiting to Cycle (DE)
Only Hope ? DE consult on 11/30/09
Juliannat ?mock cycle completed. Found a donor!!!!!!
Militarywife2b ? consult on 12/22/09, possibly needs de and ds (DH to repeat SA)
RachelD83 ? BFN on FET, WTF scheduled for 2/24/10
Scatterbrainliz ? pursuing DE but currently saving up for the procedure
Waiting to Cycle (surrogate)
M&MBride0506 ? hoping to use her sister and an egg donor and gestational carrier in June
Considering DE
svp1537 ? meeting with RE to discuss DE options, doing one more IVF with her own eggs!
Looking into options
Hoping4more ? hoping to have sister provide eggs and be a carrier for her
ked1068 ? pursuing embryo adoption!!!
Mel0569 ? participated in Egg Freezing program ? BFN, hoping to cycle again in the Spring
Mgoodr1 ? hoping to use friend as a surrogate due to health issues
Mrsbellalee ? FET on 10/26 - BFN, WTF on 12/1, hoping to cycle again in April
Oct14 ? DE IVF #1 = cp, DE FET = BFN, looking into a consult with CCRM
RFBsbride ? BFN on 1st attempt, BFN on FET, might be moving on with donor embryos
SunMoon&Stars ? BFN on July 2009 cycle, has a new OB who gave her an RE rec
*~*~*Graduates*~*~*
2linesn09 ? BFP w/gestational carrier in December
Arb212 ? BFP on 1st attempt (boy/girl twins)!!!! Babies born on 2/9/10!
Ashley ? BFP w/gestational carrier ? baby girl. 2nd Trimester!
AXLbaby ? BFP on 1st attempt (baby girl)!!! Due on 12/10/09. 3rd trimester!
Cat2 ? BFP on 1st attempt with donor (singleton)!
BRSAugust20 ? BFP (singleton) due 8/2/10, 2nd trimester
Dansbride06 ? BFP (baby boy)!!! C-section scheduled for 1/13/10
Epphd ? BFP (baby boy)!!! Nubbin is due 12/24, 3rd Trimester!!
Floridakat (own eggs) ? twins! 1st trimester
Futuremom2b ? BFP (twin girls)!!! Born on 11/27/09!!!!
HopeCounts ? BFP on FET (singleton)!! 1st trimester
Jenn-N-Jay ? BFP (singleton)!! 1st trimester
jmn69 ? cancelled FET cycle, may try again in spring, already has twins from DE!
KoCoLoCo ? BFP w/gestational carrier (1st attempt) ?boy/girl twins born August 2009!!!
LBR_NJ ? BFP (girl)!!! Born on 12/9/09.
pst8 ? BFP using her sister as a gestational carrier - Due in February
Vet-Tech ? BFP with donor embryos
Haven?t heard from you in a while ? we miss you!
2linesplease ? looking into DE options, will be moving ahead in a few months
BBLindy ? looking into DE options
Davesmisha ? hoping to do an FET with donor embryos in October
Justsayjo ? considering DE with a known donor, may be switching clinics
Simplelove03 ? on hold with DE
Teacherholly ? in 2ww, beta on 8/18
Njgreneyz ? Has had 4 failed iui?s and 3 failed ivfs; looking into GC options (w/own eggs)
Re: *~*~*~*~*~* DE / GC check-in *~*~*~*~*~~*
QOTD: I have been buying fresh flowers for the house every few weeks to give it that burst of spring color.
Update: Things appear to be going smoothly. I told my boss I was pg yesterday so that is over with. Granted we didn't discuss leave, etc but he was happy even though my leave will be during busy season.
M&MBride0506 - not sure if you saw my page yesterday but both KoCoLoCo and I gave you the same rec for an attorney. Go back to your old post or let me know and I will give it to you again.
Status Update: Still on the path of saving
QOTD: I bought some flowers 2 weeks ago and they're still alive. We're expected another snowstorm apparently this week. We've already gotten a ton of snow already but at least it's good for the plants that will pop up in the spring.
DX: Premature ovarian failure
::::SAIFW::::: People call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat or a prostitute. - Rebecca West
WE'VE BEEN MATCHED WITH A SWEET LITTLE BOY!! -4/5/11
Great to hear things are going smoothly for you!
I'm taking your advice and trying to be patient with the hard contacts and every day it's getting less scary putting in the contacts. I'm a blinker so i've been trying to make myself aware and not blink as much but it's still a problem.
DX: Premature ovarian failure
::::SAIFW::::: People call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat or a prostitute. - Rebecca West
WE'VE BEEN MATCHED WITH A SWEET LITTLE BOY!! -4/5/11
We are still on schedule for a thaw Thursday and transfer next Tuesday. I have another lining check tomorrow. Yesterday it was just under 8, at 7.3, but he doctor wants to make sure it reaches 8. I start PIO tomorrow night. I have never done those tomorrow, so it should be interesting!
QOTW: Since I'm in Atlanta, it's not too bad here. Except for the two snow storms we have had lately! The last few days have been great, so I've been getting out some.
Good luck to everyone!
Hi Girls,
Sorry I am not able to get online much.
Status Update: We picked a donor and I start Lupron on this Thursday. I am so scared and excited. I have been on bcp for over 2 weeks and I have spotted the whole time. So I am nervous that it won't work,my lining will be messed up. We will see. Transfer is hopefully around Easter if all goes well. It was 2 yrs ago today that I had my first fresh cycle that gave us our heavenly daughter. So I am a little sad and trying to be hopeful.
QOTD: I just know spring is here soon. I am in Washington, DC where we have had over 3 feet of snow since December!!!
RachelD83 hoping all goes well tomorrow. Do you go to Shady Grove? Would love to chat with you.
BRS so glad you told your boss, how exciting it is getting so close to meeting your baby.
Debbie
Update to my Update:
Well, I went back today for another lining measurement and now I have a GIANT polyp. Thaw and transfer off until polyp is removed.
I am soooo frustrated. It seems like you should get a free pass for these complications if you've been through so much and have worked hard to come to terms with DE. Vent, vent, vent.