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what would you do?

mommamelmomommamelmo member
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So the person who I thought was my best friend, who wanted to be god mother to my DS, who wanted to be maid of honor for my wedding, who has been thru everything with me... Apparently fb messaged my X recently and said that her and I weren't friends anymore and if he needed to talk he could talk to her... I am so angry at her for doing that because our friendship sorta fizzled and I have tried hundreds of times to improved the friendship and she has always been the type to blow me off. I know I should have learned years ago how much of a flake she was. But now I'm just torn. Do I send her a message leting her know how much she hurt me or do I just delete her like she never existed? What would you do?
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  • ladyaylenaladyaylena
    Let it go... trust me, let it go.  If that's the way she is, it's not worth the energy.
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  • laurieb602laurieb602 member
    Deleting her does send a message.
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  • meghan_mariemeghan_marie member
    I'd send her a message and ask wtf is up with that??
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  • mrgnmrgn member
    Sounds like your friendship wasn't 50/50. I know its hard when you're a single mom to even consider losing any friends. I feel alone enough as it is! But there is no sense in being the one putting in ALL the energy any any relationship... romantic or friendly! Let it go and find some better quality friends. (:
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  • SherbieKunSherbieKun

    It would be best to just delete and move on.  Confronting her only brins unnecessary drama into your life and it sounds like you two are already history if she has been ignoring you anyways.

    Deleting and not giving her the satisfaction of trying to ask why she did that IS sending the most powerful message anyway.

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  • kjh44kjh44
    delete.  She will know what's up and like the others said, it isn't even worth your time... this happened to me too... I just deleted her from life.
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  • mommamelmomommamelmo member
    Thanks ladies. I knew deleting her was the right thing to do all along. It just frustrates me that she was concerned when our issues started and really routing for us to make it work and then completely cuts me out of her life for no reason... I feel that marrying the loser made me lose a lot of friends then getting pregnant I lost more and now that we are splitting I honestly don't have a single friend left - except for you ladies. I just feel pathetic.
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  • achase123achase123

    imageladyaylena:
    Let it go... trust me, let it go.  If that's the way she is, it's not worth the energy.

    This.  She isn't worth the energy.

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