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Does the thought of going down on a woman gross you out?
It's a spinoff from another board. But this board has a wider demographic so I am curious.
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Re: Does the thought of going down on a woman gross you out?
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Walk the Talk 5K - 5/18/11 - 31:12 PR
Ridley Run 3.1 - 4/14/12 - 1st race of the year, 32:45
You can be hetro and not grossed out though. I mean I am not attracted to short men. But I'm not grossed out by them.
The OP was a lesbian who was 'grossed out' by the idea of a BJ.
I voted for no, but I took it as does the idea of it gross you out, not so much does the idea of you doing it.
And in theory, the idea of me doing it doesn't gross me out; I just probably wouldn't since I find the penis more attractive in that way.
Perhaps I am BI?!?! OMG.
Just kidding; it just doesn't gross me out. I'm not into certain hetero sex acts, but they don't really gross me out, either.
I took it as the idea of me personally going down on a chick and that actually really does gross me out. But other men and women can have at it. I just personally am not into other ladies vaginas being anywhere near my face.
This exactly. If we voted that it does gross us out, are you implying that we are in some way homo-phobic?
TMI but, for as enjoyable as it is, I have to distance myself because I am empathetically grossed out for my DH during. Bleh. It's just gross . . .
I guess it's not. But I just meant it as in it's not something that I am into, but i really don't care what others do.
goodness, not at all!
I see how it's related - it's a sex act I don't participate in, but I'm not grossed out by. Similarly, I'm not grossed out by the idea of a woman getting oral sex. Or a man. Or anal sex. Or really, anything that goes on between consenting adults.
thank you, e! You articulated it better than I did! I am not by any means saying anyone is homophobic.
This. There are plenty of things about hetero sex that the thought of me doing it grosses me out, but as for guy on guy, girl on girl, they can have it, that doesn't gross me out.
Kelly Monaghan's 5K - 5/15/11 - 3rd Place in AG
Walk the Talk 5K - 5/18/11 - 31:12 PR
Ridley Run 3.1 - 4/14/12 - 1st race of the year, 32:45
D'oh, I just totally voted the wrong thing. I meant to vote no and I clicked yes.
The idea doesn't gross me out, but it's not something I'm tempted to do. I'd go to second base with a woman, though. I like boobs.
Alex (11/14/06) and Nate (5/25/10)
"Want what you have, do what you can, be who you are." - Rev. Forrest Church
LOL, this.
Me with my littlest.
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I guess I just don't understand being grossed out by it? It's just a sex act.
It's like, whatever. I might not do it but I don't find it gross. I also think with zenya's ETA that if you're putting yourself in the position of giving the oral, you're answering wrong since the initial comment s/o a lesbian being grossed out by a dude getting a BJ, not necessarily by her (unless I read that wrong).
This!
(o)(o)
Alex (11/14/06) and Nate (5/25/10)
"Want what you have, do what you can, be who you are." - Rev. Forrest Church
I agree, to an extent. I can unequivocally say, though, that I am majorly grossed out by scat play and golden showers. Just sayin'
Oh and I am fully aware that it's not nest cool not to want to fondle other women. :oP
I was going to add in that I was kind of disturbed by golden showers, scat and anything that urban dictionary defines, but I figured that was something that most people would agree on. LOL. And I'm not even sure I'd be grossed out so much as I would think "WTF?!" haha.
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Yep, pretty much anything involving sh!t or urine is out for me (although I don't find the idea of golden showers nearly as upsetting as scat play- ick).
And, of course, anything involving an unwilling party is just plain wrong, but I assume everyone would agree with that.
Alex (11/14/06) and Nate (5/25/10)
"Want what you have, do what you can, be who you are." - Rev. Forrest Church
I can't get past the idea of cleaning up after it's over with. Even if I was somehow convinced to participate in either of these, I'd be fretting the whole time about the mess. Not to mention the smell. Oy.
Alex (11/14/06) and Nate (5/25/10)
"Want what you have, do what you can, be who you are." - Rev. Forrest Church
SERIOUSLY!
Awhile back I was looking at some BDSM checklists, and I was pretty shocked by what all was on them. I guess I'm naive.
(disclaimer: I am not into BDSM, I was just curious)
LOL! I am just so confused about what was being asked. We are all answering from like two different points of view.
I think it means you need to watch girl on girl porn for your therapy! LOL.
Or go to the Kinsey Institute at IU and take a test to figure out where you are on the scale.
Probably 10 years ago I saw the movie Sick and was quite alarmed by some parts of it. I'm definitely not a supermasochist.
Alex (11/14/06) and Nate (5/25/10)
"Want what you have, do what you can, be who you are." - Rev. Forrest Church
ugh I suck with my vague poll, sorry.
My specific question was:
"When you consider yourself going down on a woman - does that gross you out".
Do you think 'ew' or 'eh' or 'nice' or whatever.
The person's comment that sparked it was a lesbian who was talking to her girlfriend and they were both saying how glad they were that they never had to give a BJ. Because penises are gross.
Does that make more sense?
Ok, thanks for the clarification.
I am still not grossed out, b/c vajayjays don't gross me out, even though I wouldn't want to actually do that to another woman.
I'd think, eh. Not my thing.
AND PENISES ARE NOT GROSS. They are very nice.