TTC After a Loss

Pissy day (vent warning)

I just threw myself a little pity-party...wondering if anyone else wants to join.

 

Had a horrible day at work, someone else made a mistake that ended up making me re-do everything I did yesterday...took forever, and I almost cried b/c it was so frustrating.

 

My co-worker had her 12-week checkup today to hear the heartbeat through the doppler (she is due one day after I WAS due)...everything was perfect. I'm happy for her b/c I don't wish this on ANYONE but it's hard, b/c she's exactly where I should be. And I'm jealous.

 

Then, as I go on my lunch break, I decide to check facebook...BAM! Two friends today posted "the big news" that they're pregnant...and of course, due within the same week as I should have been. I wanted to curl up and cry and go home and not finish out the rest of the day at work.

 

I somehow made it through the rest of the day, I get home, get the mail....there are the bills for the D&C. After co-pays and deductibles are factored in, we are going to owe a total of $1,200. For a surgery I DIDN'T WANT....b/c I wanted to be pregnant and not have to have it. So even though DH got a $1,500 check for coaching baseball today (he's a teacher and coach), it's almost ENTIRELY spent on just this DAMN SURGERY.

 

I just really hate life today and I'm tired of things not being fair. That's all. : (

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BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d

BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11

BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d

BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13

 

BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14 

Re: Pissy day (vent warning)

  • darling you deserve to be pissy. I just wish it didn't have to be so.

    hugs.

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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  • I'm sorry you are having a rough day.
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  • Life sucks sometimes.  I'm so sorry you had a bad day.  I'll totally join in on your pity party.  Boo to coworkers with our same dates and fb!
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  • Sending hugs and pouring you a glass of wine.

    Jenn

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  • Ugh I'm sorry, what a crappy day! I hate bills for m/c related things, they seem so so unfair :(
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  • I think that's the worst part about this day. Paying for something I didn't want...that I had no control over...it really isn't fair. It should be free.
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    BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d

    BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11

    BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d

    BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13

     

    BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14 

  • That's a horrible day hun, I'm so sorry.?
  • Oh hun...I am so sorry you had a rough day - that all sounds completely terrible! I hope it gets better, maybe a glass of wine or a bowl of ice cream?! They always make me feel better!
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  • I am so, so, so beyond sorry :(  What an awful day
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    BFP #6 Samantha- 11-9-10
    BFP #7 4/20/12 21 DPO beta: 2382 29 DPO beta: 23000! HB 6w2d 116 bpm due Christmas day!
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  • I think the semi-nervous breakdown I had in front of DH was enough to get it out of my system for right now. He seriously thinks something is wrong with me.

     

    On the bright side of all this, I think it's a really good indicator that I'm PMSing...which for once, makes me happy.

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    BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d

    BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11

    BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d

    BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13

     

    BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14 

  • I'm sorry you had such a crappy day!!! You definitely deserve to be pissy!!! I hope that's all the crap out of the way for a long time!!!
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  • (((hugs))) I'm so sorry you've had a crappy day. I hope tomorrow is better for you.
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  • You deserve a bitter pissy day. I'm sorry.
    Marie, wife to Ron, mom to DS
  • That's a really crappy day. I'm so sorry. Sad
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