I'm back. Not for long.

MaxOrTori · February 2010

I was told to get my butt back here for a minute Yep, I went BSC yesterday. I think I had a right to. You don't know me, you don't know my current financial situation.

For those I've reached out to, please, respect my wishes. I'm really upset over this. I am embarrased for some of my actions - but speculation, reposting DDs and talking behind my back really isnt fair. Most of you have access to me outside of the bump. Please come to me with questions.

Lambie. · February 2010

Look, I still don't really know what went on exactly or how things went down but I do know you have been around long enough to know that if you DD, it is fair game to be reposted. That being said, I haven't seen your thread reposted on here at all.

mb~zf · February 2010

Awesome.

buckin · February 2010

Ofcourse you are. Confused

mrs_b_2007 · February 2010

Indifferent

ETA: I wasn't around for it - but I agree with Les's post below. I wish you the best MoT - I know that things got kind of crazy but I missed it - and I think maybe you just need some time to sort it all out.

murphyec · February 2010

Like you ever really left.

mb~zf · February 2010

Must be the cable isn't hooked up yet for the new tv.

leslie13510 · February 2010

Overall, I like you MoT. I really do, and I wish you nothing but the best.

But you've been on here long enough to know how this board works. If you DD it will become a thousand times worse than it was (and I haven't seen your DDs reposted). Also if you post about having financial problems, and then like 2-3 months later post about getting brand new furniture and a tv, it's going to raise some eyebrows. Yes your financial situation may be different now, but people are going to wonder if it's really THAT much different so soon.

But like I said, I wish you nothing but the best. Good luck with Tori and Baby-To-Come, and enjoy your new furniture and tv.

staycee · February 2010

murphyec:
Like you ever really left.

I agree. Being gone part of one day doesn't really constitute leaving.

MandyBrownNoser · February 2010

Hahahahahahaha!!!!!! I want to know who all told you you needed to get your butt back here. That is classic.

MaxOrTori · February 2010

leslie13510:

Overall, I like you MoT. I really do, and I wish you nothing but the best.

But you've been on here long enough to know how this board works. If you DD it will become a thousand times worse than it was (and I haven't seen your DDs reposted). Also if you post about having financial problems, and then like 2-3 months later post about getting brand new furniture and a tv, it's going to raise some eyebrows. Yes your financial situation may be different now, but people are going to wonder if it's really THAT much different so soon.

But like I said, I wish you nothing but the best. Good luck with Tori and Baby-To-Come, and enjoy your new furniture and tv.

you have a pm

stuzyq14 · February 2010

I have absolutely no clue what happened (aside from the post below) as I've been AWOL this week. But to me you are a regular that I enjoy seeing around and I am sad to see you go.

staycee · February 2010

leslie13510:

Also if you post about having financial problems, and then like 2-3 months later post about getting brand new furniture and a tv, it's going to raise some eyebrows.

psssst. It was only last month.

staycee · February 2010

MandyBrownNoser:
Hahahahahahaha!!!!!! I want to know who all told you you needed to get your butt back here. That is classic.

Mandy, I'm betting you wont be getting a PM with an answer. LOL

Emie28 · February 2010

You know as well as anyone else that speculation, reposting DDs and talking about someone behind their back is going to happen to anyone that comes on here being BSC.

Now, what is really unfair is the fact that the DDs weren't reposted b/c many of us missed the sh!t storm!

Mrs_Liberto · February 2010

A) If you would have explained yourself yesterday and not DD'ed this wouldn't be an issue. You STILL haven't explained yourself.

Talking about an issue that happened yesterday on a public message board is hardly talking about you "behind your back".

C) Your current financial situation absolutely cannot be radically different enough from a month ago that you can go off and purchase new furniture and a tv. We're not stupid. Two paychecks don't suddenly get your savings recouped and back bills caught up when you were in the hole enough that you were thinking of skipping two mortgage payments.

D) The DD's have never been reposted.

E) Why did you GBCBOTB if you're going to lurk and post the minute it gets mentioned?

Thusadeedoo · February 2010

Emie28:

You know as well as anyone else that speculation, reposting DDs and talking about someone behind their back is going to happen to anyone that comes on here being BSC.

Now, what is really unfair is the fact that the DDs weren't reposted b/c many of us missed the sh!t storm!

HaHa, this.

caseybuchda · February 2010

What Leslie said.

KLRoy · February 2010

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

This makes my farking day.

Addykins · February 2010

SHOCKER!

heather_09_15_07 · February 2010

NavyClan · February 2010

caseybuchda:
What Leslie said.

This. I get that some of the questions asked were perhaps sensitive, but I don't think anyone was doing it to call you out, it was legitimate concern. If you want to GBCBOTB over it, that's fine, but I really think it just escalated on both sides and you should take a step back from it all. I'm sorry you felt attacked by it.

t.bird · February 2010

oh man- this is classic. A GBCBOTB TO REMEMBER!!!!

mrsmacias2008 · February 2010

(like yesterday) there are a lot of names that I don't recognize.

Mrs_Liberto · February 2010

mrsmacias2008:
(like yesterday) there are a lot of names that I don't recognize.

Do you never leave this board?

KKM · February 2010

mrsmacias2008:

(like yesterday) there are a lot of names that I don't recognize.

Does that matter?

Addykins · February 2010

Quick! Someone copy this before it's mysteriously deleted.

Jessis62781 · February 2010

mrsmacias2008 · February 2010

don't jump down my throat woman. It's just something I noticed. I can only get on sometimes in the morning...but usually get on with the nighttime crew.

RachelG83 · February 2010

Yay!! I missed it yesterday so we're gonna rehash it again today!!

hopeful:) · February 2010

Ok, now you're just becoming a parody of yourself. And I sort of feel sorry for you, because clearly you do not have your act together.

You're right. We don't know you. And you don't know me. But this is a public message board. Isn't it brilliant?

Ugh. Why are we even bothering to respond? This thread is going to be DD'ed anyway.

GBCMOT

ToshaGirl · February 2010

What were you told to get your butt back in here for exactly?

Sigh.

Message boards 101: You post, you get opinions. You go bsc, you get flames. Surely this is not unknown.

Are you looking to rehash this? I am truly confused.

Lighter fluid.

crownedbee · February 2010

MoT, I think you have gone off the deep end. You went completely BSC yesterday when a couple people asked how you go from completely broke and all your bills being behind to buying new furniture and a "new tv." People were concerned for you since you so recently put your financial situation out there for all to see. If you didn't want people to question you, you should have kept your hardship to yourself.

Nobody was talking about you behind your back. Anything that was said was said HERE where you could have easily been lurking and read it yourself. And what was said was also said in the threads you DD'd yesterday. Nobody re-posted what you deleted even though they should have because you know better than to do that.

After yesterday (and now today), I lost any respect I had for you.

buckin · February 2010

mrsmacias2008:

(like yesterday) there are a lot of names that I don't recognize.

Those with reason are like manna sent from heaven during a shitstorm

jlee1106 · February 2010

::sighgigglesigheyerollyawn::

GL.

Dr.BeepersWife · February 2010

Oh Sweet Jesus! You DD'd, it is fair game! I am pissed that it HASN'T been reposted so I could see your BSC in action!

I could give two shiits about your financial situation...I think most feel the same way, I believe it was your e-behavior that got you here.

Mysterious_wife · February 2010

mrsmacias2008:

(like yesterday) there are a lot of names that I don't recognize.

Everyone you are talking in this post have been around for a long time. T-bird, MB, Mandy, KL ROy and a few others(I am sure I forgot some) don't post here often, but do post. They have moved on to other boards, due to their own personal reasons.