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Why do I have to force people. .

jaime5121jaime5121
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So, my PCP didn't want to help me yesterday.  Okay, it really was a blow, but I realize I need help.  I call my OB - they tell my it can't be PPD because I had LO LAST YEAR!  In July.  It's been too long.  It's not PPD.  That I need to call my PCP.  I swear I can't win!  I had to beg and plead for them to see me!  I know there is a problem - waht I am experiencing isn't normal!  I know this.  I shouldn't have to beg and plead to get some help!!!  I feel bad enough as it is, now, no one wants to help me.  GRRRRRRR!!!
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Re: Why do I have to force people. .

  • Gina418Gina418 member
    I'm so sorry - I replied to your post below. That sucks. Hopefully when you are in front of your OB things will change. GL!
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  • cerad5cerad5 member
    So sorry you are going through this. At this point, if they are both saying it's not PPD, then they must think it's "regular" depression....so why aren't they offering help? And everyone I have spoken to throughout my treatment said that PPD can pop up pretty much anytime within the first year because it takes that long for your hormones to get back to normal. I would call someone else, maybe a psychiatrist and see if you can get in without a referral, or at least see if your PCP will give you a referral. Again, so sorry, how frustrating!!
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  • BellaCaroBellaCaro
    Get a new PCP and a new OB! I can't believe they would tell you it's not PPD when it's pretty clear that it can pop up at any time during the first year. Sorry, but I would start looking for other providers that will be more supportive of your situation. Maybe your insurance has someone they can recommend that specializes in PPD?
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  • jaime5121jaime5121

    imageBellaCaro:
    Get a new PCP and a new OB! I can't believe they would tell you it's not PPD when it's pretty clear that it can pop up at any time during the first year. Sorry, but I would start looking for other providers that will be more supportive of your situation. Maybe your insurance has someone they can recommend that specializes in PPD?

    Thanks!  I had already decided to do this, and this really solidified this.  I did some research today and found a support group in my area for PPD.  I do have an appt on Friday with the midwife who delivered my son, but I really did have to beg for the appointment.  I am hoping that she will be supportive.  I am finally at the point that I KNOW I need help and will do what I need to do to get it.  I have been suffering with this for long enough on my own and am tired of it.  I thank everyone on this board for listening and the support!

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