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OMFG: (Mom dating younger guy mentioned!)

TaraBrooksTaraBrooks
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So get this ladies.

My little sister and I have been civil since her son was in ICU two months ago, you all know the history.  We've been talking every few days and she gives me this little nugget on my way into work:

My mother is currently dating little sis's BFF's baby daddy.  (Got that?)  They've been trying to keep it on the DL but somehow my little sis found out.  Holy crap!

Personally, it doesn't bother me, because A) it's not my life and B) who am I to judge?

My little sis is freaking out and totally disgusted.  My mother hasn't told me yet, but what am I supposed to do about it?  She has a good 20 years on him, but seriously I really have no right to tell her what to do.

Little sis wants to confront her about it and I'm said "Little sis, she raised you, you have your own family, you can't tell her who, what or when to date."  I guess I would feel differently if it were my friend, but again, it's not my life.

Wowsa, and I haven't even had my coffee yet. 

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Re: OMFG: (Mom dating younger guy mentioned!)

  • TaraBrooksTaraBrooks
    Sorry for the double post, my computer went insane!
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  • babygirlpriestbabygirlpriest

    Wha... hu... wow!

    Man would I love to crash your family's Easter dinner this year! Wink

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  • DoingItRightDoingItRight member
    WOW, I cannot imagine my mom dating someone 20 years younger than her.
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  • ade2beade2be
    Wow!  That's quite a bombshell.  Now I'm not one to talk about age (DH is 14 years older than me)....but the history there is very weird. 
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  • denise_mdenise_m

    You're stronger than I am, because that would absolutely bother me lol. 

    The age wouldn't bother me, the fact that he is a "baby daddy" to the bff's baby.  I mean, that sucks for when your sister has bday parties for her kid, and her bff comes and and then her mom comes with the new bf.

     

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  • TaraBrooksTaraBrooks

    I look at it like this.  This guy has a 22 month old, my mom has raised her kids and isn't interested in playing mommy as much as she is in playing grandma to her grandchildren.

    I know my mom and this will get old pretty quickly. 

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