Community› The Bump Message Boards› 2nd Trimester
2nd Trimester
New Discussion

SEX (or lack there of...)

Sam Buttons Sam Buttons member
in 2nd Trimester

DH has always been very horny (for lack of a better word) that I thought it would never happen, but it did: he is officially weirded out having sex with me.

I noticed a few weeks ago that he stopped initiating it and since then there has been a significant decrease in how often we have sex... and he finally told me last night - apparently a few weeks ago we were getting intimate and LO kicked just as he was pressed up against my belly and he felt it, which completely freaked him out and now he feels like he is invading her space. UGH! 

Report Reply to Post

Re: SEX (or lack there of...)

  • meghan_mariemeghan_marie member

    Omigoodness. That's funny.

    Sorry to hear that though..

    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • AzraylaAzrayla member
    I think the same would happen here but SO doesnt like the belly touching him even when I'm cuddling next to him he thinks its too weird..he says to "get the baby off him" so we never do it where he can feel the bump.. Offer to try different positions? Like the side one thats always a fave you in front he back no bump action :D
    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers Lilypie Third Birthday tickers image
    Report Reply
  • Sam Buttons Sam Buttons member

    imageAzrayla:
    I think the same would happen here but SO doesnt like the belly touching him even when I'm cuddling next to him he thinks its too weird..he says to "get the baby off him" so we never do it where he can feel the bump.. Offer to try different positions? Like the side one thats always a fave you in front he back no bump action :D

    We have tried every position, but he still can't stop thinking about it lol! He's being really cute/funny about it and loves to feel her move around (I sleep pressed up against him and she kicks him in the back all night- and her kicks have gotten a whole lot stronger this past week), but he jokes that every time she kicks him she is ensuring that we won't be having sex anytime soon. 

    Report Reply
  • AzraylaAzrayla member
    imageSam Buttons:

    imageAzrayla:
    I think the same would happen here but SO doesnt like the belly touching him even when I'm cuddling next to him he thinks its too weird..he says to "get the baby off him" so we never do it where he can feel the bump.. Offer to try different positions? Like the side one thats always a fave you in front he back no bump action :D

    We have tried every position, but he still can't stop thinking about it lol! He's being really cute/funny about it and loves to feel her move around (I sleep pressed up against him and she kicks him in the back all night- and her kicks have gotten a whole lot stronger this past week), but he jokes that every time she kicks him she is ensuring that we won't be having sex anytime soon. 

    Aw that's unfortunate..Not sure what to do then..good luck! >.< It's not too much longer :)

    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers Lilypie Third Birthday tickers image
    Report Reply
  • maryenapmaryenap
    My dh has been wierded out since I got PG.  We've only been married since June, and our sex life is gone.  I finally told him today that I'm tired of trying to initiate because I'm tired of the rejection.  He left for work in a huff.  I totally get why he feels the way he does, but when it comes to listening to how it's affecting me he doesn't want to hear it.  (Not that I'm going to, I know this is temporary) But I TOTALLY can understand why someone would think about cheating.  This is really difficult!
    Report Reply
  • LovePink2850LovePink2850
    I don't think my Dh is weirded out, but his initiation for sex has decreased a lot. I was on top last night and I was weirded out by my belly touching his. I guess it's more me weirded out than him.
    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"