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Lets Talk Lingerie

Is DH a big advocate? How often do you bust it out?Special occasions?  Once a month? Every time?

Where is your go-to place to purchase lingerie?  

TTC since 07/2009
Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
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"What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose." - Henry Ward Beecher
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Re: Lets Talk Lingerie

  • While DH enjoys it of course, I have decided it is more for me than for him.  There is just some that makes me feel more sexy especially while TTC.  I have been trying to wear it more.  At least during weekend sexy time.

    I seem to always end up just going to VS.  I can always find something cute and it is not horribly expensive like some of the other more boutique places.

    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
    Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

    Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    "What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose." - Henry Ward Beecher
    SAIF/PAIF Welcome
    Lots of love and luck to my PAIF/3T/IF Veteran ladies, especially my dear friend Zookie. Congrats to Papps, Teach84 and Starbuck on their little ones.
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  • Only on special occasions, or when i might want to feel sexy :-)  I love the real sexy/lacy lingerie where my DH prefers the more cute/tomboy appeal...  We don't have alot of variety here so just the local lingerie store for me! 
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  • DH doesn't even notice!  he says he'd rather just see me naked.  it's definitely more for me.

    i actually find some cute stuff at target, and the clearance rack at macy's.

  • DH would like me to wear them all the time (he calls them my sexy shirts) I know I should wear them more often but I don't. I usually get mine from Khols
    TTC since 6/09 3 Rounds of Clomid and TI all BFN 3 IUI's all BFN IVF#1 - BFN FET#1 - BFN IVF#2 - BFN IVF#3 - BFP! Beta#1 11/4 - 149 Beta#2 11/7 - 565 Beta#3 11/9 - only 625 11/22- Found ectopic and had emergency surgery. Lost Right tube IVF#4 - ?
  • I used to wear them nightly, but somehow I've slipped into the t-shirt to bed thing.

     Edited to add:  My to go place was VS, but I haven't bought anything in a while.

  • I always forget to wear it! I really need to go get more, but I never want to spend a lot because it only technically stays on for a few minutes, lol

    I need to hit up VS too. Fredricks is too trashy!

  • I usually bust it out on random days a couple times a month.  This way, I feel it lets DH know that I am thinking about him, and enjoy surprising him the same way he does me.  He loves it! I think if I did it every day, it wouldn't be a "special."  Especially when I wear something that I wore in the Boudoir photographs I had taken as a wedding present.  I like to check out both Victoria's Secret and Fredericks of Hollywood. 
  • I will have to check out Kohls!  I see them all over but I don't think I have ever been in one.
    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
    Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

    Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    "What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose." - Henry Ward Beecher
    SAIF/PAIF Welcome
    Lots of love and luck to my PAIF/3T/IF Veteran ladies, especially my dear friend Zookie. Congrats to Papps, Teach84 and Starbuck on their little ones.
  • imagebobbihornbeck:
    I usually bust it out on random days a couple times a month.  This way, I feel it lets DH know that I am thinking about him, and enjoy surprising him the same way he does me.  He loves it! I think if I did it every day, it wouldn't be a "special."  Especially when I wear something that I wore in the Boudoir photographs I had taken as a wedding present.  I like to check out both Victoria's Secret and Fredericks of Hollywood. 

    What a fun wedding present!

    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
    Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

    Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    "What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose." - Henry Ward Beecher
    SAIF/PAIF Welcome
    Lots of love and luck to my PAIF/3T/IF Veteran ladies, especially my dear friend Zookie. Congrats to Papps, Teach84 and Starbuck on their little ones.
  • And yes, I agree that Fredericks is a bit trashy.  But I found some cute teddy's and corsets in there when looking for things to wear during my Boudoir sesson.  Every once in a while I'll check it out again.  Not everything in there is crotchless, "nippleless" or a weird role play costume.
  • Hey Lady!

    I'll bust it out maybe once or twice a month or on special occasions.  Today is our anniversary and as soon as DH is done working, I will put on a cute little number and head to the bedroom;) If I buy lingerie it's usually from VS or Frederick's.

  • Thanks!  It was really fun and actually quite empowering.  I left the session feeling unstoppable haha.
  • I would so love to do the same, but DH likes me naked in heels!! Um so no need for the rest, but I love sexy lingerie 
  • imageGingham:

    Hey Lady!

    I'll bust it out maybe once or twice a month or on special occasions.  Today is our anniversary and as soon as DH is done working, I will put on a cute little number and head to the bedroom;) If I buy lingerie it's usually from VS or Frederick's.

    Hey there!

    Oh my gosh Happy Anniversary!  What one is this?

    Tell DH work time is over. It is sexy time!

    BTW - I love the picture of Lucy bumping :-)

    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
    Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

    Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    "What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose." - Henry Ward Beecher
    SAIF/PAIF Welcome
    Lots of love and luck to my PAIF/3T/IF Veteran ladies, especially my dear friend Zookie. Congrats to Papps, Teach84 and Starbuck on their little ones.
  • imagemari2003:
    I would so love to do the same, but DH likes me naked in heels!! Um so no need for the rest, but I love sexy lingerie 

    Hot Mari!  I might have to bust that out this weekend...maybe some hot pink heels for V-Day!  

    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
    Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

    Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    "What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose." - Henry Ward Beecher
    SAIF/PAIF Welcome
    Lots of love and luck to my PAIF/3T/IF Veteran ladies, especially my dear friend Zookie. Congrats to Papps, Teach84 and Starbuck on their little ones.
  • imagemdluv21:

    imagemari2003:
    I would so love to do the same, but DH likes me naked in heels!! Um so no need for the rest, but I love sexy lingerie 

    Hot Mari!  I might have to bust that out this weekend...maybe some hot pink heels for V-Day!  

    Their ya go! Yeah he likes to keep it simple! 

  •  

    Ok, my project this week it to hit all of the stores, cute and crotchless ;-). It is Valentines Day this weekend, after all (that is if AF leaves in time)

  • imagemdluv21:
    imageGingham:

    Hey Lady!

    I'll bust it out maybe once or twice a month or on special occasions.  Today is our anniversary and as soon as DH is done working, I will put on a cute little number and head to the bedroom;) If I buy lingerie it's usually from VS or Frederick's.

    Hey there!

    Oh my gosh Happy Anniversary!  What one is this?

    Tell DH work time is over. It is sexy time!

    BTW - I love the picture of Lucy bumping :-)

    Thank you!  It's our 2 year.

    He's got a deadline to meet, but he should be done soon.  I'm ok with it though, because I've been super busy lately and could use a few minutes to wind down and catch up on here.   I haven't been on in a few days.  Anything exciting been going on?

    And how are you doing? How's the weather up there?

  • Nope, neither of us are into it.  We don't see the point (though, I can understand its appeal).
  • imageGingham:
    imagemdluv21:
    imageGingham:

    Hey Lady!

    I'll bust it out maybe once or twice a month or on special occasions.  Today is our anniversary and as soon as DH is done working, I will put on a cute little number and head to the bedroom;) If I buy lingerie it's usually from VS or Frederick's.

    Hey there!

    Oh my gosh Happy Anniversary!  What one is this?

    Tell DH work time is over. It is sexy time!

    BTW - I love the picture of Lucy bumping :-)

    Thank you!  It's our 2 year.

    He's got a deadline to meet, but he should be done soon.  I'm ok with it though, because I've been super busy lately and could use a few minutes to wind down and catch up on here.   I haven't been on in a few days.  Anything exciting been going on?

    And how are you doing? How's the weather up there?

    Yeah for 2 years!  I understand about wanting some time to wind down.  

    Hmmmm I am not sure about anything too exciting on here the last couple of days.  I feel like like the New Year influx of newbies is starting to slow down.  :::Fingers crossed:::  I miss you ladies that moved to the other board but I lurk over there for updates.  Smile

    I am doing ok.  I had a fun weekend.  Saw Fiddle on the Roof in SF over the weekend and that was cool.  Excited for CHs today.  That is about it.

    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
    Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

    Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    "What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose." - Henry Ward Beecher
    SAIF/PAIF Welcome
    Lots of love and luck to my PAIF/3T/IF Veteran ladies, especially my dear friend Zookie. Congrats to Papps, Teach84 and Starbuck on their little ones.
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    imagemari2003:
    I would so love to do the same, but DH likes me naked in heels!! Um so no need for the rest, but I love sexy lingerie 

    Brown chicken brown cow!!! ::whistles at Mari:: 

    Hahaha your funny! But damn I'm hawt!! LOL 

  • DH loves when I bust out the lingerie!  Sadly though I've been neglecting it.  I think I need to get back in the habit. 

    Favorite store, hands down, actually favorite store overall, Victoria's Secret!!  I used to have a card, but had to get rid of it.  It was dangerous LOL!

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  • My go to place is VS and I usually put it on once a week - DH really likes it. My girlfriends threw me a lingerie party before our wedding and I got a crazy amount of lingerie. There are things with tags on them still and we've been married for 5 years. It makes me feel sexy about half the time. The other half I wear it just for his enjoyment.
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  • I don't usually wear it, occasionally I will put it on. Dh likes it but he always says why bother it is just coming off anyway. I usually go to VS or Fredricks, sometimes I find cute stuff at target and kohls. I have a really hard time finding stuff. I am a 32D/DD and anything that comes in s-m-l, I need an XL to fit my boobs and then it is huge everywhere else. Its like I need a small bodice with an XL top so finding stuff to fit my small frame and big boobs is a pain.
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  • I love Fredericks, I'm on their mailing list. Cool but I also have stuff from VS. I like to change it up some. I'd say maybe twice a month.
  • My DH prefers me naked or he loves me in boy shorts and a tank...he's not into the lingerie, he thinks it's a waste...the boy short on the other hand, drive him nuts
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