TTC After a Loss

she's done..

My mom said she is "done with the topic" thanks I'm glad you are done with the topic.  Stop bringing it up.
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Re: she's done..

  • Tell me she's not talking about Bryanna.
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    Mom, I am sorry, but you are being insensitive and wrong in your ways.

  • imagetoddandjulie:
    Tell me she's not talking about Bryanna.

    yep she is...she doesnt see why i'm celebrating her life.

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  • I am so sorry!
  • imageGinaincali:

    imagetoddandjulie:
    Tell me she's not talking about Bryanna.

    yep she is...she doesnt see why i'm celebrating her life.

    Oh Gina, I am so sorry.  I was hoping it was something else.  It's too bad she doesn't want to celebrate her life with you, being the Grandmother.  I hope you continue to anyway.  ((hugs))

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  • I am sorry that your mom is acting this way.
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  • I am so sorry! :::hugs:::
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  • I know she's your mom, Gina.. but sometimes even mom's need a kick in the pooter.
    Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
  • I'm so sorry!!! I can not believe she said that to you. What a horrible thing to say! Well, we'll always be here for you and we're never "done with the subject". ((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))
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  • I am so sorry :(
    Momma to three boys: Henry - 4yo Alex - 18mo Jack - born 2/23/12 at 20w due to ruptured uterus (previa and accreta resulting in hysterectomy) He only lived here on Earth for an hour, but he will live in our hearts forever. m/c #1: sept '09, m/c #2: july '10
  • That's awful. I am sorry!
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  • That's terrible. I'm sorry she's being so insensitive.?
  • I am so sorry that she said that to you--(((((HUGS))))
  • imageGinaincali:

    imagetoddandjulie:
    Tell me she's not talking about Bryanna.

    yep she is...she doesnt see why i'm celebrating her life.

    I am so sorry... Shame on here!

    ~Married- 10.20.2007~ TTC Since- 4.3.2009 ~BFP#1- 8.25.2009 ~ Missed M/C and D&C-10.9.2009 ~BFP#2-8.12.2010 ~ EDD- 4.20.2011~ It
  • after 30 mins I got off the phone.  I got to listen to all the things I do wrong and how I'm not that close to family.  Whatever.  Apparently she feels like a part of me is missing?  No really?  And how she is scared for me to tell her I'm pregnant again but if it happens again she is scared for me..geez thanks...def. didn't tell her anything.
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  • I'm sorry hun. People just don't get it at all. We will all be here whenever you need us to be!  Congrats on your BFP as well!

    "Sometimes the smallest things take up the most room in your heart"

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  • I am so sorry your mom is not able to give you the support you need. You don't deserve that at all. Continue to celebrate your daughter however you choose to. That is what makes you a wonderful mother.
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  • Sending you lots of hugs, I can't believe she said that to you.

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  • I'm so sorry Gina I know this can't be easy.  Seriously its just not right that she is acting this way with you... I wish she could see that what you are doing helps you in the healing process and that this isn't something you are just "done with" you will carry Bryanna in your heart for the rest of your life. I am so sorry hon.  **HUGS**

    I will never forget the date of my first BFP, or my EDD or even the day of my D&C and I only had our little one with me for about 6 weeks. This is something we will all carry with us forever. <3

  • I am so sorry Gina.  I don't believe it, please try not to let what she says damper your celebration for Bryanna.
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
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