3rd Trimester

How did you meet DH?

I'm uber bored at work, so I thought we could play a little game.  Tell me how you met DH/SO?

DH and I met when I was 17, and spending the summer with my dad, who was working in Florida for a few months.  Dh was the landscaper for the condo complex that we were staying in.  After several weeks of honking and whistling at him as I drove by, I finally worked up the nerve to talk to him.  We hung out a couple of times, before I returned to St. Louis to finish my senior year, but we didn't keep in touch when I left.

Fast forward a year, my family decided they wanted to move to Florida permanently.  So, 6 days after I graduated, we packed up and headed south.  After a couple of weeks, my sister and I decided to do my mom a favor and drive my brother to school.  After dropping him off, we decided to take a different way home, which we had never taken before.  It took us past his house, and as we were driving by, he pulled out in front of us on his motorcycle!  I made him pull over and give me his phone number, and we've been together ever since!

If I hadn't taken my brother to school that day, and I hadn't decided to try a new route home, and if he hadn't taken off work that day, we wouldn't have crossed paths again.  It was fate!

 

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  • In a bar....enough said I think LoL

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  • I'm a dancer, and I met SO through the nutcracker. :) It was the best christmas!
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  • DH and I met my first day of undergrad, he was a year ahead of me.  After undergrad we went to medical school together and were married after my first year, his second.
  • He came up to me during a concert by a DMB cover band at a local ski resort near his house.
  • We met at his fraternity through a mutual friend.  I was a 19 year old college freshman and he was a 21 year old junior at a neighboring school.  I had just gotten out of a fairly serious relationship and honestly thought that DH would make a great rebound guy because he was cute and really nice.  One date, one kiss and I was hooked and here we are, 7 years later! 

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  • Mandeline-that's an awesome story, I like how you honked at him while he was at work!! I met MH while we were in high school. We started dating when I was 16 and have been together ever since, which will be 12 years next week!!
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  • We were 2nd grade "sweethearts".  Didn't date in junior high or high school, though we hung with the same crowd.  Both of us moved to different states for college and didn't see each other again until our 10 year reunion.  Exchanged numbers and started talking.  After one month of this (I was living across the country), I quit my job and moved closer to him.  Two months later, we moved in together and two months later we got engaged.  And to think I was not too excited to go to my reunion...
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  • we met in our junior year at highschool :) math class and chemistry class.. :)
  • He was my boss at work ;)
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    Mandeline-that's an awesome story, I like how you honked at him while he was at work!! I met MH while we were in high school. We started dating when I was 16 and have been together ever since, which will be 12 years next week!!

    Thanks!  I would get bummed on rainy days b/c he would be called off of work.  But I loved hot days, because he would take his shirt off!Party!!!

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  • My DH and I met online crazy enough. We both had been thru some crappy relationships and were tired of the bar scene so weboth had a friend recommend a specific site and we were both on there less than a week, met each other casually at the park and have been inseperable since
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  • Aww, some of you have really cute stories!

    DH and I went to the same tiny Christian school all our lives - starting in Kindergarten.  We didn't start dating 'til our senior year, though. It took me 13 years to get him to notice me!

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  • We knew of each other because we went to the same school but he was acutally my ex's best friend :O lol. I moved in with my ex and me and my ex were more of friends than we really were a couple so I got close to his best friend and he became my best friend [a bunch of us lived together] and after awhile I got sick of being cheated on by my ex I dumped him but stayed in contact with DH because he was my friend and we started seeing each other and he told my ex because he was an honest friend.. well my ex tried getting back with me and then their friendship was over.. but we found each other so it was worth it :)
  • I met DH while I was on vacation With my girlfriends in Greece. He was visiting his family and we both lived in NYC... Small world. I like to say he's my favorite souvenier ;)
  • My sister introduced us a couple days before my 30th bday. They used to work together and she sprung me from work to play hookie for the afternoon and go visiting with her while she was home. DH swears from the moment I walked in with my sis he knew we'd be married. He called me on my bday a few days later, and I called him on his which is 2 days after mine. We didn't talk again for a couple months, but once we worked up the courage we were together ever since. We got married a year and a half later!
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    Match.com...it works!

     and to think I thought he was a drug dealer.. hey what 19 year old owns a home these days?!

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  • I'll start with how we *didn't* meet. :) We went to the same small school for undergrad, he knew my younger sister (who also went there), and we later narrowed it down to one party where he was tending bar and I was sitting at the bar, but we never met. 

    When I was going through a bunch of pics for a rehearsal dinner slide show, I found some pics from that party -- including one where we were standing three feet apart, facing opposite directions. He still has the shirt he was wearing. :)

    We didn't meet until five years later, when I moved to CA for grad school (he was already in grad school at a nearby school) and a mutual friend from college offered to get some friends together so that I'd know a few people in the area. We hit it off immediately and the rest is history. :)  

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  • We met on my 21st birthday in Las Vegas at 2 AM while I was sitting at a slot machine... Klassy!!!
  • Cute story OP. 

    I met dh in school, in college, in Buffalo, NY.  We took gross anatomy together, so we met while dissecting cadavers.  We would talk when we saw each other out at the bars and then started studying together in the library.  We dated for 8 months before we both moved away to do internships.  We stayed together, long distance, for 5 months.  After we were both done we moved to Utah together.  

  • DH and I are high school sweethearts. We didn't go to the same high school but we met at my high school dance. I went to an all girls high school and he went to an all boys high school. He was bored one night and I was just going to hang out with my friends. After asking a guy friend I knew to dance with me for most of the night (which never happened), I saw this other guy. He looked kinda nerdy but I knew I wanted to be with him. Fast foward 12 years, we've been marriend for almost 4 years and  Matthew's on the way.

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  • DH and I met in biology class in tenth grade.  I don't think we were particularily interested in each other; just friendly.  In 11th grade we were in a lot of activities together and we became best friends.  It was not until he asked me to prom that year that I realized he really liked me and I liked him too.  Because of my faith and some personal convictions, I did not want to date in high school.  It was REALLY hard, but we remained friends even though there were times when we wanted to be more than that. 

    I went to college 4 hours away from home and he stayed local.  We parted as friends and really thought that was it.  We kept talking every once in a while, but never talked about a potential relationship, even though I kept thinking and praying about it.  Halfway through freshman year, he became very sick and almost died; I realized right then and there that I never wanted to lose him.  We started talking regularly, more seriously, and began our (long distance) relationship in May 2006.  18 months later we were engaged and 18 months after that we were married.  He is still my very best friend and I think the waiting made us stronger :-)

  • DH and I met in Kindergarten.  =)  We grew up in a tiny town so there were only 15 people in our graduating class.  All through elementary he would pick on me and tease me and pull my hair and make me go home crying...my mom told me it was just because he liked me.  We dated for a week in 8th grade and then weren't single at the same time until after our Freshmen year in college.  We started dating that summer and have been together now for 6 years and now we have a little girl on the way! 

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  • I was staying at a friend's house from school when I was 16, and she told me I needed to start talking to this guy who she had youth group with.  She introduced us online, and we chatted for a few months; it was no big deal.

    Then, four months later, he came to one of our volleyball games with a friend of his, and I was like, THIS is who I've been talking to this entire time?!?!  I was so mad at my friend for not telling me how cute he was!

    We hung out in a group of friends for about a month, then I asked him to my homecoming my decorating his car.  At homecoming, he got down on one knee with a ring pop and asked me to be his gf :)

    We've been together ever since.  So we started dating when I was 16 (he was 18), got engaged when I was 19, married when I was 20, pregnant at 21, and I'll give birth when I'm 22!!

    We're both each other's  first bf/gf, first everything.  I just feel so lucky to have found him so early in my life; he's my best friend.

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    we met in our junior year at highschool :) math class and chemistry class.. :)

    chemistry, eh? lol 

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  • He and I were both working for Burning Man out in the Nevada desert. I had just gotten out of a relationship and he was in the process of ending one so nothing happened right away. We both caught the others eye and flirted a bit. We were co-workers out there for a couple of months before the work ended and I went home to Portland, OR and he left for Santa Fe, NM. We stayed in contact (mostly through Facebook - how sad is that?). We would spend hours upon hours talking to each other on IM and on the phone. I eventually visited him when I took a roadtrip to look at grad schools. While I was there he asked me to move in and I accepted. I went back up to Portland to get my stuff and we've been living together ever since.
  • While I worked at an icecream parlour =)

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  • Such cute stories! 

    Thanks for helping me pass the time.  I love hearing "how we met" stories.

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  • DH and I met our junior year in college... but we realized we could have met numerous times before. 

     First our freshmen year we were both at the same party - it was a relatively small party and it was for the lacrosse team.  I went with my friend whose boyfriend was on the team, he showed up with my friends boyfriend.  I was one of only a handful of girls there but we didn't meet - we remember all the same events though. 

    His sister went to another school and ended up becoming friends with a girl I went to high school with.  The girl I went to HS with got a ride to visit me with my future SIL - and then ditched me one night to hang out with SIL's "brother and his friends".   His sister actually met my parents long before he did because she went to a concert with HS "friend" and my sister. 

     Sophomore year all the guys from his floor Freshman year moved into my building, a floor above me - so I knew all of them, but still we didn't meet. 

     Finally, junior year, we lived across the hall from each other - started dating a month after finally meeting and knew almost right away that he was the one.

  • We met in our recruiter's office before a day of going paint balling. I saw him off to basic while I was there finishing up last minute paperwork and saw him like 3 weeks later at basic training. It was the day before my 18th birthday and we had been friends since then. After training, he moved to Italy and I was already stationed in Texas.. I e-mailed him seeing how things were going and gave him my number. He called and that was it! 
  • I went to a family BBQ with a guy I was dating - it was becoming obvious that it was heading into 'friends only' territory and we weren't right for each other. So he invited his coworker/friend because he thought we'd be perfect for one another.

    He was right. A few weeks later, after we discussed it with my ex to make sure he didn't mind.. we went on our first date. I'd never dated a friend of an ex before and never thought I would, I'm glad I made that exception!

  • We were HS sweethearts.  DH started throwing pencils at my in 7th grade band.  I really didn't like him back then....we didn't start dating till our Sr yr and we have been inseparable ever since.
  • I met my DH through his Air force room-mate. I had just graduated from high school and my friends and I liked to hang out at a pool hall (yay for fake ID's) that was close to the base. We started up a pool game with some hot officers and I became friends with one of them (DH's room-mate). It turns out that he was the ex-boy friend of one of my elder sisters (creepy).

    My DH came back from Iraq a few month later, I was invited to his welcome back from the sandbox party and we started "dating" that night. Almost two years later we were married.

  • We met on the school bus in HS & we're just friends, but he moved away. A couple years after graduation he moved back & I met him again at a party. We ddn't start dating til a couple months later b/c I finally took charge Big Smile
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  • Working at a grocery story our senior year of HS.
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  • We worked together in high school. The best part? We worked at Babies 'R' Us! lol
  • I was working in an urgent care/primary care office where we held corporate contracts for pre-employment physicals. My DH had a new job with one of the companies and came in for his "physical"---he's a computer geek, so his physical was just listen to heart and lungs, make sure he could see/hear and pester him on lifestyle issues like diet, exercise, smoking cessation, etc.  I did all this and cleared him. We had some basic chit chat about how he was moving back home from college, etc. (I'm not from here, but he is). 

    A couple of weeks later, he shows up at the office with bronchitis. I saw him and treated him appropriately.  He has a big voice and some of the girls in the hall heard him talking/joking with me. They said, "Yep, we'll be seeing him again." I just laughed them off.... but low and behold, he started calling the office wanting to talk to me about this and that mundane topic (medicine, kidney stones, etc).  Finally, I asked him if he had a church in town (I had been inviting girls to my church left and right that were new to town, why not guys??). He called me out on it and I said, Yes, I'm inviting you to mine. This is usually not a turn on to guys. They usually take off running the other way, or come to the church so they can see if there are any hotties there (I'm so not a hottie, I'm a total geek too).  So, he came that Sunday (never thought he would in a million years). We went out to lunch afterwards, and he has continued to be smitten ever since.  :)  We got engaged a little over a year later, married 5 more months later, and now, 2 and a half years later, we're expecting LO!

  • Well, my DH and I had several occurances before we actually "met".  We went to college togther, I was in undergrad and he was in grad school.  I had to go into a specific office to take a test and he was working in the office and I had to ask him for a pencil.  We didn't talk at all then though- although he says that I asked him for a pencil to try to talk to him...  NOT even.  Then about a year later I got thrown out of a club (long story...  I was 22) and he saw me then he went and asked one of the girls that I cheered with if she knew me, but we still didn't talk.  Three months after that ordeal we graduated from college (again, me from undergrad and him from grad), on the same day, at the same time from the same school.  Still never talked.  Then about a month after we graduated he sent me a message on myspace talking smack about my cheering squad.  I sent him one back talking smack about his fraternity.  We sent messages for like three days and exchanged numbers.  He came to my house that weekend and we have been joined at the hip ever since.  Really dramatic huh?  LOL!!!
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  • We were in the same 4th grade class! Went to middle school together and "dated" off and on during our 7th and 8th grade year. In the middle of my 8th grade year my family moved to Minnesota! (we were living in New Mexico.) We didn't speak for 6 long years..he found me on myspace in late 2006 we started talking everyday, exchanged phone numbers, started talking on the phone every night. He flew me down to see him for 3 weeks. We got engaged, 2 months later he moved to Minnesota, 3 months later we found out we'd be having our first baby, 2 1/2 years after being together we FINALLY got married this past August! Two days after getting married we find out that our baby girl is on the way! Now, here we sit! Happier than ever and so excited to see what the future has in store for our little family!
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