TTC After a Loss

confession - possibly flameworthy

My co-irker found out she's having a boy and it makes me really happy because she wanted a girl.

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  • No flames!  I'd feel the same way!
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  • Definitely awesome!!
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  • I just laughed reading this post...cause things like that secretly make me happy too
  • No flames from me! I've thought the same thing before.

  • i totally understand.
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    I just laughed reading this post...cause things like that secretly make me happy too

    hehehe, me too!

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  • Standing ovation, and I approve of this confession.
  • So not flameable, but definitely devilishly enjoyable :)  I'm sure that's so grammatically incorrect Stick out tongue  hehehe...
  • :::sigh of relief:::

    She's the one that was complaining to me for a 1/2 hour about how her clothes don't fit a few weeks back (she knows about both losses).  I don't hang in the lunchroom, but my good friend/co-worker says she's been whining the whole time saying "it better be a girl".  Indifferent

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  • :giggle: I would feel the same way!
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  • not flameworthy
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  • No flames. I would be smiling to myself too
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  • Who would flame that.  That's awesome.
  • I'm so proud of you!  I would be the same way.
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  • awesome!  maybe if they have a company baby shower you can get her something pink and frilly and then just claim that is was a horrible error and you'll return it for something boy related and walk away with a smirk on your face.  you know all Lifetime Movie Network style.  Surprise
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  • Hahahaha. I love it....definitly not flameworthy!!!
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    awesome!  maybe if they have a company baby shower you can get her something pink and frilly and then just claim that is was a horrible error and you'll return it for something boy related and walk away with a smirk on your face.  you know all Lifetime Movie Network styleSurprise

    Smile

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  • imageTexas77again:
    awesome!  maybe if they have a company baby shower you can get her something pink and frilly and then just claim that is was a horrible error and you'll return it for something boy related and walk away with a smirk on your face.  you know all Lifetime Movie Network style.  Surprise

     This is why Texas is never allowed to leave!!

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    imageTexas77again:
    awesome!  maybe if they have a company baby shower you can get her something pink and frilly and then just claim that is was a horrible error and you'll return it for something boy related and walk away with a smirk on your face.  you know all Lifetime Movie Network style.  Surprise

     This is why Texas is never allowed to leave!!

    LOL, cuz i'm a mean-spirited biitch that doesn't like FH's making my Peetie feel bad.  :)

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  • I cannot flame you for this because the exact same thing happened to me and I was happy too.
  • I've been there.  Don't worry about it - it's not like you walked up to her and said "Nah, nah, nah-nah, nah" or anything.  Althought that might have been tempting . . .
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  • Hehe!
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  • No flames here lol! SIL (who got pg. 2 weeks after meeting my brother last year) wanted a girl so bad that she was having her 2 yo son calling her belly his "sister" up til 20 weeks. She also wanted to use our girl name. I wanted to do a back flip when they found out it was a boy haha.
  • No flames here either!!  My friend and co-worker who is due 12 days before my EDD also really wanted a girl and found out a few weeks ago that she is having a boy!!  I could not get the evil smile off of my face.  Why should they get everything???? 
  • Not flamworthy. I hope my SIL who is due 6 weeks after me has a boy, because she wants to steal our girl names we've had set for YEARS and she realllllyyyyy realllllyyyy wants a girl. About another 9 weeks until her big u/s...and she has to wait until I deliver to find out what we're having. Muhahaha!!! LOL
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  • imageTexas77again:
    awesome!  maybe if they have a company baby shower you can get her something pink and frilly and then just claim that is was a horrible error and you'll return it for something boy related and walk away with a smirk on your face.  you know all Lifetime Movie Network style.  Surprise


    ooo I like it!!
    In memory of precious Julia, sweet baby James, and now Timmy who fought so hard.


    Natural miscarriage - April 2009 ~ We love you, 'Blueberry'
    Lydia, born July 12, 2010
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  • No flames...I can confess that my friend desperately wants to know what she is having and has been for 2 ultrasounds but the baby is curled up and they can't tell...Makes me chuckle (this is the girl who didn't ever want kids and hates being pregnant)...
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  • No flames from me, I would feel the same way.

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  • This is not flameworthy at all.  Whenever someone openly hopes for one sex, I always hope they get the other. 
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