I LOVE this name but DH says that it sounds too much like Erin and people will think he is a girl. Although at this point he said that we should just go with it since it is the only one we somewhat agree on (meaning I love it and he doesn't hate it as much as the other ones I like).
So opinions? Does it sound too much like Erin?
Any suggestions of similar style names? Nymbler keeps giving me really out there biblical names like Balthazar. ?
Re: Aaron too much like Erin?
Well I'm an Erin and, where I'm from, Aaron and Erin are pronounced differently, but I think it depends on where you live and people's accents.
I (and my family) pronounce my name with a short E like "Ellie". We pronounce Aaron with the beginning like "Abby". However, I know people from other parts of the country who say both names like "Air-in". So I guess it really depends. I think they are both nice names.
where I am from they are pronounced the same, but Aaron is a boys name and Erin is a girls name. I know lots of Erins and few Aarons, but I like it much more as a boys name!
They sound similar, but I wouldn't worry about it.
First off, they are both classic names that arose independently of one another. One's a boy's name with Hebrew roots, the other is an Irish girl's name. It's certainly not your standard unisex name that started off as a boy's name and then migrated. As such, each name has become very well accepted within each gender. People generally don't have a problem seeing Aaron as a boy's name or Erin as a girl's name.
Secondly, in most situations, there will be little chance of confusion. A teacher will not wonder for a second if little Aaron is a boy. There will also be no confusion of the spelling as he is introduced to others. When speaking without him present, his gender will be clear if you say things like, "I'd like to schedule an appointment for my son, Aaron," or "yes, we have one boy, Aaron."
Thirdly, depending on where you live, they may be pronounced differently. I say Erin like Air-in and Aaron a bit more like Air-on. Not an exaggerated "o" by any means, but there's a bit of a difference.
Fourthly, Aaron is an awesome name! Go for it.
That's me and my DH too LOL
Aaron is NMS, however, even though it sounds like Erin, it is 100% a boy name. No one will think he is a girl. It's not like the name Tracy.
FI's name is Aaron, so I'm biased.
I like it, and he thinks it's cool that his name is getting trendy but he does not want to use any names for a boy (if we ever have one) that could be mistaken for a girl's name. (Note that both of his daughters have unisex names, so go figure. Ours is London and his daughter from a previous relationship is Aubrey.)
I say use it if you both like (er, don't hate) it. It's too tough to agree on names without worrying about what other people will think of it. Once you meet your little boy, his name will suit him perfectly and you won't think about it anymore.
As for similar names, how about...
Able
Adam
Andrew
Asher
Benjamin
Caleb
Christopher
Daniel
David
Eli/Elias/Eliab/Elijah/Elisha
Ezra
Gabriel
Gideon
Isaac
James
Jonah
Joseph
Josiah
Jude
Levi
Luke
Matthew
Micah
Nathaniel/Nathan
Noah
Paul
Peter
Phillip
Samuel
Seth
Silas
Simon
Titus
Zachariah
They may sound the same, but people know it's a name that goes "either way" based on the spelling.
I have heard them pronounced differently too - but regardless, once people see it spelled out, or know your child is a boy- the problem is solved.
This really is not an issue over which I wouldn't use the name.
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Where I live Aaron and Erin are not pronounced the same.
The A is like Adam or Cat and the E is like Eric or Pet. As long as you say it correctly it shouldn't cause a problem.
i think they sound completely different
Erin is is like "errand"
Aaron is like "air-in"
I say them the same BUT we have married friends named Aaron and Erin and my brother and husband think I'm insane when I say "Aaron & Erin" the same. But I hear no difference when they say them "differently"...
DH's 18 year old female cousin is Aaron. And her middle name is a last name which is not feminine at all so she has been screwed her whole life.
My sister's name is Erin and I love that name.
All 4 of those sound exactly the same to me! But in KY no one would say the first part of Aaron like the first part of Abby or Adam. It's always Air-in. The same way we say my brother's name, Barrett like "Bare-it" while my family up north says "Bah-rett"
Nah, I think Aaron is a fairly common and known name for a boy.
My cousin is Erin and most people here pronounce them the same (like Air-in) but her mom says it like Urr-in.