How do you tackle bedtime with two LOs? Are their bedtimes staggered? Does one of you tackle bedtime for one LO and the other do bedtime for the other? I'm at a loss for how to make this work with two, and am feeling pretty run ragged with bedtime lately.
We've gotten ourselves in the situation where Natalie will only "let" me do her bedtime routine. DH gives her a bath but then everything after is me (pjs, books, rocking/songs, getting her in bed). If we try to switch, she has a horrible meltdown and cries through the whole process. At the same time Natalie starts her bedtime routine, Claire typically wakes up and wants to be nursed and then put to bed for her "bedtime". DH gives her a bath while I'm working with Natalie but after that Claire then has a meltdown if I'm not the one holding her etc. I'm exhausted and starting to hate bedtime. I'm thinking we need to just go through a night or two of Natalie having a breakdown to get her to work through the idea of DH putting her to bed so we can start switching off vs. me doing everything.