Bitter B*tches Club.

mlmtgg · January 2010

Awhile ago Ssweets04 asked if anyone wanted to take over the Bitter B*tches Club (those that have been ttcal for over 6 months). And since I am the bitterest of them all at this point I volunteered to do so - but b/c she is not on very much anymore she hasn't written back.

And, b/c I am the bitterest of them all (oh, did I already say that?) I am just hi-jacking it and ressurrecting it for us. So here's the deal:

And b/c it has been so long, I am going to recreate the list from scratch. If you have been ttcal for more than six months, reply to this post with the following information:

1. since when have you been ttc?

2. how many losses have you had?

3. how long since your loss (or first loss if you have had multiples)

I will compile this and then once a week will post with updates, support for our bitter-selves and a QOTD.

any comments, questions, just write back!!

grr_aargh · January 2010

Oh, yeah, here I am:

1. since when have you been ttc?

Since January 09.

2. how many losses have you had?

4. Yeah. 3/09, 7/09, 11/09 (all 4 months apart! I thought it was crappy luck -- all 3 had due dates on the 19th of the DD month), 1/10.

3. how long since your loss (or first loss if you have had multiples)

19 days. Dur. Reading is good. 11 months since my first loss.

ade2be · January 2010

Can we have a contest for bitterness....lol....I'm getting there!!! Anyways, thanks for starting this list back up, I've missed it!

1. since when have you been ttc? Sept '08

2. how many losses have you had? 1

3. how long since your loss (or first loss if you have had multiples): 13 months, which has only been 8 cycles (probably 9 after today) due to my extremely long cycles.

Scout05 · January 2010

Guess I am officially in the club now. Yay? Well, I couldn't ask for better company.

1) Trying for a healthy baby since Jan 2009

2) Three losses

3) Our first loss was on May 5, 2009. I will never celebrate Cinco de Mayo again.

hbkises · January 2010

oh I can officially join this club. **extreme sarcastic happy dance**...

1. since when have you been ttc? December 2008

2. how many losses have you had? 1

3. how long since your loss (or first loss if you have had multiples)? 9 months

islelily · January 2010

Thanks for ressurrecting the club! I need it.

I'm still here.

1. since when have you been ttc?

TTC since February 2008

2. how many losses have you had?

One

3. how long since your loss (or first loss if you have had multiples)

Pg in March 08, m/c June 08.... so 23 months since pregnancy (its almost feb, right?), 20 months since our loss.

babygirlpriest · January 2010

"Mirror, mirror on the wall, Am I the bitterest of them all?"

1. since when have you been ttc? TTC since June of 2008 (TTCAL since August 2009)

2. how many losses have you had? 1st loss - Identical twins/2nd loss - singleton

3. how long since your loss (or first loss if you have had multiples) 6.5 months since first loss. Yay! I just barely made it in under the wire...

Sue&Pasquale · January 2010

hello ladies...

1. since when have you been ttc? February 2008

2. how many losses have you had? 3

3. how long since your loss (or first loss if you have had multiples): March 2008, June 2008, August 2009. I will never forget those dates.

dondraandluis · January 2010

Oh def me and thank you!

1. October '08

2. I have had 2

3. My first loss was Feb '09, 2nd was Sep '09

denise_m · January 2010

1. since when have you been ttc? Feb 20, 2009

2. how many losses have you had? 1 baby loss 2 m/c and 1 c/p

3. how long since your loss (or first loss if you have had multiples) Matthew was 10/15/07, first m/c was Feb 20, 2009

tarynhd · January 2010

I guess I get to join, too.

1. May 2007

2. 1 loss

3. Jan 15, 2009

grr_aargh · January 2010

ambrandau2:

3) Our first loss was on May 5, 2009. I will never celebrate Cinco de Mayo again.

Henceforth, our household shall refer to it as "Sucko De Mayo" in your honor.

lax15bsu · January 2010

1. since when have you been ttc? We've been actively trying to have our sticky baby since our first loss in 9/2007.

2. how many losses have you had? I've had three losses

3. how long since your loss (or first loss if you have had multiples)? It's been 28 months since the first loss (but only like 24 cycles). It's been six months since my most recent loss.

Scout05 · January 2010

grr_aargh:
ambrandau2:

3) Our first loss was on May 5, 2009. I will never celebrate Cinco de Mayo again.

Henceforth, our household shall refer to it as "Sucko De Mayo" in your honor.

I was in the OR for the d&c, right before passing out, and they were all talking about where to go for the best "Mexican beer.' I was like, excuse me, you are about to remove my child from my uterus because I found out four hours ago my baby was going to die. This is the worst moment on the worst day of my entire life. How about you stfu about beer right now, asswipes.

k1eine_maus · January 2010

1. February 2009

2. 1 loss

3. 8 months since loss

str8ota · January 2010

I think I may possibly be queen of the bitters!

1. August of 2006!

2. 5 losses.

3. Our 1st loss was in December 2006, our most recent loss was Thanksgiving 2009

ihearteddieboo · January 2010

1. since when have you been ttc? May 2009

2. how many losses have you had? One

3. how long since your loss (or first loss if you have had multiples)? 12/16/2009 was the d&c, so a little over a month ago.

ColindaP · January 2010

Does it have to be 6 months in which you haven't been able to get KU again? Because I had 3 miscarriages last year between February and November, so it doesn't take me 6 months to get KU, but I am hella bitter. So I'd like in if you'll have me.

1. Since March 2009

2. Three

3. First loss was 11 months ago. Last loss was 3 months ago.

KelinandKevin · January 2010

1. Since January of 2008 (2 years)

2. 2 losses

3. 1 year since my first loss

Thanks for taking this over.

P.S. I'm super-bitter too. More so lately. That's why I haven't been on. I find it hard to control my emotions.

Erin RN · January 2010

I'm in!

1. Have been TTC on and off since Dec '06, actively trying(using OPKs) for 13 cycles when you remove pregnancies, breaks, and the first few months of not preventing.

2. 2 losses

3. Its been 13 months since my first loss, a little over 2 months since my second.

Mysh · January 2010

Currently we are TTA but sometime in the future we will be back to TTC so I think I qualify for this group.

1. since when have you been ttc?

June 2008

2. how many losses have you had?

3.

3. how long since your loss (or first loss if you have had multiples)

Almost 15 months

Ashley858 · January 2010

1. since when have you been ttc? We started not trying but not preventing, hopeing it would happen in Jan 2009, but officially trying with OPKs and such in May 2009

2. how many losses have you had? 2.

3. how long since your loss (or first loss if you have had multiples)

Well it actually started at 5wks which would put me at 4 months, but I didnt start bleeding until 10wks putting me at 3 months.

rjl07 · January 2010

I answered in your repost, but I figured I would add it to this thread too.

Thanks for doing this! Here's my info:

1. since when have you been ttc? April 2008

2. how many losses have you had? 2 - 1 mc at 10 weeks, 1 cp

3. how long since your loss (or first loss if you have had multiples) - Just about 1 year since D&C (2/3/09), almost 8 months since cp in 6/09.

Yeah, I'm pretty bitter.

karing2 · January 2010

Bitter Betty here

Been trying since 1/09

2. One miscarriage

3. 9 months since miscarriage.

HugginAngel · January 2010

1. since when have you been ttc? April 2008

2. how many losses have you had? 2

3. how long since your loss (or first loss if you have had multiples) April 2009 on the first, so like 9mo and September 2009 on the second 4mo.

butterfly843 · January 2010

I am very bitter, hope I can join since it has only been 2.5 months since my loss.

1. since when have you been ttc? since we got married march 2003, we have unexplained infertility, lucky us.

2. how many losses have you had? we lost twins on 11.13

3. how long since your loss (or first loss if you have had multiples) 2.5 months

~HopeAndFaith~ · January 2010

1. since when have you been ttc? June of 2008

2. how many losses have you had? 1

3. how long since your loss (or first loss if you have had multiples) 2 years and 6 months

I will compile this and then once a week will post with updates, support for our bitter-selves and a QOTD.

any comments, questions, just write back!!

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