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Also, I POAS this morning

BFFN.  Not surprised.  Yeah, yeah, I know I'm only 11DPIUI.  I'm thinking if this doesn't work I am going to talk to my doctor about a lap.  I know, why would I willingly do that to myself?  I just don't know WTF my deal is.  I've responded well to everything they've put me on & DH's #s are fine so there's got to be something wrong.  We're also almost out of $ from our pre-tax medical account; we don't re-up til July.  I'm just so done with IF.  I'll never understand why we were "chosen" to deal with this constant heartbreak.
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Re: Also, I POAS this morning

  • I'm so sorry hon. IF sucks and BFNs super suck.
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  • I'm sorry :(
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  • I'm so sorry about the BFN. And I don't think there's anything wrong with talking to your doc about a lap. If there's something going on there, better to find out and be able to treat it. GL with your beta on Wednesday!
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  • I'm sorry...
  • Sorry, POAS makes me physically ill sometimes.  My mom found a "new" stick she told me that tells you if your fertile or not. She asked if I wanted her to pick some up.

     I was like... WTH, why not I've peed on every other stick known to man! Bring it on! 

  • I'm so sorry hon. I'm over IF too. IF sucks and BFN suck big donkey balls. :(

     

  • I'm so sorry, BFNs SUCK!!! ((hugs))
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  • BFNs suck - I'm sorry.
  • I'm so sorry sweetie. Hopefully it is just too early..
    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

  • Sorry about the BFN.

    I am still holding on hope for this one. I really hope you get different news at your beta (or if you POAS again).

    ((hugs))

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  • As a fellow mulitple IUIer, I feel your pain.  I never understood why it wasn't working.  Has your DH's critical morphology been tested in a while? Turns out that is one of our issues, and we didn't know until after 11 failed IUI's.
  • imageChels0504:
    As a fellow mulitple IUIer, I feel your pain.  I never understood why it wasn't working.  Has your DH's critical morphology been tested in a while? Turns out that is one of our issues, and we didn't know until after 11 failed IUI's.

    No, he hasn't had a SA since 2/09.  Thanks for the info; I'll be sure to ask about that too! 

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  • :( *hugs* So sorry.  I agree with PP who suggested getting another SA for your H.
  • I am sorrry ((hugs))
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  • imageAnasara:
    BFFN.  Not surprised.  Yeah, yeah, I know I'm only 11DPIUI.  I'm thinking if this doesn't work I am going to talk to my doctor about a lap.  I know, why would I willingly do that to myself?  I just don't know WTF my deal is.  I've responded well to everything they've put me on & DH's #s are fine so there's got to be something wrong.  We're also almost out of $ from our pre-tax medical account; we don't re-up til July.  I'm just so done with IF.  I'll never understand why we were "chosen" to deal with this constant heartbreak.

    This is the question I constantly ask myself.  Hugs. 

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  • so sorry.  ((HUGS))
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  • I am sorry - BFN's suck.  (((HUGS)))
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  • I'm sorry... I'm really hoping that it is just because you are only 11dpo and it is just late showing up! My prayers are with you.
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  • Gosh, I'm sorry. IF sucks. Insurance companies suck.
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  • I truly hope you get a different result on your beta day.  I will keep my fingers crossed for you!!!

  • (((hugs))) I'm so sorry.
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  • I am so sorry.
    TTC since 8/07 DX - Severe MFI/azoospermia & MTHFR/ TESEs found sperm - 7/08 & 6/09/ 12/08 - IVF#1 - BFN/ 6/09 - IVF #2 - cancelled due to OHSS risk (had retrieval)/ 7/09 - FET #1 - BFN/ 9/09 - FET #2 - BFN/ 11/09 - IVF #3 with new RE cancelled twice - 10/09 & 11/09/ 1/10 - IVF #3 take 3 - BFN/ 4/10 - IVF #4 - first ever BFP on 5/13/10!!! 108 @ 10dp3dt/ 2nd beta 311!/ sono on 5/28/10 said TWINS!!!! Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • i'm really sorry. (((hugs)))
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  • I'm sorry. I really hope that it's just too early to get a line yet.
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  • I'm sorry :(  I was just thinking about paging you to see how you were doing.  I'm trying to hold out until my beta on Friday.  I dont think I O'd exactly 36 hours after my trigger, I think it was more like 48 hours, based on what I was feeling in my ovaries, but FF says I'm  11DPO. 
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  • BFN's suck assss.

    ((HUGS))

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  • I'm so sorry.  But a lap isn't that hard of a surgery and you will recover quickly.  It might be the thing that does the trick.
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  • I am so very sorry.  But hold out hope!  It's not over yet.  {hugs}
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  • (((Hugs)))  IF and BFNs suck. 
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  • That really sucks.  I'm sorry.
  • I'm so sorry. IF sucks!
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  • I'm so sorry.

    (((((hugs))))) 

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  • Anasara....I am so very sorry.
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  • Im so sorry you're dealing with this. I hope you get some answers soon.
  • I'm so sorry, lots of hugs! IF sucks, I just kicked it in the face for you:)
  • I am so sorry- I hate IF I hate BFNs and I hate that you have to deal with this.  

    Saving a glimmer of hope that maybe you tested too early.  ((hugs)) 

    Surprise BFP after 5 yrs of TTC
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