Infertility

D & E is done but it was not as easy as I thought it would be

The details are in my blog - link in siggy - it is just to much to write here - but I am glad it is done and I hope and pray I never have to go through that again.  Thank you for all the well wishes and prayers - they mean alot to me.
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  • ((((HUGS)))). I wish I knew what to say.......just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you peace.
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    *IVF #1 cancelled at ET*
    *IVF #2 OHSS, transfer cancelled*
    *FET #1 2 frosties, c/p*
    *Lap April 2010, removed endometrioma/endo implants*
    *Surprise BFP June 2010*
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  • I am so sorry again. I hope & pray that you can heal from this tremendous loss. I will keep thinking of you.
  • I'm glad it's over. I am so, so sorry.
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  • I am so sorry Jackie. I wish I knew what to say. I have been thinking about you a lot my friend. ((((hugs))))
  • You and your DH are in my thoughts and prayers! ((hugs))
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  • I am so sorry that you have had to go through this. You and DH are in my thoughts.
    3 yrs ttc, 3ivfs, 4 iuis and finally a baby boy! And then a girl to follow. 2 under 2!
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  I wish the surgery could have been easier on you.  Take care of yourself. 
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    It took 5 failed IUIs and a failed IVF, but our FET worked!
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  • I just read your blog. I am so sorry for everything you are going through, and have gone through. You and your DH are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of yourself the best you can.?
    DS born 7.30.11
  • I am so sorry but happy as much as one could be that you are home. I too had a D&C at 9wks & it was on my first wedding anniversary. I know there isn't much to say but please don't blame yourself &/or think it was something you did. I was blaming myself for awhile that it was something I did that caused this. Time will heal.
  • I am so sorry Jackie. 
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  • I am so sorry you had to go through that :(

     

  • I'm so sorry. As others have said - there just doesn't seem to be anything appropriate to say.

    I'm so sorry the surgery was so awful. I wish at least one thing was a little bearable for you. Keeping you in my Tthoughts.

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  • I am so sorry that you had to go through that. We are here to support you always. I wish I could say or do something to take the pain away. :(
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  • I am so sorry you had to go through that. I'm keeping you and DH in my thoughts and prayers. ((HUGS))
    Dx: High FSH, stage IV endo, homozygous C677T MTHFR and PAI-1
    Early loss 10/08
    Lap 1/09
    IVF #1 "natural IVF" - 1 egg retrieved, missed m/c
    Tried several mini-stim cycles with no response
    Switched clinics - dx'd as carrier for Fragile X
    IVF #2 MDL protocol Jan/Feb converted to IUI, BFN
    IVF #2 take 2: Antagonist, one embie, BFN
    IVF #3: Antagonist, no fertilization
    One last ditch effort at OE IVF (antagonist with Clomid) cancelled
    DE cycle #1 Jan/Feb 2011, BFP, ectopic
    DE cycle #2 June/July 2011 - BFP
    10/28/11 Baby girl lost at 17 weeks due to pre-term labor. We love and miss you.
    DE cycle #3 June/July 2012 - BFP, twins, both heartbeats stopped, D&C
    2 frosties but don't know what's next
    FET Dec 2012: BFP! Praying this one sticks for the long haul!
  • I am so very sorry you had to go through this.  (((hugs)))

  • I hope that you can heal from this.  And one day, I hope that you and your husband are blessed with a child.  I'm so sorry.
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  • I'm so sorry Jackie.  My thougts and prayers are with you and DH.
  • I am so sorry sweetie. BIG HUGS and take care of yourself.
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  • No words, except I'm sorry.
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    Cycle 10: Femara CD 3-7, IUI CD 17 BFP on 2/14/11, m/c 3/7/11
  • I am so sorry

    (((Hugs)))

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  • I am so sorry Jackie. My thoughts are with you.
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  • I'm so sorry.  I've been thinking about you.
  • Hugs to you and your DH, Jackie.  No one should ever have to go through this.  I pray for peace and strength for you both.  Hang in there....we're here for you.
    TTC #1 since 6/07, Dx = Ovulatory dysfunction, DOR, and autoimmune issues ~ 4 Clomid cycles, 1 Femara Cycle, 6 Injectible IUI cycles~ 4 Chemical PG's ~ IVF #1 Dec '09 = BFP!! Beta 8dp3dt = 68 10dp3dt = 276 16dp3dt = 1511 ~ First U/S 1/14 = 3 Heartbeats!!! Lost Baby C at 8w5d Emergency Cerclage at 22wks saved our babies lives Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • I'm so sorry Jackie.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.
    TTC #1 since August 2007, 3 failed IUI's, first IVF Jan 2010-bfp 1st beta on 01/29/2010 - 871 2nd beta on 2/1/10 -2,651 Twins! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I'm so sorry it was so hard.  I wish it would have gone more smoothly for you.  You and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers.  I'm so sorry you're going through this.  Take good care of yourself right now. 
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  • You and your DH are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I knew what to say that would take some of this pain away.  I hope that you and your H as well can find some peace..
  • I am so sorry for what you have had to endure, its just not right and none of us should have to go through it.  Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. 
    Mrs. Georgean 5.13.06 Holy 2nd Surprise BFP - Expecting our 2nd little one on Feb 9th 2013 After 3 years of unexplained infertilty, trying, hoping, and lots of peeing on myself.....Clomid Ovidrel IUI on 7/27/09 Best RE ever = BFP on 8/11/09 9/23 Missed m/c at 10.5 weeks. Very thankful for the time we had together. One lonely follie Clomid Ovidrel jacked up IUI on 12/31/09 (thanks to the nurse who wrote down the wrong protocol ) = 1/14/10 BFN - go figure. 150mg Clomid Ovidrel IUI on 2/12 - beta 2/26 = BFN Again..... Last IUI before a nice break...Cmon Luck of the Irish! Trigger 3/15, IUI 3/17... BFN and taking a little break before Follistim
  • i'm so sorry you had to go through this. sending all of my thoughts and prayers.
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  • My thoughts are with you Jackie. I hope you have a quick recovery. (((hugs))) Im so so sorry.
    TTC since 12/ 06: H/Azoospermia Ivf#1 BFP m/c 5w3d FET#1 c/p FET# 2 BFN IVF#2 BFFN IVF#3 March/April
  • You and DH are in my T+P.

    I'm so sorry Jackie, I wish I could do more.

    ((HUGS))

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    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
    MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
  • Again, I am so sorry (((hugs)))

    TTC in 2008. Stage II/III endo, Hashimotos hypothyroid, low morph (3%).
    2 cycles Clomid/Ovidrel/TI/Crinone=BFN.
    IUI #1 - 4 Follistim/Ovidrel/IUI/Crinone = BFN.
    IVF #1 - Antagonist w/ ICSI 4/10. 17 retrieved, 5DT of 2, BFN :(
    IVF #2 - Long Lupron w/ ICSI 6/10. 15 retrieved, 3DT of 2, BFFN!!
    Lap 7/21/10
    IVF #3 - Clomid/Antagonist w/ ICSI 10/10. 14 retreived, 3DT of 3, BFP 10/20 but m/c. No HB 11/15/10 - D&C 11/17/10.
    FET - 2 blasts, 1 survived the thaw. Transfer 2/19. Beta #1 3/1 375, Beta #2 3/3 885, Beta #3 3/8 4261, Beta #4 3/11 9005. U/S 3/8 1 sac 1 yolk, U/S 3/16 1 heartbeat 114bpm!

     

    James born Oct. 24th 2011 via c-section at 38 weeks!

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  • My heart breaks for you Jackie!!! I keep you in my prayer.
  • I'm so sorry you went through this. My T&P are still with you. ((hugs))
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  • Hang in there!  Sending good vibes and prayers your way.
  • Jackie, I am so sorry that you have had to endure this. You and your husband have been in my prayers every night. I hope you both start to heal soon.
  • I'm sorry you are going through this.
    Stacy
    PCOS, RPL, & Anti Cardiolipin Antibody
  • (((big hugs)))
    TTC with unexplained IF since 8/2007 6 losses, one beautiful perfect boy in our arms Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
  • Oh Jackie, I'm so sorry that everything seemed to go wrong yesterday!  Except for the sad part of why you had to be there (I was bawling before and after my procedure and had amazing nurses to help me as well) the long wait, IV fiasco and catheter business shouldn't have happened at all.  So sorry you had to deal with that.  Take care...and I think taking a break is good...it'll never go away, but I promise you it gets easier.  ((hugs))
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