My SIL is upset that my baby shower is at 1pm (which is during my 18 mo niece's nap time) because she wants to bring her to my baby shower. Is this typical? The two friends that are throwing the shower are both moms, but are not bringing their babies. I can't recall being to many baby showers were kids were present (except for some very tiny infants that can't really be away from mom too long). Isn't the shower supposed to be a relaxing thing for the adults to celebrate the new baby and not be distracted with the other babies? Or am I just being selfish?