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is my siggy offensive?

MrsShrek1028MrsShrek1028 member
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if it is, i will take the picture down. i just need to know if it is.
Thing 1 = April 2008, 38weeks 8lbs 7oz 19in
Thing 2 = May 2009, Stillborn 33weeks 4lbs 9oz 18in
Thing 3 = October 2010, 27weeks 4days 2lbs 4oz 14.25in


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  • Emie28Emie28 member
    It doesn't offend me. I think it's beautiful.
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  • WinsyWadeWinsyWade member
    Awww, sweet baby.  Not too me.  She is a beauty!
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  • NavyClanNavyClan member
    I don't think so Shrek. She's beautiful. 
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  • zoieglowzoieglow member
    Not to me, not at all. You might get a lot of insensitive backlash you probably won't want to deal with. And the nest can ban you. I can't remember the name of the girl on PL who lost her baby and put the pic in the siggy and refused to take it down but they shut down her account. I'm really sorry :(
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  • mrsmacias2008mrsmacias2008 member
    not at all....and if someone gives you sshit, send them my way. The girls are so beautiful.
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  • Melaneigh1Melaneigh1 member
    Not in the least.
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  • soontobeBaileysoontobeBailey member
    not offended in the least :)
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  • oh-zysbabyoh-zysbaby member
    I think it's beautiful, but I think to others it might be difficult to see. It's up to you of course.
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  • princess101princess101 member

    I don't find it offensive but it does make me sad even though she's beautiful.

    Don't worry about what others think..do what FEELS right to you. 

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  • Mysterious_wifeMysterious_wife member
    i dont feel it is offensive. It might be hard for everyone to handle.  They are cuties though.
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  • MrsShrek1028MrsShrek1028 member
    thanks ladies! i love the picture, but dont want to offend you all or make you uncomfortable.
    Thing 1 = April 2008, 38weeks 8lbs 7oz 19in
    Thing 2 = May 2009, Stillborn 33weeks 4lbs 9oz 18in
    Thing 3 = October 2010, 27weeks 4days 2lbs 4oz 14.25in


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  • oh-zysbabyoh-zysbaby member
    Also, she looked very much like her big sister. Beautiful.
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    imagezoieglow:
    Not to me, not at all. You might get a lot of insensitive backlash you probably won't want to deal with. And the nest can ban you. I can't remember the name of the girl on PL who lost her baby and put the pic in the siggy and refused to take it down but they shut down her account. I'm really sorry :(

    This is what I was going to say.

    I think she's beautiful, and it doesn't offend me at all. But I worry about other people unfairly targeting you, like this woman.

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  • Tim'sWifeyTim'sWifey

    imagezoieglow:
    Not to me, not at all. You might get a lot of insensitive backlash you probably won't want to deal with. And the nest can ban you. I can't remember the name of the girl on PL who lost her baby and put the pic in the siggy and refused to take it down but they shut down her account. I'm really sorry :(

    That's disgusting.

     

    Shrek- your girls are beautiful.  Mckenzie is sleeping perfectly in that picture.  

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  • mrsmacias2008mrsmacias2008 member

    I don't think it's offensive, but people will feel a little uncomfortable.

    I remember that one girl...I forgot her name. But she was like 15 weeks pregnant or something and posted a pic.

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  • RachelG83RachelG83 member
    imageoh-zysbaby:
    I think it's beautiful, but I think to others it might be difficult to see. It's up to you of course.
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  • princess101princess101 member

    imageMrsShrek1028:
    thanks ladies! i love the picture, but dont want to offend you all or make you uncomfortable.

     

    To a lot of people *uncomfortable* and *offensive* are completely different things. I'm not offended but it brings a lot of sad memories of being there for friends during their loss. 

    Does that make sense? It's a very emotional thing for many. 

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  • zoieglowzoieglow member
    I think her name was GenesisStar or something like that. And I think kitty_kat (?) and bluesmoothee were the main instigators of her being kicked off because they were relentless.
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  • Mysterious_wifeMysterious_wife member

    imagezoieglow:
    I think her name was GenesisStar or something like that. And I think kitty_kat (?) and bluesmoothee were the main instigators of her being kicked off because they were relentless.

    was it whittykittykat?  She is a douche on many levels.

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  • oh-zysbabyoh-zysbaby member

    I think it has a lot to do with the fact that we know you, to be honest. To us, this is McKenzie. To others, it isn't. If that makes sense.

    The first post I ever saw of yours had a picture of her casket. It honestly shocked me and upset me quite a bit. I was pregnant and emotional and it was just a really visceral reaction of sadness that I was certainly uncomfortable with. Now, I see it a little differently, because I know you, and Mrs. Mac, and TW, and GC, and I know your daughters. Others might not feel this way.

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  • RachelG83RachelG83 member
    I agree on the offensive vs uncomfortable statement.
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  • Tim'sWifeyTim'sWifey
    imageoh-zysbaby:

    I think it has a lot to do with the fact that we know you, to be honest. To us, this is McKenzie. To others, it isn't. If that makes sense.

    The first post I ever saw of yours had a picture of her casket. It honestly shocked me and upset me quite a bit. I was pregnant and emotional and it was just a really visceral reaction of sadness that I was certainly uncomfortable with. Now, I see it a little differently, because I know you, and Mrs. Mac, and TW, and GC, and I know your daughters. Others might not feel this way.

    Well put.  

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  • MandyBrownNoserMandyBrownNoser member

    I think the thing with the PL chick was she was that she was an active poster on PL and was told numerous times that her sig was painful to others and she refused to take it down.  

    Like others have said- not offensive per se but you don't know who is seeing it and what pain/discomfort it might cause them.   

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  • zoieglowzoieglow member
    I don't think so. It's the girl who posts here sometimes and was on AN with the avatar of herself in the white tee and her boobs pushed out with a spoon in her mouth.
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  • princess101princess101 member

    imagezoieglow:
    I don't think so. It's the girl who posts here sometimes and was on AN with the avatar of herself in the white tee and her boobs pushed out with a spoon in her mouth.

     

    I remember.

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  • Mrs_LibertoMrs_Liberto member

    imagezoieglow:
    I don't think so. It's the girl who posts here sometimes and was on AN with the avatar of herself in the white tee and her boobs pushed out with a spoon in her mouth.

    That's kittycarr. 

    Shrek,

    I don't think it's an offensive sig, per se, but it does make me uncomfortable. I could see how it would be even more uncomfortable for some new TTCer coming to BOTB for the first time, too. It's very shocking/startling/unsettling. I don't necessarily mean that in a bad way, either.

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