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FML - The baby is dying... I'm losing this one, too

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Merry effing Christmas.

Just got back from the doctor. The baby shows no growth since our apt. 6 days ago and the heart rate has dropped from 108 to 71... it looks like it's just a matter of time now.

Going back Monday to confirm and a D&C is already scheduled for Tuesday.

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  • EviebeeEviebee
    I'm so so very sorry.
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  • FALLENWINGZ11FALLENWINGZ11
    I am so sorry.
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  • colle176colle176 member
    I'm so sorry.
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  • kellieokkellieok

    Ugh, crap... I am sooooo sorry!!!  ((HUGS))

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  • ShellShockedMamaShellShockedMama member

    Oh honey. I am so beyond sorry for you and your husband. I am keeping you in my prayers.

    I am so so so sorry. This is just so heartbreaking. 

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  • MaryEllenMaryEllen member
    Oh no... I'm so, so sorry.
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  • nicobean1nicobean1 member
    Oh no. I'm so so sorry.
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  • Mrs. DissMrs. Diss
    I'm so, so sorry. ((hugs))
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  • labbie1821labbie1821

    Oh Honey, I am so sorry your Christmas has been ruined.  Please do something nice for yourself and your DH.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers!

    Much Love~ 

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  • IrishsapphireIrishsapphire member
    I am really sorry.  With my second pregnancy, I had a low heartbeat with 4 bleeding episodes and then later found out at a later appointment that there was no heartbeat with no growth beyond 7 weeks.  It is like you really do not know what to believe--I was kinda ready to get off of the emotional rollercoaster.  Just take care of yourself. 
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  • OregonMamaOregonMama
    I am so very sorry.
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  • ibisibis member
    I'm so sorry... big hugs to you.
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  • MollyK0222MollyK0222 member
    I am so so sorry.
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  • alwyzbsyalwyzbsy
    (((hugs))) I'm so sorry. 
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  • PurpleK26PurpleK26 member
    I'm so sorry... big hugs to you
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  • And KetchAnd Ketch
    *hugs*  I am so so sorry you're dealing with this.  I will be sending you lots of prayers and good thoughts.
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  • kristinem17kristinem17 member
    I am so very sorry to hear this.  ((Big Hugs)). 
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  • CornflakegrlCornflakegrl
    I am so sorry.
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  • *shortie*shortie
    I'm so so sorry. 
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  • Lucky428Lucky428
    I could have written this post last year.  It also happened to me on Christmas Eve.  I wish I could race over there and give you a giant hug.  I am so terribly sorry, hun.  You are in my prayers.
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  • mchell9mchell9 member
    I am so sorry- thoughts and prayers are with you.  ((HUGS))
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  • MrsDCruzMrsDCruz member
    Oh no!!!!! I am so sorry.... Sad
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  • mrs.viv07mrs.viv07 member
    i'm so sorry you have to go through this. my thoughts and prayers are with you
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    July 2004 abnormal pap, colposcopy and LEEP procedure ~ paps every 3 months all normal for 1 year
    2006 all clear to start TTC
    HSG Nov 2007 ~ all normal except mild left tube blockage
    BFP #2 Dec 2007 EDD sept 3 ~ missed m/c ~ Feb 14 2008 ~ 9wk 2d D&C
    BFP #3 Apr 2008 EDD Dec 10 ~ ectopic ~ May 2008 ~ 5wk 2d ~ emergency lap surgery, lost left tube
    BFP #4 Jul 2008 EDD May 5 ~ missed m/c ~ Aug 2008 ~ 5wk 2d D&C - trisomy 16
    RPL panel Aug 2008 ~ diagnosed with compound hetero MTHFR
    BFP #5 Nov 2008 EDD Jul 31 ~ blighted Ovum ~ Dec 2008 ~ 4wk 3d ~ natural m/c at home for my birthday
    BFP #6 Feb 2009 EDD Oct 15 ~ 4wk 3d ~ chemical pregnancy ~ Mar 2008
    BFP #7 May 18 2009 ~ Gabriel Michael ~ Jan 19, 2010 ~ 7lbs 2oz 21"
    TTC again since Jan 2011
    BFP #8 Jun 2011 EDD Jan 20 ~ 5wk 6d ~ missed m/c ~ D&C
    July - Hysterscopy removed some polyps, all clear for IUI with clomid
    Aug-Oct - IUI - with Clomid all BFN
    Nov-Jan - IUI - with femara and trigger = BFN
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  • erinkate23erinkate23

    I'm so sorry.  It's not fair.

     

     

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  • erpetdocerpetdoc
    I am so sorry...  There are no words to truly express how you must be feeling.  I will pray for peace for you and your husband.  ((((Hugs))))
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  • Cow-girlCow-girl member
    Oh honey my heart just breaks for you!  Im so sorry you are going through this again..  Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you!
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  • 1stTimeMommy2Be1stTimeMommy2Be
    oh honey... i am so sorry :( this is no way to spend the holiday :( my heart is breaking for you...
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  • cantytamcantytam
    I am so sorry .  My thoughts and prayers are with you.  ((Hugs))
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  • reneec1015reneec1015
    I'm so sorry.
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  • robinsonmirobinsonmi member
    So sorry to hear this... I understand your pain after seeing the heartbeat and now the possibility of losing the baby... So sorry again
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  • soontobemrsvegasoontobemrsvega
    o sweety I'm so sorry! BIG hugs!!!
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  • chutch831chutch831
    I am so very sorry.
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  • ladylaurali25ladylaurali25
    This just breaks my heart for you. I am so so sorry.
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  • Nicolina08Nicolina08
    I'm so sorry for your loss
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  • Leah&ColeLeah&Cole member
    I'm so sorry, hun.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • Leah11599Leah11599
    I am so sorry!!! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!
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  • mrstyson03mrstyson03
    I'm so sorry you're going through this. ~hugs~
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  • L2theC42L2theC42
    I am so sorry... Prayers to you.
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  • KelanneKelanne
    I'm so very sorry!  (((( HUGS ))))
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  • Kelly0615Kelly0615

    This is so awful. I am very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and DH in my thoughts and prayers.

    Big hugs to you.

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    03/09 Clomid Cycle #2 = BFN
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