XP: Baby is dying... I'm losing this baby, too

babygirlpriest · December 2009

Merry Effing Christmas!

Just got back from the doctor. Baby shows now growth from our last apt. 6 days ago and heart rate has dropped from 108 to 71. Measuring almost two weeks behind now. Doctor says it's just a matter of time.

Going back Monday to confirm m/c and a D&C is already scheduled for Tuesday. Just lost... DH is taking down the tree now...

lindsay.lou · December 2009

Oh my God....I'm so sorry.

JayandTay09 · December 2009

I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers...((((hugs))))

lax15bsu · December 2009

Oh no. No. No. No. I'm so so so sorry. This just isn't fair.... And on Christmas no less. :::big hug:::

HeatherPB1020 · December 2009

I am so sorry.

candylies · December 2009

so sorry to hear the bad news. {{{HUGS}}}

rjl07 · December 2009

I am so so sorry. My thoughts are with you. I wish I had the words to comfort you.

abtx · December 2009

I am so sorry

PeetiePie · December 2009

Oh hon, I'm so so sorry this is happening. It's just not fair. I pray you and your DH can have some quiet time this holiday. {{{{{big hugs}}}}}

Much love,

Mary

ShellShockedMama · December 2009

Oh no, my heart is breaking for you. I am so so sorry. All my thoughts and prayers are with you.

happyhoopla · December 2009

Oh, no! I am so, so sorry. *big hugs* We're all here for you, darling.

daphne814 · December 2009

Oh no!! I am so truly sorry. My thoughts and prayers are coming your way.

swanck · December 2009

Oh sweetie.

There aren't words. I'm so sorry.

Just know that we love you and are here for you through this. Hold your DH close this Christmas. We are praying for you.

Amber531 · December 2009

I am so so so sorry. Today sucks for me too.

babygirlpriest · December 2009

Thanks all. It's just the two of us this year and I'm kinda glad I don't have all my family around me. I know they want to be supportive and they were amazing last time... but I just want to wallow in my depression right now.

It's weird... I just never felt good about this pregnancy. Not saying I had some deep connection with the baby and knew it wouldn't survive, but I don't know... I just always expected the worst.

I mean, last m/c I absolutely fell apart. I was devastated over losing my two babies. This time I'm numb and just horribly depressed over the whole TTC nightmare and fearing I'll never have a baby. It's a totally different heartbreak... I almost feel guilty for not mourning the CHILD I'm losing.

But then again I've been dealing with this for a whooping 4 hours so gimme a couple days and I'll probably be a mess again.

Swede25 · December 2009

I am so very sorry. Thinking about you...

kimber926 · December 2009

Oh my gosh. I'm so sorry. I don't have words to comfort you, but we love you.

andrea z · December 2009

I am so sorry!!

ColindaP · December 2009

Oh no, I'm so sorry.

jumagirl · December 2009

Oh sweetie, I am so, so sorry. Big hugs to you today. Your are in my thoughts and prayers.

KelleyBean · December 2009

My heart is breaking for you. I'm so so sorry.

nobodygirl1983 · December 2009

Oh no, I'm so sorry. I'll be praying for you.

aksVA · December 2009

I'm so sorry

sweetbossom83 · December 2009

jeez, I am so sorry. that effing sucks huge.. ((hugs)) t&p

noellemari · December 2009

I'm so sorry. T&P are with you and your DH.

carynmp · December 2009

I am so sorry for your loss.

bebeblues · December 2009

I am so sorry hun. So, so, so, sorry. Nothing prepares u for that news. You def. don't deserve it. Know that you're in my t&p's. Big (((((hugs))))))

Meghan1017 · December 2009

I am so sorry.

priya&peter · December 2009

I am so so sorry. You and your dh are in my thoughts and prayers. No one should have to go through this but especially at christmas. ((BIG HUGS))

lisseee · December 2009

What an awful thing to go through on Christmas Eve. I'm so sorry! I'll be thinking of you...

((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))

jennsadye1979 · December 2009

Aww hon, I am so so sorry you have to go throgh this again, I am beyond words. Please take care, and we are here for you whenever you need to talk. ((Big Hugs))