I was flipping out, very nervous for my PP check-up with my episiotomy and all, I didn't feel like things were healed but it turned out that I was fine and I just have to get used to the new way things feel with the scar tissue and all.
So after a successful vaginal exam, speculum and all, I was ok with the idea of trying sex for the first time... yikes...
Well it hurt pretty bad for about 30-45 seconds and I was ready to call it quits but I waited it out and I'm glad that I did! It was fine! It felt like normal so it was a success ![]()
AND... I'll go ahead and share this which is totally TMI but hey maybe it will be encouragement to others. I was petrified that I'd be "loose" now after giving birth and that sex wouldn't be as good for DH, well let me tell you that the man actually orgasmed twice in a row, back to back, which has never happened to him in his life EVER! So obviously it must be feeling just fine for him lol! My fears were put at ease obviously ![]()

Broken boob FFing, babywearing, co-sleeping, PPD warrior,colic survivor, proud WAHM!


Re: PP sexy time= success AND a TMI share ;)
LOL we lucked out barely, he literally started screaming seconds after we were done... I was like "Thank you Holden for giving mommy and daddy some "personal time" before you decided to have a fit" LOL
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well GL to you!! Yes I asked DH how it felt afterward and he promised to be honest with me because I was so afraid that it would be different now and not as tight and not as good. He told me that he didn't notice a difference AT ALL and that it was great. So I am very happy about that!
Momma Maven In The Making!
Momma Maven In The Making!