Babies: 0 - 3 Months

First PP sex last night

I have my 6 week checkup on Friday, but we broke down last night and had sex.  It hurt a little at first, but we just went slow and let my body adjust.  The act of having sex felt great - I missed that closeness.  But I was disappointed in how I actually felt - it's like I'm not as tight as I was before.  And I wasn't even close to getting off.  So, very mixed feelings about the experience... I hope it gets better!

Did anybody else have a similar situation that got better??

Re: First PP sex last night

  • Yes, we did. Sex was so unfulfilling for the first while. I'd say it's slowly getting better but still no where near where we were before conceiving (the first time).

    My thought is that you're exhausted and quite frankly thinking about babies all day isn't that great for the libido...lol

    Time will change things, just keep doing your kegals.

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    I have my 6 week checkup on Friday, but we broke down last night and had sex.  It hurt a little at first, but we just went slow and let my body adjust.  The act of having sex felt great - I missed that closeness.  But I was disappointed in how I actually felt - it's like I'm not as tight as I was before.  And I wasn't even close to getting off.  So, very mixed feelings about the experience... I hope it gets better!

    Did anybody else have a similar situation that got better??

    I had pretty much the same experience our first time and then shortly after I got my period so we haven't tried again since.  I told DH we can only "do it" on his nights getting up with DD because on my nights, if I'm in bed, all I want to do is sleep!!!

    DD conceived naturally in 2009.  TTC #2 since August 2010.  Praying for guidance as we decide what's next.

    When the world says, "Give up,"

    Hope whispers, "Try it one more time."

     ~Author Unknown

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