TTC After a Loss

It is now confirmed an ectopic

::taking deep breaths::

I'm still not going to let it ruin my good spirits and my holidays.

OK, so I won't lie, I'm freaking out a bit.  My numbers are going up (which can be expected from the shot) but it's now day 6 and they are still going up, and I just wish this fuuucking cramping would stop.  The docs are saying that as long as it's not the severe pain I was having when I lost my left tube then we should just wait, no point in having surgery if it's not needed and if the tube is affected there is nothing they can do about it.

If this is tubal and something happens to my fallopian tube then this is it.  Seriously, this would be it.

::ok, deep breaths again::

Can anyone tell me everything is going to be ok? 

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  • I'm praying so hard for you that everything is going to be ok. As long as the doctors are on top of everything, I'm sure you and your tube will be a-ok.

     ((hugs))

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  • Honey, oh my god. Everything is going to be okay, I demand it. I am so sorry that this is happening to you.
  • I'm sending good thoughts your way that everything will be okay.  Did they give you a methotrexate injection?
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  • Oh hon, I'm so so sorry. I am praying so hard for you right now. Everything will be OK. You & the doctors are on top of it.
  • oh no, i'm sorry.  everything will be ok. 
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  • I am so sorry you are going through this right now. As long as your dr.'s are right on the ball then try to trust them.  You will get through this- sending you ((BIG HUGS)).
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  • I am so sorry this is happening to you... (((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))  Please keep us updated when u can... Your in my thoughts and prayers!!!!

    Also make sure your DR. keeps up with you!!!!

  • Oh hun, I am so sorry. I am praying and praying for you that everything is going to be okay. It has to be. (((BIG HUGS)))Left HugRight Hug

  • I'm so sorry you are going through this... again.  :::hugs:::
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  • Oh girl I am so sorry to hear that.  {{hug}}  You have been through so much.  My T&P are with you girl...
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  • Oh I'm so sorry. ((BIG HUGS)). You're in my prayers. 
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  • :::takes str8ota's hand:::

    It'll be okay!  It's a different pain than last time.  This time the meds will do the trick and you will be okay.  And then you will be able to get right back on the TTC bandwagon.

    And if it makes you feel any better I had a really weird dream about you last night.  lol

    (((big hugs)))

     

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  • Oh honey, I am so sorry.  Sorry that it's like this and that you're scared.  I'll say a prayer that everything is going to be fine and that the cramping stops. 
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  • Oh no....don't worry. The docs are not going to let you lose another tube. Keep on top of them for sure. Can they give you another shot?
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  • Oh criminy dutch.  Can't you catch a break?

    I'm sorry.  I'll keep you in my prayers as well.  :(

  • I am in the same situation now kindof, waiting to find out if its ectopic and then waiting for the shot

    I have no answers for you as I probably have the same questions.  All I can say is that I am sorry you are going through this, it is not fair.  If you want to talk, I am here.  It is going to be ok, it is just a bumpy road to OK :)

  • I am so sorry that you are going through this.  I'm sure you are very scared.  Your doctor is going to take good care of you,and if ever you feel something isn't right you call right away.  Thoughts and prayers to you. Everything is going to be ok.  Hugs.
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  • Thinking of you and sending major thoughts and prayers!
     
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  • I've been there and what you are going through is some scary stuff. Just relax as much as possible and pay close attention to your body. My doc said if the numbers didn't start to drop within two weeks they would give me another shot. Hopefully they have given you some sort of timeline and this will all be over soon. T&P.
  • I am so sorry that you are going thru this again. You are in my thoughts and prayers.  I am so glad the drs are staying on top of this and I pray that you will not need surgery.   BIG hugs.
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    I'm sending good thoughts your way that everything will be okay.  Did they give you a methotrexate injection?

    Thanks!  Yes, they gave me the injection on Thanksgiving.  I had the injection before with my ectopic but that was an entirely weird situation. I had what I thought was a regular AF so I didn't know I was pregnant, then a week later I started bleeding again (on a Thursday) so dr had me take a hpt which came up +, so I had b/w on Friday, then bw on Monday, which on Tuesday they confirmed I needed to go to the ER for the shot.  I was there all night because they were running tests to make sure, got the shot early Wednesday morning, Thiursday morning I was having emergency surgery.  

  • Oh sweetie, my heart is breaking for you.  This is so outrageously unfair.  I am praying for you and your tube.  ((((hugs))))
  • Oh, honey, I'm so sorry you have to go through this.  I'm hoping that everything will be okay.

    You know that we are here for you.  (((Hugs)))

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  • I have faith...faith that you are going to be fine.  Faith that the meds will work.  Faith that this will soon be over and that you will walk away with an intact, functioning, beautiful tube. 

     

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  • Oh honey I am so sorry.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers.  I am sure your Drs will keep an amazing eye on you.  ((hugs((
  • I'm so sorry you have to do this a second time.
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  • I am so upset for you....but please hang in there....and I am hoping everything works out....hugs...
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  • My thoughts are with you, I am so sorry this is happening, I am praying for your tube!! Big Hugs!!
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  • Oh, no.  I'm so sorry.  I'm really pulling for you.  Honestly, given the stakes involved, I think I might see another doctor just to be sure you're comfortable with the decision to wait it out.
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  • I'm keeping you in my prayers. I'm so sorry you're going through all of this.
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  • I'm so sorry you're going through this. Sending hugs and prayers your way.
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  • Great big hugs to you. (((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))

    Lot's of t&p's coming ur way.

  • Oh honey, i'm so sorry! I'm saying a bunch of prayers for you today!
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  • I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I would also consider getting a second opinion -- just to make sure that everything is ok.
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  • i'm so sorry hun. this must be an incredibly scary and difficult time for you. i pray that everything works out well, and i pray that you can find some peace and comfort during this time. my thoughts are with you.
  • Thinking of you and saying an extra prayer everything turns out ok
  • I had the same fear last cycle (I lost my tube about a year ago).  We never did confirm exactly where it was and that fear is awful.  Tubal seem to be the ones we hear about the most, but it could be anywhere.  I hope you get through this with the best possible outcome for you and you can keep your tube.
  • I am so sorry... ::hug::  I really don't know what else to say.  We're all here for you if you need anything.
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  • I am so sorry you are going through this.  My thoughts and prayers are with you!
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  • I'm so sorry you're going through this hon.  ((hugs and prayers))
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