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Crazy emotions

STFWIFESTFWIFE
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The hubbs and I experianced a MC about 6 months ago and we have been trying to get preg again ever since.  We finaly got two positive preg tests last week.  Im 5 weeks today.  We are sooooo excited but on the other hand so scared that something bad will happen again.  Every little pain I have I get scared.  My hubby doesnt even want to tell anybody and I want to yell it from the roof tops.  We have both told our parents and I have told my sister but thats about it.  I want to tell the people at work b/c im soooo tired all the time and I dont want them to think im just being lazy, but im worried that if i tell to many people then we may MC again.  I can't wait till the second tri so we can finaly relax.
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Re: Crazy emotions

  • CarolEvansCarolEvans

    telling ppl won't cause you to mc :)  it's all about what you're willing to go thru.  say, God forbid, you do mc again, would you rather not many ppl know about it and have a private moment or would you rather have a larger support system?  hoping for a sticky one!!

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  • alheystekalheystek
    I have never experienced what you have been through, but I can understand your reservations. Just take it easy, and tell people when you are comfortable. I am a nervous wreck too and have decided I won't shout off the rooftops until I see an ultrasound and a little heart beating.
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  • ravenmamaravenmama
    That stinks! I wish you the very best of luck. I'm sure it's very nerve wracking.
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  • ashkandiashkandi member
    Congratulations & good luck!  I'm the same way about being paranoid and I have never had a mc before.  I was the same way w/ my daughter I had in 2008.  You'd think I'd learn by now not to be so paranoid 'cause you can't help when something like that happens, but still I'm sooo worried.  I think it's just a mommy thing!
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